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We danced, he asked for my phone number but I didn't want to give it out

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Question - (2 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2009)
A female Canada age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Heyy

I was at this dance on friday and i was with my bffl she knows alot of people so when we were hanging out with a group of people a slow song came on somehow everybody ended up dancing with someone except me and thiss one guy i had never met before... So he asked me to dance with him....... I said yes.... Or else i would have felt stupid. He seemed like a good guy but i really like different types of guys if you know what i mean. So i dont like him..... After the dance he asked me for my number and not wanting to hurt his feelings i said ummmm maybe next time and he was like ok. I didnt really want to givehim my number because my parents welll they dont really like guys calling me and i knew that he wanted to date me..... I have never had a boufriend before because i always wanted my first boyfriend to be someone special to me... Not just some guy! The next dance i think he will find me and ask me to dance again i know it... What do i say to him?? I also have a huge thing for a guy that will be there next time how can i get him to notice me and/ or ask me to dance??

So 2 questions

1: what do i say to the one guy??

2:how can i get a guy to notice me and/or ask me to dance??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009):

In my idea , it is better to tell him that you are still very young and your parents do not let you date or call boys.

Also this is the best thing that you did because nobody gives their number for the first site and besides this you can go dancing or other activities with this guy for more introducing each other except for going to his home or calm and quite places cause still you don't know him very well.

Hope the best

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A male reader, JSBach United Kingdom +, writes (2 July 2009):

Don't lie or giving him the number of the local library or anything dumb like that. If he asks you for your number, just be polite and say you don't think it's a good idea. Unless he is really stupid, he will just leave it after that, but if he presses you, just say "no". The only reason you have to give is that you don't want to give him your number.

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (2 July 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntjust say to the one guy your parents don't really allow you to have boys calling because they're very over protective of you and that you're sorry.

and the other guy well why not go up to him start a conversation?

take it from there... or perhaps ask him if he wants to dance with you..

hope this helps hun

pop me a message you want to talk further.

x ilovebowsandcherries x

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