Should I give this woman more support even though I know we will never be together?
Q. I'm wondering what I should do here. I am middle aged man who has been divorced for around 1.5 years after a long term marriage. I still care about my ex-wife though who basically decided she wanted to move to Florida and not be married any longer ...
A. 6 June 2014: Thanks. There were some good responses. I like the idea of getting Big Brothers (the organization) involved. They live in a small town though and I'm not really sure there's a chapter there. I'm also trying to get someone from her large family ... (read in full...)
Should I return to my marriage?
Q. I'm interested knowing what others think I should do here. My wife and I have been separated for 8 months now. For a year prior to the separation I tried to get her to go to a marriage counselor with me. She only went a couple times; I went ...
A. 13 March 2011: Thanks for the good comments. I'm especially interested in getting the opinion of women on this. I was afraid all I would hear was that I should return home right away and I'm still afraid that's what I'm going to hear from a lot of people in my ... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend still has strong feelings for his ex wife
Q. I've been in a serious relationship with someone I've known and have been friends with for many years. I know he loves me and I love him with all my heart but the problem is this. He is still close with his wife. Neither of us are legally divorced...
A. 12 February 2011: From what you are describing, he still has feelings for his wife. My advice is for both of you to complete your divorces before getting too serious. My guess is that he will find a reason not to do this. If he ends up not divorcing his wife, you ... (read in full...)
Is my marriage salvageable?
Q. Is my marriage salvageable? We are both 2nd marriage people. We have been together 20 years 17 if those married. We couldn't get enough of each other at first now we barely spend any time together. Sex is blahh and not often maybe one to two mont...
A. 23 January 2011: I have been in a similar situation as you but wanted to be around as a father. The children are now either grown and gone or just about gone. I felt the same thing you did. My wife and I didn't really fight a lot, we just didn't have much in ... (read in full...)
Should we get separated? We do argue quite a bit.
Q. My wife and I have been in marriage for 7 years. We have 2 kids. We both love each other. For the past 2 years we don't have much time to spend together because of her job. She run her own business. She come home late, around 1:00am everyday. I work ...
A. 17 January 2011: I agree with Aunt Honesty, but would add one thing. You two should talk about this very soon. The longer you wait to talk, the worse your situation will become. Eventually, you may no longer be able to solve the problem this simply. You should ... (read in full...)
Is he confused because of his recent divorce?
Q. I'm dating a divorced man and I'm also divorced.He's been very much after me till I agreed to start going out with him. We started by exchanging emails and phone calls daily and progressed to going out and travelling together for some days, when ...
A. 16 January 2011: If his ex-wife left him only 6 months ago, he hasn't been divorced very long. He could still be going through a transition and working to get over her. You might have to be patient with him. Have you mentioned this to him? He might not realize ... (read in full...)
We're Living Together but She Won't Marry Me. Why?
Q. I just wonder what is really going on here. My girfriend and I have been living together for a year and a half now. We are both in our mid - late 40's. I have been divorced around 7 years and she has been separated (not yet divorced) for almost 3 ...
A. 16 January 2011: Thanks for your response. I hope to hear from others as well. I'm especially interested in women's view. Just to clarify something though, I moved in with her. When she left her ex-husband she and her daughters rented a house. They lived there ... (read in full...)
We`re seperated and I seem to be the one trying to work things out
Q. I've been in a long term marriage and am now separated (6 months). The children are almost grown (youngest still has a year of H.S. to go) Over the years, my wife and I grew in different directions and didn't really communicate well. We even ...
A. 9 January 2011: Thanks for your comments. I'm especially interested in a woman's perspective. I believe we had a loving relationship when we were dating, but had a very rocky first year of our marriage. It looked like we might not make it, but then she got ... (read in full...)
The dating scene seems to have changed since I was last in it
Q. I'm trying to understand something since it looks like it may cause me a lot of pain in the future. I am now separated from my wife. It was a long term marriage (over 25 years) but with a lot of trials. In my state you have to be separated for...
A. 7 January 2011: Thanks angelDlite. I do appreciate your perspective. As I said originally, it's been a long time since I was in this game and I kind of wondered if I still knew how to play. Maybe I do. Maybe I don't. My wife and I had been very distant for ... (read in full...)
The dating scene seems to have changed since I was last in it
Q. I'm trying to understand something since it looks like it may cause me a lot of pain in the future. I am now separated from my wife. It was a long term marriage (over 25 years) but with a lot of trials. In my state you have to be separated for...
A. 6 January 2011: Am I really being misleading? I don't mean to. Nothing is serious with either woman and I have not told them about each other. I had already decided that I would tell them about each other should I start getting serious with either one. As it is ... (read in full...)
Now she spits!
Q. I'm 47 year old male and been married to same woman for 21 years. We have 3 kids together. She was a virgin when we got married. Before we got married, she would get give me head and swallow. After 5 to 10 years that progressed to giving me ...
A. 5 January 2011: When my wife and I were dating (a long time ago) she also gave me BJ. She wasn't real fond of it, but did it for me when I asked and it was great. After we married, she did it for awhile and one time she used her teeth which I didn't like so much. ... (read in full...)
The dating scene seems to have changed since I was last in it
Q. I'm trying to understand something since it looks like it may cause me a lot of pain in the future. I am now separated from my wife. It was a long term marriage (over 25 years) but with a lot of trials. In my state you have to be separated for...
A. 5 January 2011: Thanks for the responses! I hadn't thought about the three different types of women mentioned by Doublejack, but I think you have a point. I did already figure out that the woman I'm more interested in seems to be the "nesting" type and is very ... (read in full...)
I want a baby but my boyfriend is not ready...
Q. This is my situation. I feel i am ready to have a baby now, my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years feels he is not. he wants to wait until he is 30. when he will 30, i'll be 33. i already have a 4 year old with an ex. i know i'm still young, but my biological ...
A. 4 January 2011: As others have said here, you are not too old to wait awhile. However, think about something else. If you somehow "tricked" him into getting you pregnant (and I know you wouldn't do this) what assurance would you have that he would stay with you? ... (read in full...)
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