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writes:hey i was just asking for help because me and this boy have been going out for a little over 11 months and we planned on moving to Virginia to live there with his brother. But now i have my doubts about going i think i am scared but in away i want to go and in away i dont and he broke up with me once before like a week after my grandpa died and i dont know if i should go or not? help me
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reader, Serinity +, writes (28 September 2007):
 I would go with your heart on this one. If you are having any doubts, don't do it. See, if you are having problems in your relationship now and you move with him to Virginia, (where he has family and friends) then he will feel like he has the upper hand in this relationship. You will probably end up feeling the same way because you will not have any of your family and friend there for moral support. You will feel trapped with noone to turn to and you will probably feel forced to remain in a relationship that you don't want to be in because of it. I don't know what kind of relationship problems you are having but if it's enough to cause any doubt then I would trust your instincts. Best wishes!
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reader, JustAskJen  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 If i was you, i'd voice your concearns with this fella. See what he has to say, you may be fretting about nothing. If you dont want to go down that road then just listen to your head and not your heart, this is a big move for you and you need time to think about what is right for you!
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