I've just found out she had a threesome and this is eating away at me!
Q. I really need some help here. Me and my girlfriend broke up a couple months ago. I had sex with one girl, shortly after the relationship ended and again two weeks later. She found out about both as i admided to it. She then procieded to have sex ...
A. 17 July 2009: You were both free agents. You could have slept with all the Dagenham Girl Pipers, and she could have slept with an entire football team.
If you can't get over what she did, well, you just can't. It's time to move on and find someone else. That... (read in full...)
Is it okay for a 26 year old to fall for someone who is 16?
Q. I'm a 26 year old female and I am falling for a 16 year old male. I don't know if this is ok or not. I feel so lost and torn. I want to tell him that I love him and I think about him all the time, but I'm afraid to. I don't want him to feel like I'm ...
A. 6 July 2009: It is a tricky situation, and it's true that your relationship probably won't last, and you'll both end up getting hurt (sorry to be so negative), but let's be realistic here, people: we all get hurt by our relationships as teenagers. There are very ... (read in full...)
Does she not take me seriously because of my age?
Q. Ok everyone i need some advice.... I'm 22 and recently i've met a girl who is 29(the most beautiful girl i've ever met). I started talkin to her and we hit it off pretty good. A few weeks went by where we just talked and finally we got together ...
A. 6 July 2009: If you really were hitting it off before she found out about your age, there is a good chance she might come round and get over the age difference thing. After all, seven years isn't such a big gap at your age. I do have to admit that I've never ... (read in full...)
I'm a sporty girl who wants to be a bit more feminine but also be one of the guys
Q. I am so confused. I am really sporty and tomboy. I have more guy friends than I have girl friends. I can hang with the guys more easier than I can with most of my girl friends. I am 13 and I wear no makeup. I'm not fat but yet this one guy lets call ...
A. 3 July 2009: Sounds like Fred is a bit of an idiot. At that age boys start taking an interest in girls, but they don't really know how to talk to them, and sometimes the little kid in them takes over - they think it's funny to tease people. My son is about your ... (read in full...)
I've had 4 sexual partners, is that a lot for a woman my age?
Q. I'm 23 and have had 4 sexual partners. Is that a lot for a woman my age? My last ex told me during our break up that guys will think I'm really slutty now that I've been with 4 different men, but he might've been trying to make me feel bad. ...
A. 3 July 2009: Maybe four partners would be viewed as a lot in a Thomas Hardy novel, but this is the 21st century.
A woman can have had a hundred sexual partners and still be a perfectly charming, likable person, or she can be a virgin and be horrible. The numb... (read in full...)
We danced, he asked for my phone number but I didn't want to give it out
Q. Heyy I was at this dance on friday and i was with my bffl she knows alot of people so when we were hanging out with a group of people a slow song came on somehow everybody ended up dancing with someone except me and thiss one guy i had never me...
A. 2 July 2009: Don't lie or giving him the number of the local library or anything dumb like that. If he asks you for your number, just be polite and say you don't think it's a good idea. Unless he is really stupid, he will just leave it after that, but if he ... (read in full...)
Best friend told me she had a dream about having sex with my brother!
Q. Hey guys, i have a problem. my best friend and i have been friends for about a year... but this quickly grew to being best friends. Ive always had feelings for her, but she never had feelings for me... so i thought. we talked about it a coupl...
A. 1 July 2009: A dream is a dream. I don't want to say that it means nothing, but no one can really be sure of what it means. They are like clouds passing overhead - we can all see something different in them.
Having said that, it was pretty insensitive of her ... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend to go down on me?
Q. okay so I love eating out my girlfriend, I do it on almost a daily basis BUT she rarely ever goes down on me. i'd say i get oral once every 3-5 months. i've tried doing the whole "I go down on you, you go down on me" thing and it never works, ive ...
A. 30 June 2009: You could try asking her if there is anything you could do to make it more acceptable for her, but I'm afraid at the end of the day there are just some girls who find it gross, and there's really nothing you can do about it. And a cunnilingus strike ... (read in full...)
He says he's over being bi-sexual, but ...
Q. I've been dating a guy who used to be bisexual, he says its in the past and that it was just a phase in his life and i believe him when he says it but sometimes i feel that its not in his past, like when we try to be intimate with one another, he ...
A. 27 June 2009: He might be telling the truth, maybe he isn't attracted to men any more, but that isn't the point. If neither of you feel the chemistry between you, then you aren't really made for each other. Either the spark is there or it isn't - you can't will ... (read in full...)
Do men mind pubic hair?
Q. Hi, I'm so embarrassed I don't know what to say but i have to ask I haven't had sex before and I was wondering about pubic hair do I have to remove it or its okay to leave it there? do men mind? I know its painful and I don't know what to do plz h...
A. 26 June 2009: I'm a man - I like it natural.... (read in full...)
Had affairs and now I'm in trouble!
Q. Hello, I just registered on this site and I find this site very interesting with lots of good advice. Well, this is my story. I really love my wife, I love my children and my home. I recently shifted to another Ministry and I am presently having a...
A. 25 June 2009: What a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive. The best advice I can give is this: if you think that it's inevitable that your wife will find out, tell her first, and tell her everything - there is just a slight chance that you will ... (read in full...)
We are married but she still wont have sex!
Q. My wife and me have been married for 2 months now. Everything is great but we never had sex in our relationship. She's a virgin but im not. When we were dating she didn't want to do anything sexual besides kissing until marriage. It didn't bother me ...
A. 25 June 2009: Like Old Guy said, you are in urgent need of counselling. The problem isn't going to sort itself out. She might be resistant to the idea of counselling, but you have to explain to her that sex is vital in the relationship, and without it there can ... (read in full...)
I want him to go down on my more often!
Q. Ok ... here's my deal. I LOVE when my boyfriend goes down on me. I crave it and even daydream about it! The problem is he hardly ever does. He will occasionally but only when he "feels like it" even when I give him oral he hardly ever returns the ...
A. 23 June 2009: Don't tell him when you're both naked and ready to rock. Sit down and have a serious conversation about it with him at some other time, tell him how important it is to you. It's possible that he doesn't quite appreciate what it means to you, and if ... (read in full...)
Opinions on age differences
Q. Is it okay for a 18 year old guy to date a 31 year old woman?...
A. 22 June 2009: If you're comfortable with it, it's OK. If you're the sort of person who worries about what your friends think, then that's more of a problem.
If you're wondering why he's attracted to you, I can suggest a good reason: teenage girls can be a bit ... (read in full...)
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