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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2014): She said it was your fault? Time to get the divorce papers ready then. A person who will blame you for their wrong doing is a person who can do that any time they like in the future too. I mean she's not even sorry it happened because that too would imply she was somehow at fault but she doesn't feel she did anything wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2014): When the going got tough your girl got going. I'm sorry mate but a person like that doesn't get a second chance. You were in a rough patch in your life and instead of being supportive she betrayed you. I understand that being seperated from a love one is tough but it is events like those that test a person's worth and she failed. Save yourself future heartache and move on.
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reader, Aunty Babbit  +, writes (1 March 2014):
 It must have been hard for her when you were in prison however if she still wants to be with you then she should have stood by you whilst you were in there and that includes being faithful.
I don't know why you were sent down and whether it was relevant to your relationship but as others have said, you do not have to be with her.
Marriage is for better or for worse, if she can throw away her vows when things are worse then you have no marriage.
I hope this helps AB x
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (1 March 2014):
 Well it was your fault you were in jail (presumably) but not your fault that she cheated on you. The fact that it was with a family member makes it even worse. Of course you're hurt. You don't have to be with her if you don't want.
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reader, Levsn  +, writes (1 March 2014):
Don't. Take. Her. Back.
You're better off without this women. You didn't write much, but I assume that when she confessed she never mentioned once that she felt sorry to have hurt you? Keep your dignity and stay away from this women.
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reader, denco  +, writes (1 March 2014):
Its hard to forgive someone. but remember that you dont have to take her back to forgive her. Your relationship more than likely started as a friendship. Take it back to that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2014): She blames you for not being around for her while you were locked up? Time to dump her, no question.
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