Is there an age gap problem if girl 18 dates 25 yr old guy? Or are they about the same?
Q. What is your view on an 18 year old dating a 24 or 25 year old, if their maturity level is fairly the same?...
A. 22 March 2011: I'm 18, my man is 24. We're mostly on the same level. The only issue I even think of is how my father would react, he just generally does not want any guy near me ever but last time I said I was interested in someone, only a year older than me, he ... (read in full...)
Why has he suddenly gone quiet?
Q. Hello! I'll try and keep this brief! I've been chatting to a guy online for the last month, everyday. It first started off with 4 emails each everyday. Then as I've been off work it was more frequent, sometimes chatting for 5/6 hours etc. He ...
A. 17 March 2011: He could be going through something right now and possibly just doesn't have the strength to carry out a strong conversation with you.
I've had this happen to me before, turns out there was a member of family in hospital.
Or he could very well ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and sex is daunting!
Q. I am 19 years old and i am still a virgin. I am ready to finally have sex but i find it very daunting and being that intimate with someone is rather scary. I have someone i would like to be my first but i keep avoiding it because of this. How ca...
A. 17 March 2011: Even after the first time this still happens to a lot of us.
If he knows this is how you feel and is still there, I think he is willing to wait until you feel comfortable about it.
If he does leave, then maybe it's for the best that you di... (read in full...)
If you're single, do you have a problem with messing around with a person that's in a relationship?
Q. I've had a theme this year of hooking up with girls that have boyfriends. Obviously, if I know, I don't really pursue anything... she cheated on him, why not on me, right? However, that won't stop me from messing around with those girls. What...
A. 16 March 2011: Well 2 men before have completely left out that they had girlfriends when they kissed me or something, and I felt absolutely awful about it.
I don't like knowing someone is being cheated on is going to get hurt/is being hurt. I would hate to imagi... (read in full...)
I think I like someone I've met online - How to meet up?
Q. Hello, just joined here with the intention of asking this question because where I would generally muse over things, I gotten to know certain people so wouldn't feel comfortable, especially considering the topic at hand specifically concerns one ...
A. 16 March 2011: Well I have that same site so I know haha.
I understand the hiding thing..
Maybe that friend who sent the message DOES know something but she's not saying?
I personally say just take the plunge. To me, having been through this, in online and i... (read in full...)
She's waiting for me to ask to be her girlfriend but I'm afraid!
Q. Hello.... i have this friend of mine (girl) and she loves me and i love her back ^^ and im soooo afriad of asking her to be my GF and i really wanna just get it over whit cuz we kinda are GFs and BFs but not official ofc we arent kissing (yet) but ...
A. 16 March 2011: Really this is just a case of going for it.
You'll be fine, just build up the courage, they're just a few words.
I used to be scared to tell a person I liked them or wanted to be with them, in case of rejection, but if they rejected me I was sad ... (read in full...)
How do I get my ex back?
Q. hey everyone i need help, My x i want him back so bad Me and him always have been perfect for eachother and he just makes me so happy but my mom and friends don't know why, they say he treats me really bad and stuff but all guys mess up sometime...
A. 16 March 2011: Whilst all guys and girls do make mistakes,
this is a bit vague, but if your friends and mother says he treats you badly, you could be blinded by your feelings for him.
If you are sure of being with him and you feel that he loves you, not jus... (read in full...)
My friend is dating a guy who does bad things
Q. Hi, im 14 and my best friend is dating a guy that isn't a very good influence. I know he does drugs, smokes and drinks and i know she does to. I don't really want her to be with him because he is such a bad influence and i don't want her to be ...
A. 16 March 2011: To be honest, you can tell her how you feel and that you don't want her to be pressured.. but from experience of my own and my friends, she'll probably do what she wants to, even if deep down she doesn't actually want to, and likely later regret it ... (read in full...)
What is he doing on facebook?
Q. Help. My boyfriend of 5 months is constantly adding 'random young girls' on facebook. Since January he has added 100 girls. As soon as he adds them he removes them from his wall, so it looks like he never uses facebook. He never writes on his wall ...
