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What's wrong with my family?

Q.   Okay I need some advice about my cousin,,shes driving me insane.My cousin is 14,I realise this makes her very confused and emotional,Im 17 and I look after her really well and I listen whenever she needs someone to talk to.I really care about her ...

A.   24 July 2010: This whole problem is a "problem" because I love my family,my extended family are unkind to my "close" family..that's why I need some advice,preferably some that doesn't involve as Dirtball..suggested-getting out of the mess-aka..leaving my ... (read in full...)

I want to lose my virginity... so confused!

Q.   Hi,just wanted to get this out as i don't have anyone to talk to.I'm an almost 17 yr old girl and i'm beggining to feel as though i'm going to die alone.I've always told myself that this would never be something I'd worry about,but it's funny how ...

A.   21 April 2010: It's probably beacuse the person tht i cared most about lost theres at 15 and put me down about it afterwards,this person seems to hav a really strong hold over me..i dont like admitting it.And then theres this ridiculous idea I get in my head,tht ... (read in full...)

Confused, am I a freak?

Q.   i am a 39 year old male who's wife passed away 9 years ago i have not been with another person since.Here is my confusion and question about four months ago i met this great looking girl at a bar she was nice and smart and everything well i went ...

A.   16 April 2010: No your not a freak,completely normal in fact,life is one new exsperiance after another and sometimes we get really caught up,if you enjoyed it then there was nothing wrong. You were really attracted to this women,and yes she is a women despite ... (read in full...)

Can a labia majora be docked?

Q.   my best friend has a quite big labia majora and a friend of us suggested her that she should put a rubber round it so it can cut out(docked),like people do it on dog's tails.is that ok?i am worried about her......

A.   11 January 2010: No No No No No No,dont let her do it,worst idea ever,that is most definately NOT ok.... (read in full...)

I'm a lesbian who wants a girlfriend, but I'm bad at making friends. How do I become better at making friends?

Q.   Sorry if this is a lil bit long.well I'm 16 and female.My problem is i really want a girlfreind,I know that's stupid since what really I should want is freinds since i only have like two,(whom I love very much..on another note) my parents don't no t...

A.   1 November 2009: It turns out that actually there's knowone even close to my age in that group,so i guess i wont be making freinds anytime soon but I'm hoping it'll be okay.... (read in full...)

A girl crushing on another girl..lesbian?

Q.   I have been crushing on a girl for a while now. When I see her I get butterflies. When I see other attractive girls at school my mouth drops open but this does not happen to guys. Im wondering if this could mean I am a lesbian?...

A.   2 October 2009: not necassarily,at an age when your hormones are going crazy theres no way to be sure,you might not feel like this in 6 months.Being a teenager is like being on a rollercoaster of new feelings,so dont worry to much,beacuse if you are a lesbian then ... (read in full...)

What are some signs that ladies give off to show you that their interested?

Q.   Thx for reading this... here goes. Lately I have been having a lot of problems relationship-wise. I can never tell when the right time is, to ask a girl out. I don't know if maybe I'm always out of my le...

A.   18 March 2009: With girls it's all in the eyes and lips,if she's watching you then it's a good sign,if she is trying to get you're attention that's even better,girls do this by blinking,biting there lips,licking there lips.There's a million different things to ... (read in full...)

I'm so tired of living with this curse, what have I done to deserve this?

Q.   dear cupid : my life is like hell . i am from a very respectful family "Muslim family" working in a respectful job as an engineer, the problem is that I am gay and I have known it long time ago... but as per my religion and traditions as a ...

A.   3 January 2009: Knowone should have to choose between there own hapiness and another's.It may seem impossible but you must follow your heart in these matters.I would certainly not tell you family and freinds about this,atleast not at this point.There are little ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my best friend I love her?

Q.   Okay so, my friend(whos a girl) and I have known eachother for over 2 years. Were besties. Shes bi and is always talking about this girl who shes falling in love with but the girl doesnt really like my friend. Ive just realized I kinda have feelings ...

A.   28 December 2008: I know what this feels like,My bi bbf got a girlfreind,I was crushed and told her I loved her,she said she loved me more then her girlfreind but didnt want to sacrafice our freinsdhip.It really hurt.I really feel for you because I never considered ... (read in full...)

Help,I want to be with my (female) best friend.

Q.   Hi my names Kanja,im 16 and I have this friend that I've known my entire life,she's always been my best friend, ever since we were about 12 people have been calling us lesbians because we hug and hold hands in public and tell each other I love you. ...

A.   22 October 2008: Thanks Hannah elizabeth thats great advice and that's what I'm going to do.(:... (read in full...)

I'm straight but attracted to gay men...I don't know what to do

Q.   Hi i'm only 16 and I'm straight,but the thing is i'm extremely attracted to gay men.I don't just mean there attitudes.The biggest turn on for me is watching two guys going at it,I feel like such a freak!I tried to tell my friend she said it was ...

A.   5 August 2008: It was in a movie that I saw the two guys together not through a window,were I come from we don't call sex scenes from movies 'porn'so I got confused as to what emily was meaning by 'porn'.... (read in full...)

I'm straight but attracted to gay men...I don't know what to do

Q.   Hi i'm only 16 and I'm straight,but the thing is i'm extremely attracted to gay men.I don't just mean there attitudes.The biggest turn on for me is watching two guys going at it,I feel like such a freak!I tried to tell my friend she said it was ...

A.   4 August 2008: Thanks everyone youv'e been really helpful, I just want to respond to emilysanswer by saying I've actually never watched porn at all.... (read in full...)

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