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I want to kiss my friend but I'm afraid I'll freak her out!

Q.   I have this close friend, I met her in college four years ago. She had a boyfriend...now she doesn't. I feel atracted to her and I really want to kiss her...but I'm scared of myself not of her rejection...she accepts me and she's very kind. This...

A.   27 September 2013: You're so good to me auntie. I can never thank U enough... (read in full...)

I have never been unfaithful but like looking at shemale porn. Why?

Q.   I am a married man who look at shemale porn all the time, never been unfaithful other than looking at porn, my question is why do I desire shemales with large cocks?...

A.   26 September 2013: Hum...a woman with a pénis is a kind of gender trangressing and probably turns you on. Your wife could satisfy you with a strap on but if she's very shy or conservative...you can't. You're not gay you would need to have a very strong desire for ... (read in full...)

I keep waiting on ex. I hate myself for it. Help?

Q.   I brokeup with him around 3 months ago because I was over his temper. I've spent time alone since and I realize how much he never put effort into the relationship, would blame me for problems he caused. He did things that are unacceptable to anyone, ...

A.   26 September 2013: He's manipulative...I think you should forget him even if you feel pain right know. You'll find a better and nicer man.... (read in full...)

I want to kiss my friend but I'm afraid I'll freak her out!

Q.   I have this close friend, I met her in college four years ago. She had a boyfriend...now she doesn't. I feel atracted to her and I really want to kiss her...but I'm scared of myself not of her rejection...she accepts me and she's very kind. This...

A.   26 September 2013: For Tisha You gave me some food for thought there. Yes she knows I'm lesbian...well that could explain the way she acts. Flirting for fun. If I didn't know she's a great person I would just turn my back on her and f*** it. I don't like being p... (read in full...)

I want to kiss my friend but I'm afraid I'll freak her out!

Q.   I have this close friend, I met her in college four years ago. She had a boyfriend...now she doesn't. I feel atracted to her and I really want to kiss her...but I'm scared of myself not of her rejection...she accepts me and she's very kind. This...

A.   26 September 2013: For WiseOwl I'm being hostile? Well yes! You called me young lady and assumed lots of things. I'm sorry but you were annoying. I understand that this is a dubious situation. She would be my first and thats why I'm asking for advice. "She's em... (read in full...)

I want to kiss my friend but I'm afraid I'll freak her out!

Q.   I have this close friend, I met her in college four years ago. She had a boyfriend...now she doesn't. I feel atracted to her and I really want to kiss her...but I'm scared of myself not of her rejection...she accepts me and she's very kind. This...

A.   26 September 2013: Nº1 - I'm not out. My parents would freakin' kill me. A teacher when I was 13 insinuated I might be lesbian and my mom was grossed. Nº2 - My mom doesn't touch my face. She's bloody OCD. Nº3 - She told me about girls when she was still fine with her... (read in full...)

Am I crazy is he cheating and taking me for a fool?

Q.   Hi Guys and Girls A question about strange behaviour from my partner of 4 years. We live together and have done for 3 years. However I am always suspicious of him and keep checking his texts and Facebook messages. I like to go to bed early...

A.   26 September 2013: You're not crazy. It's likely is cheating. Only you can decide if those 4 years are over or not. I feel sorry for your situation but he's not respecting you much. Talk to him maybe it can be turned round if he's unsatisfied by some situation and not ... (read in full...)

How can I lose 1 stone quickly?

Q.   Whats the easiest way to loose roughly 1 stone quickly? I'm not majorly overweight or anything however I;ve put abit more on that I'd like to over this past month or so and would like to get back into the comfort zone. I'm not particualrly someone ...

A.   26 September 2013: Don't quit tea it's actually good if you don't add cream and lots of sugar. I would advice you herbal teas with a draining efect. Hydrate! Go up and down stairs...no elevator. Walk more...if you go to work in public transportation get out a little ... (read in full...)

If I'm a lovely guy then why haven't I had one date?

Q.   I've had replies from here before but nobody could suggest anything that worked so I'll try again. I'm 37 now and have never been in any kind of relationship in my entire life. No woman has ever been sexually attracted to me and I have never ev...

A.   26 September 2013: Maybe they're shallow somehow? Probably it's your social circle fault and not yours. It seems like a plague in my country. Lots of people are single until late. Why don't you try to join voluntary work, a book club...something. It might sound cl... (read in full...)

Her hugs lead to too much excitement! What can I do?

Q.   hi I am a guy and I have a girl best friend also I have feelings for her which she knows. now the problem I am having is she likes to hug a lot and for longer.. but every time I get hard on and I think she can feel... what should I do I like to ...

A.   26 September 2013: I'm not sure...maybe tighter underwear?? Oh and maybe you should satisfy yourself the day you see her...probably you won't feel so aroused. But she might like you too if she keeps huging you. Be nice to her, try to figure if she wants to be your ... (read in full...)

Why do some people not have stretch marks?

Q.   I have a question about stretch marks... How come some people don't have them? i've never seen the women in a porno have them, i know the pics are airbrushed but not the videos. Does anyone here not have them? I have them and it makes me feel li...

A.   26 September 2013: I have plenty of those too...but it's common. I guess the women who don't have them never had weight variation or a genetic tendency. Having dry skin is also a risk factor. Trust me.. I wish someone would have told me to put some cream on my hips ... (read in full...)

