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Hello. A bit about me? Hmmm... ...I'm a male (31) in a relationship and from the United Kingdom. I love music and food, I'm also an Internet addict,I guess I've just got one of those inquisitive minds that is hungry for knowledge. My girlfriend thinks I'm neglecting her the amount of time I sometimes spend online searching anything and everything random lol. I have a newsflash for her; I love her dearly, she's beautiful inside and out. I cannot imagine spending my life with anyone else. I work in a bar/nightclub party venue, so obviously I'm not an officially qualified counsellor, but I'm often told I have a sensible head on my shoulders and give decent advice :)

He's 30. Should I try to enjoy some fun with this guy or back off?

Q.   So, I met this guy and feel like there was an attraction between is. Since then, we've been chatting on Facebook and I feel well probably do coffee or something at some point. I know I'm getting a little ahead, but I've been thinking if I sh...

A.   26 July 2015: There's nothing wrong with the age gap, people who disapprove are just as you said, "cynical". I'm 31 and my fiance has just turned 23 this month (for the record anyway not that it's relevant). It's your life and you're an adult, and it doesn't ... (read in full...)

Why are (many) women disgusted by sexual interest from an older man?

Q.   At work, I have been told by young girls that some of the older "gentlemen" touch them and make passes at them (ignoring the illegal aspect, some reason why they don't officially complain), and these girls have complained to me about it, also saying ...

A.   5 May 2015: I think a man with respect for women can go a long way. As you said he is careful not to be tempted by the women and the fact he's married and appears to remain faithful to his wife sparks an admiration about him in the women. The other guys making ... (read in full...)

I like guys. Yet lesbian porn turns me on. Does this mean I might be bisexual?

Q.   Okay, so first off I know it's impossible for me to be a lesbian because of my strong romantic, emotional and sexual attraction to men. I don't have an emotional or romantic attraction to any woman and never have. I remember in 9th grade, two of my ...

A.   5 May 2015: It doesn't necessarily mean you're bisexual. From what I can gather it's really quite common for females to get bi-curious about other females. Some even act on their curiosity. In fact my girlfriend had an actual girl on girl experience when she ... (read in full...)

I like someone online but I have a real boyfriend. How do I get over this crush?

Q.   There is a lot I love about my boyfriend of 3 years but recently I have an online crush with someone from a videogame I play. About this time a year ago, I started to like someone online as well and even told my boyfriend about it because we usual...

A.   19 April 2015: Obviously, the thing to do would be not to spend so much time online if you really want to stop treating your boyfriend like this and doing the things you do. On the other hand you say you're not completely happy with your boyfriend, so that's ... (read in full...)

My online girlfriend got married, should I leave her?

Q.   Should I leave my online GF of almost 3 years, after finding out she is married just a few months ago? she has 2 children at home,and she can't really talk or email because her husband is around,and we haven't spoke by phone since January,and not a ...

A.   19 April 2015: I'd have seen a red flag if a woman I'd been speaking to for nearly three years has never bothered to meet me. If I'd found out she was married with kids and she'd kept it from me all this time I can't say I'd be surprised, but I'd sure leave well ... (read in full...)

He cheated on his last girlfriend. I am constantly worried my BF will cheat on me.

Q.   Does lack of trust in a relationship manifest itself over time in a person? I am wondering if it takes a toll on somebody physically and emotionally, ie. emotional overload, tiredness, depression, withdrawal, tension and aches in the back and ...

A.   19 April 2015: You're bound to feel cautious since he's cheated before, what's to stop him doing it again. Also, (and this is just a what if) if you have been cheated on in the past too, you're bound to be protective of your feelings and want to avoid going ... (read in full...)

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