He turned down a handjob, does that mean I'm not good at it?
Q. The other night I was over at my boyfriend's place but since I was on my period we didn't have sex. We still had a good time, went out for coffee and watched a movie. Later in the night I offered to give him a handjob and he said no. His reason was ...
A. 9 April 2011: BJ's are so much better. If he rejects a blow job then it could be that you're still learning at giving head, handjobs are so boring we can do them ourselves.... (read in full...)
Has anyone else had a relationship like ours?
Q. id like to ask every one about my relationship and see if any one else had one like this before. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 11 months now, and we were friends for a few months before hand. This is my first relationship ever and this ...
A. 28 March 2011: Hey man congrats on your relationship. I know exactly what your feeling me and my fiancé are then same, its amazing how we understand eachother and how open we are, I've never had a connection like this before. Don't let it slip away man.... (read in full...)
What is love and can it survive distance?
Q. I just want to know the meaning of love. What is love in general? What is being in love? What is true love? Ive been in a LD relationship for over 2 years and people keep telling me it wont/cant work. Well we have been through a lot together...
A. 23 March 2011: Sounds like love to me. Don't pay any attention to what other people say. If both of you respect eachother and make eachother happy that's all that matters. I've been in a ldr for almost two years and have asked my girl to marry me, the way you ... (read in full...)
Tired of having sex on her terms. What can I do?
Q. Here's my dilemma: I've moved in with my girlfriend of 14 months. She's had numerous (unknown number) lovers in the past, and she has been my first and only sexual partner. I DON'T want this to be a retroactive jealousy post, but what ...
A. 10 February 2011: Just be straight up about it. Tell her you'd live to try things that yours interested in even if she's "been there, done that", sex should go both ways and sometimes do things that your partner wants, aslong as it doesn't degrade or offened the ... (read in full...)
I'm having some second thoughts about Valentine's Day celebrations, but am I wrong ?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for a little over six years and on days like Valentines, anniversaries, Christmas, and birthdays I always try my best to make the occasion special. However, over the last year, I get the feeling that these types of ...
A. 8 February 2011: Yea if she's not into it or atleast trys to put a decent effort in thebn just cancel the hotel reservation and be like " you can continue with your plans" or something its not fair to you.... (read in full...)
Not 100% happy in 2 year long distance relationship. What should I do?
Q. Okay, well I am 17 (yeah kind of young, I know right...) and I am in a long-distance relationship. He lives in a place all the way across my country. I really want to be with him but it's hard. We have been together for 2 years. We are both too...
A. 31 January 2011: Also in a long distance rElationship ( almost 2yrs ). I suggest you don't talk 24/7 an hour is plenty of time to talk over the phone, also I find it better to call before I head to sleep, that way you both can recap on you day as a started and ... (read in full...)
Most of the girls in my year smoke and I want to try. Do boys find girls who smoke attractive.
Q. Ok, I'm 14 and most of the girls in my year have smoked. I really want to take a few drags and see what it's like, but one of my friends is TOO overly protective and will tell my guidance teacher! Also, do boys think it's cool if their girl smokes? ...
A. 31 January 2011: Don't smoke . As a male I find that seeing a woman smoke is the bigggggessstt turn off ever, even if your drop dead gorgeous and I see a cig between their finger I find them no longer attractive. Makes your teeth yellow ( know one likes that) and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend calls my best friend names when I am around. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and my best mate(boy) are also best mates. However, my best mate feels like my boyfriend doesn't like him because of the way he acts in front of me because my boy friend calls him names. What should I do?? ...
A. 31 January 2011: Maybe your bf feels threatened by your best mate and is trying to show dominance by bringing him down. I guess just make sure when all 3 of you are hanging out don't be flirtatious to your bestmate( that's if you are flirtatious ) your bf will ... (read in full...)
Is alcohol really a deal breaker in a relationship or am I making too big a deal out of it?
Q. Iv been with my boyfriend for 2 years now...we were friends for much longer. While everything is fine with us, and there is no "relationship" problem, the only thing that bothers me about him is alcohol. Its not that he's an alcoholic or any...
A. 31 January 2011: From what your saying I feel you shoulkd cut your man some slack. It doesn't seem like he's abusive when he drinks, or that he's embarassing you or that he's an alcoholic. There is seriously nothing wrong with a few drinks every now and then.... (read in full...)
Adding girth?