"I'll love you even if we break up": why would a guy say that?

Q.   My boyfriend of 9 months had a few drinks on Friday and said "I love you, I'll love you even if we break up". He also said he's decided he's too "selfish" to have a child. I didn't engage the conversation because he had been drinking. He knows I ...

A.   26 September 2013: Those are red flags...I've seen my best friend in a relationship like that. Guess what? they had a bitter breakoff. Have a very serious conversation with him...don't let him evade the subject. You have the right to know were you're heading. If chil... (read in full...)

Don't want to lose my friends but I really like this guy.

Q.   Basically, I have been friends with this boy for ages now, and I have started to have a massive crush on him. People say he would be good for me, but they never say if he has told anyone he has a crush on me too. I have got a bad reputati...

A.   26 September 2013: I got a similar problem..but I believe you can make things flow and not going on an "oficial date". Do things with him...getting out, drinking some coffee... I get nervous too but deep down you can feel if the chemistry is there. Don't feel bad ... (read in full...)

Trouble in figuring out this college girl?

Q.   There is this girl in my once a week class that i'm into and i'm pretty sure she likes me too, because I've caught her staring at me more than a few times;not that she's just staring without looking but that whenever she does and we make eye ...

A.   3 April 2013: Maybe she's shy. I know I am deep down. Probably she feels more at ease getting out with a group of people. You could do it at first time and in a next you two should go out alone so you can get to know her and flirt properly. ... (read in full...)

My manipulative friend is trying to split us up....what can I do??

Q.   I'm in a relationship with this amazing guy. we were set up through my friend and his cousin. This thing is His cousin went out with my friend but the friend was always unfaithful. She's manipulative, she wrecks peoples lives and she hurts peoples ...

A.   3 April 2013: Short and clear: manipulative and friend are two words that shouldn't be in the same sentence. Focus on your boyfriend as much as you can...try not to spend to much time alone talking to her and be very firm when she says some inapropriate like ... (read in full...)

I don't want kids and I'm concerned I'll end up alone

Q.   Feel like I am going to be permanently single. Been single 5 years. I don't want kids, so my dating pool is much smaller and even on online dating sites there are so few women who don't want or don't already have kids. Have lots of friends but i...

A.   2 April 2013: Hello, I can only tell you that one of my great-aunts (I've got 4 haha and her husband never had children by option and they were happy. This happened in a time when everyone was expected to "reproduce". Imagine the prejudice they had to endure. ... (read in full...)

Should I just try to play it down, make fun of it, blame it on being drunk and try to keep some of my dignity? Or should I try to be honest and say I put a little more feeling into all this than her, even if that will make things awkward?

Q.   On saturday I went to my best friends place, she's a very attractive woman, she's straight and has a boyfriend, but she knows I'm bisexual and single. We got drunk and I already felt like she was flirting. Then we went to a party and she started to ...

A.   2 April 2013: I'm glad I helped! Things get better when they're clear. Talking isn't easy but it's the best solution. If she's also confused about the kiss I guess only time will say what's gonna happen...anyway I wish you luck on your future.... (read in full...)

I can't talk to men, I like older men and my girl friends hit on me!

Q.   I'm getting worried. I'm 23yrs old and I seem to live mostly inside my head. I can't make a move on men (and I just wish there was a nice guy that could read me LOL). At the same time I know I'm bissexual and my closest female friends always fall ...

A.   2 April 2013: I just came here to say thanks to my first two answers! They're wise I'm thinking about it. To CMMP: Rationally I know I'm just 23yrs old and I'm young, but honestly I have this "freudian complex" that I wan't to settle down before my mother d... (read in full...)

Should I just try to play it down, make fun of it, blame it on being drunk and try to keep some of my dignity? Or should I try to be honest and say I put a little more feeling into all this than her, even if that will make things awkward?

Q.   On saturday I went to my best friends place, she's a very attractive woman, she's straight and has a boyfriend, but she knows I'm bisexual and single. We got drunk and I already felt like she was flirting. Then we went to a party and she started to ...

A.   2 April 2013: She is playing with your feelings! My best friend did the same to me. She knows I'm bi, she wants to experiment with women. She likes to flirt with me but at the same time she's in and out of a relationship with a guy and used to tell me about all ... (read in full...)

I feel I'm being pushed out of my circle of friends

Q.   Hi, very glad I came across this site. Well, there is this girl that has been troubling me. The majority of my friends are male (please don't get the wrong idea about that) and she is friends with a lot of my close male friends and my boyfriend of ...

A.   2 April 2013: I totally see what your going thru! I lost an entire group of friends because of a girl like that. My mistakes: - I confronted her (it's difficult but don't do it) -Don't freak out, scream or throw a tantrum in front of your other friends (you'... (read in full...)

Let this April Fools joke slide? Or break up with him?

Q.   Boyfriend pretended to break up with me as an April Fool's joke? Well, apparently, he said it was an April Fool's joke. Should i leave him?. I think that's a cruel joke....

A.   2 April 2013: Look I had a very similar thing in my life. My best friend last year said she wouldn't talk to me anymore as an April's fool. We were in a bad moment with your friendship vanishing...so were not friends anymore. We've been friends for 7 years! I... (read in full...)

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