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Tips to break up with my boyfriend please!

Q.   Help! ! I need to break up with my boyfriend but I don’t know how; I’m 17 my boyfriend is 18 with a 10months old baby, we’ve been going out for 6months now and at the time when I went out with him I didn’t think about the emotional problems I...

A.   24 August 2009: why you guys like to beat around the bush you want to break up with him just say it you owe him and yourself the truth be honest and end it tell him it doesn't or can't work between you.... (read in full...)

This guy I've been talking to on msn has told me to choose between him or my boyfriend! What should I do?

Q.   i have been talking to this guy for about 4years on msn and a really do like him like actually soo much but he lives soo far away and he wants us to be more than friends but i just cant see it working because of the distance and hes away on holiday ...

A.   20 August 2009: you already knew the answer girl, when you breathe or let me say sigh for which one you say oh yeah. dear you may never have a chance with the Msn's guy as you said so far and moreover A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. It's better to have... (read in full...)

Friendship or Relationship?

Q.   Friendship or Relationship? Things are never simple there is always complications in life, working through those complications is the hard part, you could risk everything for a moment of happiness. What do you do if you have to pick a friendshi...

A.   17 August 2009: ooh life always has something makes us feel in a specific way thinking most of our times what if and if only... . but what if your partner told you that he or she loves you but you don't have the same feeling is this going to ruin everything i... (read in full...)

In material terms I have everything I want, so why do I feel so dissatisfied with my life?

Q.   Hi All I am desperate and could really do with some advice. I am 41 year old male, married with two beautiful children aged 7 and 9. I met by partner some 20 years ago and we have now been married for 12 years. I am successful in business and ...

A.   27 July 2009: it's one word ( The Routine )break it add something new to your life and you will see. I always say: go on and be crazy, one day of laughing without a reason won't harm you. (be careful not to harm any body) I don't want you to regret later. ... (read in full...)

Heartbroken, confused and needs help!

Q.   My girl of 2 and a half years broke up with me for another guy who's closer to home and more affectionate. She was 18 just turned 19 and he's 24. Still I love and miss her and i dont know why. Its been 2 months and she told a mutual friend that she...

A.   27 July 2009: who doesn't want you, don't cry after. always know that you deserve the best, don't accept less. I wanted to say don't give up, try to talk to her, ask, see what's wrong but think of it is this really works? I don't think so, you know what you have ... (read in full...)

She never calls or texts first

Q.   Well here's my scenario... ive been with the girlfriend for six months, i went away on holiday for 2 weeks a month back. I called, i told her how much i missed her and that I couldn't wait to see her. We met up as soon as I got back and she was ...

A.   11 July 2009: I don't know why we prefer men to call first and start the things we are mad. ... (read in full...)

I'm a 22 year old virgin and I just want someone to love

Q.   Im a 22yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I hang out with a large group of friends and i always feel like the 5th wheel that cant roll with the group due to the fact ...

A.   11 July 2009: I'm sorry for what you are being through. I think the only think I can recommend is being yourself girls have to love you as you are. just u. if they refused u for such a silly reasons like look then you don't need them coz this is showed the empty ... (read in full...)

Basically, he's Indian and I'm Black and he's afraid of how we look together

Q.   I would really like your help, sorry about it being so long. Okay so there's this guy who I had 2 classes with last year, we never really spoke to each other, and he was just another class mate. In late April of 2008, I would notice that he would ...

A.   9 July 2009: if you like each other nothing is matter, just wait and he since he able to open his heart as you did.if not then sorry for that.... (read in full...)

Been together 4 years, no mention of love, now we're breaking up, what do I do?

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 years and best friend and colleague are breaking off. We never fought as such... we may disagree but not fights. Our colleagues/family members dont know anything about our relationship. We meet, date, everything like a couple.. ...

A.   9 July 2009: probably he gave up and said if she doesn't want me and want space then fine I have to move on anyway (just what I think) ... (read in full...)

What do girls think of a man who cries?

Q.   alright hi girls this for you: what do you think of man who cries ( emotional person) can you be with him, do you think he is weak I can't be with such a person or ... tell me, what if he cries for you, beg u ... ...

