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... Send *ust Diana a private message | | | *ust Diana's profile:What Qualifies me to help people...? Sometimes nothing, yet sometimes everything. Relationships are messy. Life is messy. I can offer no neat and tidy answers.......just mere reflections through my own path of brokenness through the messyness of my life. I think to own and take responsibilty for ones own shit in life is as whole as we can ever attempt to be, which also allows for whole relating. If who I am through some of my answers make sense to you the reader, then great, if not, dump them. I cant be all things to all people. I still am seeking to be something at the best of times to and for self. |
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My lost virginity didn't matter to him but now I'm worried I might be pregnant
Q. Okay so i'm 14, and i just lost my virginity yesterday, and the guy I lost it to doesn't even care, it was just sex to him. I did anything he wanted. I just wanted to make him happy. So today I find out that he goes back out with his ex. I think ...
A. 18 April 2010: There is absolutely no such thing as friends with benefits! So perish the illusion. Go to a clinic and get a test. If you are abel chat to your folks so that they can support you through this. If you are not able, confide in a friend who can ... (read in full...)
My trust in him has been shattered
Q. Can you tell me what you'd do in my situation? It's hard to decide for yourself when YOU'RE the one whose emotionally involved. How do you forgive someone that deceived you by having a secret friendship/emotional affair for over a year. It...
A. 18 April 2010: Once trust is broken it verrrry difficult to patch and re work that foundation of security. My suggestion is therapy....becuase it the only way you are going to be able to work through these issues of anger, betrayal, resentment, doubt, insecurity ... (read in full...)
Different sleeping patterns causing problems in our relationship
Q. Ok, me and my girlfriend have been doing well for the year and 5 months iwe have been dating. The problem is, we both have different sleeping patterns. She is more of a night owl and I am more of an early bird. Sometimes she gets annoyed at the fact ...
A. 18 April 2010: er....sleep! ....Your girlfriend sounds unrealistic....and what sounds even more unhealthy is that you entertain that unrealistic attitude. Reach a compromise. decide when it is you would feel comfortable going to sleep and put aside two hours ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want his ex back but doesn't know if he wants me either!
Q. I'll try to be breif. I have been living with my boyfriend for 8 years, have considered ourselves "married" and have built a complete life with each other. We have been a wonderful and happy couple (or so I thought) until 2 months ago he told me he ...
A. 18 April 2010: Dump him. Move on. Sounds harsh, however it sounds to me like you need to reclaim some of your identity and personal power. get on with your life, irrespective of where he is or is not coming from. You will probably find that this will snap him ... (read in full...)
I like my dad's cousin who is 10 years older than me
Q. ok i have a huge problem and i cant keep it bottled up anymore i think i like (actually i dont think i like him i no that i like him) my dads cousin he is 10 years older then me im turning 20 and he is turning 30 i dont see him much maybe once ...
A. 18 April 2010: You are young. I do not think you should be obsessing about your dads cousin. It sounds to me like a sweet crush. I also hope your dads cousing has sense enough to realise this and not seduce / tempt a response from you becuase of his own sense ... (read in full...)
Woman in 30s and never had boyfriend
Q. I am a woman in my early 30s and I have never had a boyfriend. Recently, I`ve been meeting some men but I keep getting rejected because I do not have dating experience aka I have never been in a long term relationship. I have two question...
A. 18 April 2010: Come on! in response to your question no1 - yes of course it is strange in todays society to never have had a boyfriend. Question 2: Yes, it is possible to find someone who will want you. My recommendation is to take the focus off of YOU and... (read in full...)
I can't stand my roommates filthy habits!
Q. My roommate's habits are filthy and dirty. She pokes her nose,spits everywhere and is really dirty! I can't stand it. But i can't even say it straight to her. Please help! ...
A. 18 April 2010: Tell her. Be honest. If not, put up with her dirty habits! She is already freaking you out, so whats the worst that can happen after your being upfront with her. If she gets annoyed at least you would have purged yourself from the disgust of h... (read in full...)
I've finally told myself I'm gay, but I need help because everything confuses me, now!
Q. Hi I'm in my Teens and I'm Gay. I've been thinking I'm gay for so long and I've just made the step if telling myself I am gay. My Problem is that I am not experienced at picking up guys or even how to know If the guy is gay. I have friends that are ...
A. 18 April 2010: Should you tell your friends they may allienate themselves from you, simply by way of needing to process what yu have shared with them. This is normal and natural. It may be a shock to them, and it may not. It may not for the reason that perhaps ... (read in full...)
Help! I need some advice about my mothers controlling attitude
Q. Help! I need some advice about my mothers controlling attitude! I'm 26 and live at home but am currently house hunting so I'm hoping some of my issues will subside, My mum has a way of making everyone feel guilty and ever since I was small...
A. 18 April 2010: Get your won place as soon as you are able to afford it. And live your authenticity. The sooner you act like the adult you are the sooner your mother's power play will shift.... (read in full...)
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