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writes:Today I went out with a friend I didn't see for the past two months. He had called me before but I was kind of sad because I was interested in someone who didn't show much interest in me. well we went out talked all the afternoon about a lot of things. And then when we got to pay I suggested to pay half the price. And he didn't let me. And I was teasing him saying that we was a gentleman but all in a nice way. We were walking down the street who was full of people. And then out of nowhere he pulled my arm and kissed me straight away. I was kind of shocked but reacted normal and even let him kiss me one more time and embrace me. It wasn't unpleasent at all. I asked him what it meant and he didn't answer me. And then he left me in the subway and he was about to kiss me but I told him that I just wanted a kiss in my cheek for now.I'm so confused right now... he is my friend. He is quite the shy guy but very handsome. He had a previously girlfriend from what I know and I know he kissed I girl I know almost a year ago but nothing resulted from it.I don't know what he wants. What sould I do? What sould I think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): thank you very much for your answers :)
It seems it was only an impulse. He said it himself by text. He wrote me a message saying that he wasn't prepared to start a relationship with me right now and he apologised for having kissed me.
As I said it wasn't unpleasent. But that's all. So what sould I say to him? I want to still be friends but I don't want him to think that I was interested or something... because I was not.
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reader, helpme7  +, writes (30 September 2010):
He likes you. Actions speak louder than words. Even though he had the courage to kiss you, sometimes getting up the courage to say "I like you" is a lot harder to do.
If you like him, encourage him to keep kissing you. Give him a kiss! Tell him that you like him. Most likely he will then be able to tell you how he feels.
If you do not want to be more than friends with him, do not lead him on. The next time you hang out, tell him that his friendship means so much to you, but you are not ready to be more than a friend to him.
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reader, Ldu  +, writes (30 September 2010):
Well if hes a shy guy i doubt that hes just trying to make out with you to mess around. He probably really likes you and since hes shy he didnt answer your question of " what does that mean" he probably tried to let his actions speak for them selfs which i understand can be very confusing. If you have feeling for him and are interested in perusing a relationship with him just continue to talk to him and hang out, eventually he will have to say something, and if nothing results from the kiss , well you still have a good friend lol.
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