A. 16 March 2011: It does seem like something fishy is going on, even though it seems quite vague.
You should confront him and demand a proper explanation if he tries to make up some story you find hard to believe.
You don't trust him but to be honest neither w... (read in full...)
Should I go to my ex's house and tell his family he cheated on me?
Q. What should I do? are my friends right? ? My ex boyfriend cheated on me, betrayed my trust and my love for him. I loved him so much and he hurt me and lied to my face over and over. He told me he doesn't want a relationship and wan...
A. 16 March 2011: Unless the family start phoning you up and bad mouthing you for some form of lie, I'd leave it.
Though giving him things back may be good to get everything to do with him out of your life.
Or you could just sell the stuff he gave you, or give... (read in full...)
Do people put too much weight on the institution of marriage, and too little value on the PERSON they marry?
Q. I sometimes worry when I see a young person "pushing" for marriage, and seeing marriage as the ultimate goal in a relationship, while worrying little about the "issues" that exist within the relationship and on building a healthy relationship and ...
A. 16 March 2011: Your points are very valid, I'm actually quite put off of marriage due to the way it's now treated mostly.
I make it quite clear that I don't want marriage and if I ever do it will be after years in a committed trusting relationship.
If some... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision in love?
Q. I have refrained from any kind of sexual relationship with my "boyfriend" if I can call him that. We have know each other 27 years. Both went off and had children for other people and rekindled again in 2000 and now have an 8 year old. However s...
A. 16 March 2011: He seems a bit too private considering how long you have known him, and insensitive with the comments on your body entirely which I hope you try not to take to heart because he shouldn't be doing it at all. It doesn't seem wrong that you don't l... (read in full...)
I think I like someone I've met online - How to meet up?
Q. Hello, just joined here with the intention of asking this question because where I would generally muse over things, I gotten to know certain people so wouldn't feel comfortable, especially considering the topic at hand specifically concerns one ...
A. 16 March 2011: Really, just ask her if you'd like to seriously meet up, have you webcam chatted or anything? Would probably be helpful to be sure you both are who you say you are. Faking happens far too often.
For the liking girl thing, it could very well be ... (read in full...)
Why do I still love this woman?
Q. Recently, a girl whom I love went out with boy who was using her. No one dares to say hat to her but I was the only one who was silly enough to tell her the truth. She was really angried but later they broke up and she came back to say thanks to me ...
A. 15 March 2011: There's nothing more to it than you just do I believe.
But it seems like she has "friendzoned" you, it's just going to take time to move on.
Or if you want you could try and ask her out.
... (read in full...)
Doesn't anyone have any kind of loyalty to their friends anymore?
Q. Doesn't anyone have any kind of loyalty to their friends anymore? I recently found out that my so called good friend was trying to have sex with my recent ex boyfriend. And I've heard plenty of other stories about ex's trying to sleep with their ...
A. 15 March 2011: Unfortunately it seems that people aren't loyal anymore. I too experience this a lot. My best friend telling me about her other friend trying to hook up with the guy she's aware she likes.
There are loyal friends out there, you just have to be ca... (read in full...)
Do you consider watching porn cheating?
Q. How can watching porn be cheating? Random question.. girls/guys some thoughts??...
A. 15 March 2011: Everyone has different rules for relationships.
Porn watching is a normal thing for a lot of people but the other half can be come insecure, wondering why you'd be watching someone else have sex, be naked. Wondering if you think they aren't good... (read in full...)
I have a problem trusting guys!
Q. I was once in a reletionship,and I gt hurt so bad,now I've gt a problem trusting guys.what should I do?...
A. 15 March 2011: It's something you may need to overcome yourself in time.
Or maybe consider a therapist.
Sometimes it's just a good guy who can turn it around for you.
Best wishes.x... (read in full...)
When we fight boyfriend says really mean things. Does he mean them?
Q. I feel so silly writing this but here goes...I've been seeing this guy for just over a year now. To be honest I've never been completely sure about him as he seems to have some issues, but I do care A LOT about him and he does make me happy, most of ...