A.   4 July 2009: I thought I love him but something changed inside me I felt like pity for him that he cried for our love. is this means that I don't really love him and I just do for him to satisfy him. is this all or I really in love I'm confused. ... (read in full...)

Is she playing some game, or am I pushing too hard?

Q.   Question for the girls. What games do girls play and why do they do it. I have this girl who gives me an impression that she's game but when I act on it, she doesn't seem keen and doesn't initiate or start anything unless I do. This is extremel...

A.   28 June 2009: we like men to start thing ( call me first, aske me out,.... and play hard to get lol.... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm missing out because I'm a virgin and everyone else is having sex!

Q.   Why ? Am I missing something cool ? I mean I'm wasting my time of doing something fun because they're having sex around but me only doing nothing but crap, you can say i have plenty of time but i also don't want to waste my time right now too. we...

A.   26 June 2009:  you want our opinions we gave it to you but you seem like when you asked for the first time there was something in your head which is having sex. you don't want to listen you are waiting for someone to say do it what were you waiting for as this is ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm missing out because I'm a virgin and everyone else is having sex!

Q.   Why ? Am I missing something cool ? I mean I'm wasting my time of doing something fun because they're having sex around but me only doing nothing but crap, you can say i have plenty of time but i also don't want to waste my time right now too. we...

A.   26 June 2009: You really disappointed me. having sex is this what life for? There are many things in this world worth living for. please don't think like this way. people shouldn't think in sex like everything as it not . It wouldn't and we mustn't let it be. w... (read in full...)

I'm lost and heartbroken that her parents are making her marry someone else!

Q.   We were in love for the past 10 years,we are from different religions and now my girlfriends parents are forcing her to get married to someone, she really cant go against her parents wish and wants us to call off our relationship.Its been 10 years ...

A.   26 June 2009: I'm sorry to hear that, why haven't u go to her parents before why you let the the time passed by and reach the point when I can't say but its too late. try to do something about this people can change their mind have a talk with the parents don't ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm missing out because I'm a virgin and everyone else is having sex!

Q.   Why ? Am I missing something cool ? I mean I'm wasting my time of doing something fun because they're having sex around but me only doing nothing but crap, you can say i have plenty of time but i also don't want to waste my time right now too. we...

A.   25 June 2009: Thank god there is one man at least in this earth is still virgin lol. be proud of yourself and don't do something because others are doing it. the right time will come.... (read in full...)

Why is love judged by something other than the heart?

Q.   Dear cupid, I met a guy a year ago, kind of a blind date. We hit it off the first time we laid eyes on one another. The thing is, I am black he is white. He comes from an environment that does not believe in interracial relationships. I know he ...

A.   24 June 2009: Let him know that when he is first fell in love with you fell with who you are. people talk as long as they have something to talk about when a new subject appears they move he hasn't considered what others say this will make him stay in his place, ... (read in full...)

I don't want to break his heart - what should I do?

Q.   I have been talking to this guy I met on the net for the past 2 months. We had really hit it off. We talked forever on the phone and the net. I knew what he looked like and all and I knew he was overweight and I wanted to look past that, also he ...

A.   24 June 2009: you owe him the truth you have to be honest with the guy try not to mentioned the weight thing but tell him that you don't have any feeling to him. and personally I don't think its about you ex it seems more about how the new guy look like you are ... (read in full...)

Been together 4 years, no mention of love, now we're breaking up, what do I do?

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 years and best friend and colleague are breaking off. We never fought as such... we may disagree but not fights. Our colleagues/family members dont know anything about our relationship. We meet, date, everything like a couple.. ...

A.   22 June 2009: I agree with the reader above I know a friend a girl from UAE she knew a guy of a different nationality. When they first met he kept saying that he is lonely and need her so its about being in a new country more than a love issue but the differen... (read in full...)

I'm only used to him but he loves me, what should I do?

Q.   I told a guy that I don't love him but he keep saying he'll keep loving me even if I don't do.I asked him to find another girl that might be suitable for him I don't have any feeling toward him he is a friend he said okay we are friends ...

A.   10 June 2009: I wouldn't want for that to reach police but I think i have no choice I had talked with my father he is policeman. thanks ArmyMedic... (read in full...)