Q. Ok so I just wanted to know if there are anyways to increase gerth, I know that those penis enlargmEnts don't work, but what about adding gerth? Anyone try something out and have good results? Thankss...
A. 30 January 2011: Thanks for the answers, yea I'm good with what I have, but you know us men always thinking we can be bigger or thicker. lol... (read in full...)
How do we find a way to work together given all the visa restrictions?
Q. I met my current boyfriend this past summer while working on a cruise ship. We are both from different countries (i'm from Canada and he's from Brazil). We hit it off instantly and are crazy about each other. I had to leave to go back to Canada in ...
A. 22 January 2011: Besides getting married I don't see how this can happen. Its harder for him to ontain a visA to canada, You could move to brasil, teach english as you said.... (read in full...)
I don't feel his erection through his pants, does this mean he is really small?
Q. I have recently met this guy online whom I like quite a lot. I wouldn't say I am in love with him since we have only been on four dates but we have reasonable chemistry and get along otherwise. We have made out twice already, pants on but I don't ...
A. 21 January 2011: As a male, I only use to get erections when kissing a girl when I was young and new to any sexual contact. As time passed and gained more experience I almost never get an erection by simply kissing. I'm 22 btw, if that helps.... (read in full...)
Everything she tells to me, she tells to her male friends! Surely there should be a difference between her boyfriend of over a year and her male friends?
Q. Ok so I don't know if I'm overreacting or if I have a valid reason to feel the way I'm feeling and sorry if this is long. Me and my girlfriend have a very good relationship, we can talk to eachother about anything, our communication is...
A. 14 January 2011: To the first poster, she tells me, well it comes out during conversations. Dirtball, ya that's exactly what I'm feeling like, more so because I don't tell my friends ither male or female All my personal stuff. There are things I only tell her et... (read in full...)
For the ladies - how long does it take for you to orgasm?
Q. i was wondering, this is for the ladies. How long does it take for you to orgasm?. I know everyone if different but surly there must be some connection. This is either Oral or vaginal i guess anal too. Or better how long (time wise) do you prefer ...
A. 28 October 2010: so basicly 10-30mins is the average for vaginal penetration to be left satisfied ( disregarding other factors like how good your partner is etc). And anything from 1-15 mins clitoral . Thanks a lot making me feel good about my performance ( time ... (read in full...)
How can I communicate what I am feeling?
Q. Ok so my gf is very vocal about her feelings and where she sees our relationship in the future...I on the other hand dont like to express my feelings too much, ive just never been accustomed to doing so, never scene it growing up or anything and ...
A. 28 October 2010: to the female reply. Yea its difficult and i can always hear he get a bit upset when i dont answer but i have told her that i dont feel comfortable being all expressive. Ive tried other means of communication now which seems to be working, for inst... (read in full...)
I want my "old" husband back, not this new greedy selfish man!
Q. Hello everyone. I've been married for about 15 months now. Before I got married, my husband and I had made the decision to wait until we were married to have sex because we wanted our 1st time to be special. Even while we were dating, he was a very ...
A. 30 September 2010: I say you sit down with him and tell him exactly what you wrote here. He will have to answer and if not he will atleast hear you out and possibly feel bad and see hes been doing wrong. good luck.... (read in full...)
Is she being honest with me? Did she really sleep with him?
Q. I was away out of the Provence working for a few months and my wife cheated on me. She says she's sorry and it will never happen again. I found out because a friend called me at 330 in the morning and said my wife was seeing this other guy. She ...
A. 30 September 2010: Dude, she invited a random guy over to YOUR home for beers???.......That in itself is enough for me to leave the relationship. Thats a total lack of respect for you and your home. On top of that they kissed, and if they had sex which they probably ... (read in full...)
How do I control my thoughts about my future sister in law?
Q. Hello, I'm a 22 yo student, happily engaged with a beatiful girl, currently living at her parents' place. This is a choice we mae a couple of years ago, because we know we couldn't get enough money to live in an apartment while we study, so we st...
A. 30 September 2010: Put it this way, if you mess around with your future sister in-law, it can jeopardize the relationship with your fiancée. Ask yourself is she worth losing the girl you plan to marry?
Secondly to fulfill your part of the contract, sheez i dont kno... (read in full...)
Will I ever get over being abused in a previous relationship?
Q. I dated this guy about a year ago.he kept saying that is I didn't date hime he would kill himself.so I dated him..it was ok @ first..he bought me nice things and treatd me great.then I told one of my darkest secrets then he told me one of his..then ...
