A
female
age
51-59,
*aristella
writes: I'm dating a divorced man and I'm also divorced.He's been very much after me till I agreed to start going out with him. We started by exchanging emails and phone calls daily and progressed to going out and travelling together for some days, when we slept together. He phones me daily to know if I'm ok, he is very caring and calls me all sort of endearing names like my love, my dear, my angel, my beautiful, etc.But lately he is starting to worry about the name of our relationship, said he is my friend above all and does not hold my hand in public.This goes against everything else he does and says, of how much he cares for me, how deep he cares, and all his attention and emails and phone calls still go on. Why is he not holding my hand anymore and what is he thinking. He had a bad marriage and she left him six months ago, could that be it? He is very loving in his lovemaking and sleeps holding me tight the whole night. He seems confused.What can I do?
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reader, justquestions  +, writes (16 January 2011):
If his ex-wife left him only 6 months ago, he hasn't been divorced very long. He could still be going through a transition and working to get over her. You might have to be patient with him. Have you mentioned this to him? He might not realize it is a problem. Different people express their love differently and one of the challenges between a couple is when these ways are not the same. Talk with him and see what he says.
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