A. 15 March 2011: Well for one, he sounds like he has bad anger issues.
Second, you should never have the man you're supposed to be loved by, say such horrible things, and CERTAINLY not when you have low self esteem.
This could be weed related but it affects othe... (read in full...)
Six hours watching naked women?
Q. is it a problem when your man sit in front of you and watch a naked women web site for six hours...
A. 15 March 2011: Does he believe you're comfortable with it?
I personally find it to be quite..rude of him.
6 hours is also a very long time to be watching it, with you there or not.
Maybe you should talk to him about it and ask why he does it?... (read in full...)
Best friend flirts with me! How do I get him to stop?
Q. Guna keep it short and simple. How do I stop my best friend (who knows I like him) flirting with me! He has a girlfriend whom I am really close to also and she looks at me when he acts like this in a way to say WTF are you doing! I hate fee...
A. 15 March 2011: I'm afraid you have to straight up tell him to stop, it's not right of him when he knows you like him AND he has a woman.
He's acting inappropriately towards you, playing with your emotions. Of course it's not good on the girlfriend's emotions eith... (read in full...)
I like the guy but I don't want to be in a relationship
Q. i have been in a steady relationship for a few days now and i really don't know what to do. i do have feelings for the guy and like him and that but i dont like being in a relationship itself so what options do i have? do i go along with it and hope...
A. 15 March 2011: It really depends on how the guy feels about relationships or not.
The question is a little vague for me to put a lot of thought into my answer but this may be something you get over it may not be.
It seems as if you don't have that much feelin... (read in full...)
I'm dating a lovely new man, but am terrified of getting hurt again, and want to walk now while I still can!!
Q. Hi all. I would appreciate any advice on the following. I came out of an abusive relatinship not to long ago. It has been on and off for months, and I suffered with really bad depression with it at the end of last year and was off work in bed for ...
A. 15 March 2011: Well I can completely understand why you're hesitant and afraid.
If you're feeling happy and close with him, you should carry on, you should not let that previous abusive ex ruin your love life.
If you think there is even a slight chance the new ... (read in full...)
I like my ex, but I am in love with my guy friend! What should I do?
Q. I'm currently in love with my guy friend. We text every now and then. Sometimes every day. But sometimes, he just doesn't text me at all. We never did confessed to each other that we like one another. But i heard from his best friend that he said he ...
A. 15 March 2011: Well honestly if you don't love your ex, I wouldn't suggest getting back with him out of sympathy. You could resent him for it and I'm sure it would be likely to end, he could feel strung along.
As for your friend, just take the plunge and ask ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of 7 months is not into sex anymore
Q. My boyfriend of 7 months is not that into sex anymore. He says that he still wants to be with me but is just not that into sex at the moment. Its not a huge deal but I am concerned. I don't want to push the subject too much but need some feedback. ...
A. 15 March 2011: Men do have dry spells too.
Now I personally have no idea how he may feel but maybe something is underlying about this, that he doesn't want to say.
Could be erectile issues, or maybe he's worried about having sex with you, due to your having b... (read in full...)
His ex didnt want him till someone else had him
Q. So after a horrible breakup with my boyfriend of many many years I meet this nice guy at work who also went through a bad breakup. (Long story short, his girlfriend of 4yrs whom he has a child with leaves him while he's at work to come home later on ...
A. 15 March 2011: The guy seems very confused, quite possibly manipulated by the previous girlfriend.
I think you need to get away from him now, it seems like he's just confused and using you, maybe without even knowing it.
I don't see a future for you with thi... (read in full...)
Would you rather be single, or with someone you don't know is lying to you about having cheated on you?
Q. Is it better to be alone or in a relationship with someone who has betrayed you in the past by cheating, and who continues to lie about having been faithful and committed throughout the relationship? Is it true that what you don't know, can't really ...
A. 15 March 2011: If you really believe you're mentally capable to stay in that sort of relationship, only you know the answer.
I wouldn't agree with what you don't know won't hurt you, considering what if you end up with a sexually transmitted infectio... (read in full...)
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