I'm jealous of the time my wife is spending with an ill member of her clergy
Q. one day I observed my wife walking down the road with a neighborhood guy. they were conversing and smiling, basically enjoying each other company. needless to say I felt jealous, and I told her so. flash forward, I been coming home lately and ...
A. 9 August 2019: Hello OP,
Ask her. I’m afraid we can’t help you any further in this situation unless you change how you are dealing with it.
Best wishes.... (read in full...)
I don't understand why men cheat
Q. Why do guys cheat? Is it because the sex is no good with me or is it because hes just a man?...
A. 20 July 2019: Hi OP, I’m sorry you’ve been cheated on. It’s not because of who you are or what you do. Some people, men and women, just cheat. Some do it out of desperation for various reasons, but it’s usually just selfishness. Sometimes we gravitate toward... (read in full...)
My husband leaves our 2 children to go help his ex get their child ready for school
Q. I am a bit confused as to how co-parenting works when a man has a child with his ex. My husband and I have two children together. He helps organize our daughter's uniform before he leaves on mornings. Then he would leave early to assist his ex ...
A. 19 July 2019: Hello OP, I sympathise with your confusion/frustration. I do think you may have rushed into marriage before fixing what caused the break up. Had you waited longer, you would have found out about her pregnancy. If you probably wouldn’t have ma... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of the time my wife is spending with an ill member of her clergy
Q. one day I observed my wife walking down the road with a neighborhood guy. they were conversing and smiling, basically enjoying each other company. needless to say I felt jealous, and I told her so. flash forward, I been coming home lately and ...
A. 17 July 2019: OP, your wife is not yours to control. Your behaviour is undermining your wife. If you trust her, then her spiritually conversing with this man should not bother you. Men and women can be friends or spend time alone assisting with spiritual matter... (read in full...)
If I could see into the future and see that our marriage would be the same for the next 20 years, then that is not what I want for my life.
Q. Hi, I need help with something. I am a 23 year old Christian man, I have been married for two years and the last year has been sexless. My wife and I got married two years ago and initially I could tell that she was nervous about sexual intimacy (we ...
A. 17 July 2019: Hi there, I can understand your dilemma and you have made some fair suggestions to her, so I'm sorry she wasn't able to be open to them. You seem quite young to be married, so she may have felt rushed into marriage by her family or someon... (read in full...)
I don't get approached by the guys I like?
Q. Hello. Hope you all are alright? Well, I have had a rather complicated life and I had to endure a lot, one of the reasons why I was never really focused on guys. Well at some point it hits every single one of us, and for me it started at the age ...
A. 13 July 2019: Hello OP,
While your feelings are natural, you’re too young to believe you’ll “die alone”. Surely your therapist encourages you to be rational about it?
It sounds like you’re a good person and you have friends, so you need to be patient. You ... (read in full...)
My sister's long ago boyfriend wants to meet and talk. How do I tell my boyfriend?
Q. in high school, my sister dated a guy who loved her very much. Basically he lost his chance forever when she found out she was gay. Over the years, he had sporadically kept in touch with me, and now he is coming to the area (for a sporting e...
A. 13 July 2019: Hello OP,
I must ask: why are you meeting with this man?
You’re both presumably 40 or more years past this. What will you or he gain from this?
Your concern about your boyfriend misunderstanding suggests you think it’s not completely inno... (read in full...)
Marrying a Second Time With a Strong Porn Addiction
Q. I'll be turning age 72 next month. I've been divorced for almost 9 years now. I've had a strong porn addiction since I was age 12. I usually masturbate using busty babe porn videos at least once or twice each week. I want to get married again, but I ...
A. 6 July 2019: Hello Sir,
Whilst once or twice per week does not sound like an addiction in the traditional sense, addiction can manifest differently for different people. If you believe you have an issue with this and have found no way to curb it, I strongly... (read in full...)
We have been dating for 9 months no sex getting frustrated!
Q. I'm 29 and my girlfriend is 26. She's a virgin, specifically never had sex, kissed, or even had a boyfriend before me so I do know a lot of stuff makes her nervous. She told me all this after our first kiss. I told her I would be fine with not ...
A. 4 July 2019: Hello,
I understand why this is an issue for you, but you may find that you're not compatible with this lady. She seems to need more time to feel secure making herself vulnerable like that and you are getting frustrated by it. Both are valid, b... (read in full...)
My girlfriend ordered me not to speak to another woman I used to work with. Was she being unreasonable?
Q. My girlfriend is very possessive of me. She actually ordered me not to talk to another woman because she thinks that woman has designs on me. I used to work with this person and needed to go see her for work related reasons. I have a new job and ...
A. 4 July 2019: Hi there,
I understand your difficulty with this situation. On one hand, if you are trustworthy, you should be able to have any friend you want because nothing will ever be inappropriate. On the other, perhaps your girlfriend perceives a threat b... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of the time my wife is spending with an ill member of her clergy
Q. one day I observed my wife walking down the road with a neighborhood guy. they were conversing and smiling, basically enjoying each other company. needless to say I felt jealous, and I told her so. flash forward, I been coming home lately and ...
A. 4 July 2019: Hello OP, I understand your concerns, but you must remember than your wife is not your possession and that means you can't reasonably expect her to follow your demands. If your marriage is going through a rough patch, it would probably help to... (read in full...)
I slipped him a love letter but he hasn't responded. Is that a no from him?
Q. So I like this guy we attend same coaching classes he blushes around me and is always smiley he is quite shy I sent him a love letter and kept it secretly in his bag I told him to msg him if me like me through the love letter but he hasn't msged ...
A. 4 July 2019: Hello OP, It was very brave of you to give him a love letter, but it’s not often a wise decision until you are in a relationship with each other, as it can scare people off or be embarrassing for you if they don’t feel the same. However, it took... (read in full...)
How do I help my friend handle the grief of losing her cat?
Q. My friend is really traumatized and upset about her cat after 7 years that she had him, its a himalayan cat so beautiful such a gentle and sweet soul. I actually hate cats but this cat was really special it just liked to play and be cuddled at ...
A. 3 July 2019: Hi there, OP. It’s lovely of you to want to support your friend through this, as losing a pet can be as devastating as losing a human family member. As with helping someone through any grief, the best thing to do is to ask how you can help them. ... (read in full...)
Should pay a sex worker to just go on a date with me?
Q. I'm pushing 30 very soon and I'm a male virgin who's never been on a date or ever been kissed. I'm not handsome in any way (I'd go far as to say pretty ugly), chubby, bald, and short (5'8''). I don't have much redeeming qualities. I can draw pretty ...
A. 2 July 2019: I don’t think many on here will advise you do that, as it’s not actually going to help you out of this rut. I can understand your frustration, but there are many in your situation who just don’t talk about it and paying for intimacy will likely ... (read in full...)
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