WHY can't he move on???

Q.   Ok well I was with my boyfriend 1 and a half and 8 months ago, he cheated on me and he confessed to me he had sex with his former friend, I gave him a second chance. And throughout the time people kept telling me stuff about him and what he did with ...

A.   10 June 2009: stay with him if you want to but put some conditions do not let him think you will forgive him as what he did is not okay and who loves won't cheat ... (read in full...)

I'm only used to him but he loves me, what should I do?

Q.   I told a guy that I don't love him but he keep saying he'll keep loving me even if I don't do.I asked him to find another girl that might be suitable for him I don't have any feeling toward him he is a friend he said okay we are friends ...

A.   9 June 2009: things are going worse and serious plz I need help. how can I make him stay away from me ... (read in full...)

How to tell my mother that I'm an atheist?

Q.   It's no so much of a question that requires an answer, more of a comment with follow-ups I'm an atheist the reason i don't believe in god is because the world is jacked up. I really don't believe in religion because of what it has done for the wor...

A.   8 June 2009: honey how could you not to believe in god. who brought us to this world then. think of it things are happened but that doesn't mean we have to lose faith.look around you who made all of this?!not human by sure. it's up to you but its not the right ... (read in full...)

I'm only used to him but he loves me, what should I do?

Q.   I told a guy that I don't love him but he keep saying he'll keep loving me even if I don't do.I asked him to find another girl that might be suitable for him I don't have any feeling toward him he is a friend he said okay we are friends ...

A.   8 June 2009: he drives me crazy we had talked, he said alright I'll do what you want but(nothing change)... (read in full...)

My man has no career ambition and lacks confidence!

Q.   I've been with my man for 5 years. Originally we got together as he was studying design and i was a designer. We both had that in common which was a BONUS and what really made me think how amazing our relationship was. after he graduated he decided ...

A.   7 June 2009: encourage him be always excited and positive about work.men like that, have a small talk but be sure not to make him feels that you are better. (even if you )lol... (read in full...)

I'm only used to him but he loves me, what should I do?

Q.   I told a guy that I don't love him but he keep saying he'll keep loving me even if I don't do.I asked him to find another girl that might be suitable for him I don't have any feeling toward him he is a friend he said okay we are friends ...

A.   7 June 2009: (correction) I told a guy that I don't love him but he keep saying he'll keep loving me even if I don't do.I asked him to find another girl that might be suitable for him I don't have any feeling toward him he is a friend, he said okay... (read in full...)

10 reasons its her fault the relationship didnt work

Q.   Here are the top 10 reasons that it's HER fault the relationship didn't work. Reason 1: You aren't cool enough. Guys love cool girls, its probably our favorite characteristic for a girl we want to keep around longer than 2 hours. The problem...

A.   6 June 2009: women are women and men are men we can't be you and you can't be us live with it... (read in full...)

He cheated, I've cheated, where do we go from here?

Q.   Over the past 6 months, my husband and I have been at each other's throat. This past February, my husband moved into the basement. We didn't go to counseling, we just continued to exist. Finally, we made a decision to get in counseling in mid-May ...

A.   6 June 2009: sorry but if there is no trust in the relationship there can't be hope to continue ... (read in full...)

How do I get out of this friends' zone?

Q.   So i've liked this girl for awhile now. We started out as friends what I usually do with girls. I don't fall for someone till I get to know them. We've been friends for about a year now, these feelings for her didnt start right away. I told her one ...

A.   5 June 2009: she thinks that you'll be always there when things become worse. I assure you if she notice an ignoring from you in aday she will start running after you. ... (read in full...)

He was a multiple cheater, we broke up, I insulted him, but feel I could forgive him, why?

Q.   Why am I still finding it hard to forgive myself and still blaming myself for the failed relationship since 2months with my boyfriend? A summary of what led it, was he had cheated before, but we settled it and lack of time and the way he treated m...

A.   4 June 2009: Don't feel guilty no one is perfect.He didn't blame himself for cheating on you and you blame yourself for some words. women are emotional creatures we said to someone we will never forget you and in that moment in our hearts say I can't hate you. ... (read in full...)

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