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I'm 5 weeks pregnant...am I miscarrying?

Q.   Hi everyone i have a question, i'm a little freaked out, i think i might be miscarring! I've looked online for the symptoms of miscarring and you have cramps like your on your period, sharp pains in your lower abdomin, and bleed alot for 4 days - up ...

A.   4 May 2008: Your poor thing it is so scary when you want this so much. I have had 3 children and with all i had cramps (which were the musles in and around my cervix stretching with the growing of the fundus just above your cervix i think). I also spotted and ... (read in full...)

He is my first date with an uncircumcised penis and that... turns me off. I want to break up, should I tell him why?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for a little over 3 months now. I think he's great and want to have a long-term relationship with him. The problem is, I don't sleep with my boyfriends until we've dated a little while aad I'm sure I really like them for ...

A.   4 May 2008: To the guy who is 16 sayin "now i'm scared to have sex with my gf after readin this, Man i feel sorry for you reading this because even tho i understand the question that has definately touched sum sore points with people, I want to say your girl ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin but I told him I wasn't. Will he be able to tell?

Q.   theres this guy who i was nearly going out with. i'm a virgin, but for some stupid reason i came up with this story that i wasnt and he believed it. i was just wondering, if i had sex with him, would he be able to tell that i am a virgin or not? ...

A.   4 May 2008: Your first time should be at least something you want to look back on and remember. If you feel close enough to this guy to loose your virginity to u should b able to let him know you are a virgin. I think if any thing he wood feel less awkward and ... (read in full...)

How can I stop my Husband beating me?

Q.   How do I stop my husband from beating me all the time? ...

A.   1 May 2008: Tell some-one else now! make sure others know so you aren't alone and make a plan to get out !! You are worth so much more! Be strong start living NOW and LEAVE!... (read in full...)

My wife sends dirty text messages to guys on her phone..and she won't stop! What can I do?

Q.   I found 5 dirty text messages on my wife's work phone from another man she meets now and again on her job as a delivery person, 1 message read: "Man marries deaf girl. He says we must work out a code if I want sex I will stroke your left breast. ...

A.   29 April 2008: well all i can say mate is click on my name and go to my question and then you will no what unfaithful texting is. My husband say's his r just jokes too, but his ARE'nt! A joke is "a man walks into a bar and say's". A dirty text is i need to see u ... (read in full...)

I need to go to my doctor with a good excuse for not seeing him when I first found out I had this embarassing problem!

Q.   I realised i had genital warts about 8 months ago. They were tiny, but after massive research, i knew what they were. I was obviously devestated. Over the 8 months they have gotten much bigger. I'm ver embarrassed. I haven't had sex in this long...

A.   28 April 2008: You poor thing i had this when i was very young with one of my first boyfriends. They will not go away on thier own! You need to go to the out patients clinic at your hospital and they will help you if you don't want to go to your doctor. They will ... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't get any pleasure out of sex with me

Q.   i was married one and a half year ago. Now i m having a baby boy of 4 months. But uptill now my wife has never achieved orgasm during intercourse and complains about having no pleasure during intercourse. She wants only foreplay and fingering which ...

A.   28 April 2008: i have been there as your wife is. I would suggest talking with her about some options she might think would help. Like planning a hot date with your wife so she has all day to think about it to get turned on. Let her know how beautiful she is and ... (read in full...)

I was fingered but I didn't bleed...Will I bleed next time?

Q.   okay i got fingered by my bf but i didnt bleed if we do it again could there still be a chance that i bleed even though i didnt the 1st time????...

A.   28 April 2008: Well where to start! Sounds like you are prob stil a virgin from your question. You will only bleed being fingered by this guy if you have your period at the time. If you don't have your period yet and are still a virgin you will only bleed the ... (read in full...)

How do I dump the trouble women while keeping one or two lookers on the side for sex and still stay with me girlfriend?

Q.   My love-life has been pretty hectic lately and I need some advice. I've been in a relationship with this truly wonderful, sweet girl for the past seven years. We get along great, do all sorts of fun things together and really care about each other. ...

A.   28 April 2008: I am one of the ladys on here with a husband tx cheating, you are hurting so many people for your own gratification! Please please dump this poor girlfriend of yours and let her get on with her own life so she can have some fun and love from some ... (read in full...)

She finished with me saying she has too many emotional issues from her last relationship which was abusive?

Q.   Should i wait for my girlfriend. She finished with me saying she has too many emotional issues from her last relationship which was abusive.I begged her to give us a second chance and she agreed but needs more space and time. I love her so much but ...

A.   27 April 2008: That feeling is horrible isn't it of not being wanted, but you sound like a really nice guy being able to ask for advice. It sounds to me like she has made up her mind and i don't think it is for the reason she gave. my advice would be to cut your... (read in full...)

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