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writes:my bf and i beeen togetehr for 6 months and his family dislike the fact that he's with me. they make him do more things for them just so he wont have time to see me. they even use me to blackmail him. they tell him if he dont do this and that then i wont be able to go to his house and he'll have to move with them to a different state. its clear to see that its causing alot of family problems for him and he's always stressing about it. and lately i've just been thinking bout weather i should break up with him. because if i do his life will be alot alot less stressfull. help! Reply to this Question
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reader, KEL.B HERE 4 U  +, writes (7 August 2010):
 not every bodys parents or family like you at first, but gradually they grow on you. and you get use to their ways. may be they think your going to hurt him, and their just trying to protect him. but have a chat with your boyfreind and explain how it makes you feel and ask him why they dont like you?. and if he could have a talk to them to explain they must get on with you because its hes choice of partner and they just need to exsept it and be there else they could lose him for good. hes parent or family can not force him to move away if he doesnt want to. try moveing in together if the time is right, or try cooking a nice meal at your home invite the family and get to know each other better.
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