A. 30 September 2010: maybe try talking about it with ur current bf, he will then be mindful of how he plays with you and try to avoid putting you in situations that make you remember the bad times you had with your ex, eventually all those bad images will go from your ... (read in full...)
He kissed me, what does it mean?
Q. Today I went out with a friend I didn't see for the past two months. He had called me before but I was kind of sad because I was interested in someone who didn't show much interest in me. well we went out talked all the afternoon about a lot of t...
A. 30 September 2010: Well if hes a shy guy i doubt that hes just trying to make out with you to mess around. He probably really likes you and since hes shy he didnt answer your question of " what does that mean" he probably tried to let his actions speak for them selfs ... (read in full...)
I feel like my wife lied to me about having an STD, how should I bring it up?
Q. My wife of 4 years returned from her pap smear with irregular cells. This in itself is terrifying. We found out they weren't cancer, so that was a huge relief. My question: when my wife told me she had the irregular cells, she then said, "I to...
A. 30 September 2010: Just be straight up and ask her about it. You have all the right in the world to know these kinds of things from your significant other. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend beating me--is there any safe way out of this?
Q. Ok, so I've been with this guy for 3 years, and he's been hitting me for a while now. A long time actually. After we were together for only 6 months he started to hit and it has continued these past three years. I had the option of course, like ...
A. 29 September 2010: Just break up with him , have someone near by when your doing it just in case he gets out of hand......hell even have 911 ready to dial in case he tries to beat you. If you stay with him any longer im sorry to say it but you deserve any beating you ... (read in full...)
Thanks to my ex I feel extremely insecure about my small breasts
Q. This is going to sound stupid, but I have a huge complex with my small boobs, thanks to my ex. We didn't break up because of that, we broke up because he was abusive and too controlling. But the thing is, in some occasions he bluntly told me ...
A. 29 September 2010: personally as a male....i could care less about breasts lol im'a "ass" man haha sounds so stupid writing it down but yeah...not every guy is physically attracted to big breasts even tho thats what porn and etc say......Its the same for guys tho In ... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to lose my virginity.
Q. So I'm 14 and i want to lose my virginity. But I'm also extremely scared. I don't really know what I'm scared of but I am. So I just wanted to know if there is any tips people can give me on this. Like why am I so nervous and scared to lose my ...
A. 29 September 2010: Your scared and nervous because your not ready yet...simple as that. You might THINK that your ready because all your friends have had sex and you feel like the odd one out...but trust me if you have sex when your not ready it can really mess up ... (read in full...)
I watch porn so I'll be ready for sex
Q. I am a girl teen virgian and i like to watch porn so when i do have sex ill be ready is that weird and is in normal to masturbate?...
A. 29 September 2010: Porn is like a Action Movie, cool to watch entertaining but NOT REAL LIFE. If you watch porn its ok nothing really wrong with that, just bdont make the mistake of thinking thats what real sex is like and how its suppose to be done. But hey if you ... (read in full...)
Should I keep holding out until I've worked out his intentions a little better? Or should I sleep with him?
Q. Hi, I'm hoping for some advice, esp. from any male readers, about sex in a new relationship. I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks, he's arranged a few amazing dates for us and seems really nice. BUT his friends are players, and despite him ...
A. 29 September 2010: Well if he loses interest because he DOESNT get to sleep with you then i guess that pretty much sums up his intentions. Waite it out until you feel comfortable because if you do sleep with him and get played you'll feel bad for 1) sleeping with him ... (read in full...)
Any tips for first time sex for a guy who suffers from premature ejaculation?
Q. Hey everyone I suffer from premature ejaculation and me and my girlfriend will be having sex for the first time in a few weeks so i was wondered if you all could help. I was wondered with the stop start technique how long should i wait...
A. 29 September 2010: Try busting a but before hand, so when your with your gf youll be on your second nut......which almost always last's longer then your first.....never tried it since i dont have that problem but going for round two you always seem to last longer. ... (read in full...)
6 months into the relationship and he has stopped giving me good sex
Q. I'm a 31yr old woman, with a extremely high sex drive. I'm with an older guy, well 7 month older....6 months into the relationship he is no longer getting morning wood....he thinks this is a problem. So this means no sex for me. He is not even ...
A. 29 September 2010: The worst thing you can do at this point is being in his ear all day asking for sex, dont pressure him into having sex right now especially if there might be a problem with his buddy...He might just feel embarrassed ....how would you feel if one day ... (read in full...)
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