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Is she playing some game, or am I pushing too hard?

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Question - (28 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2009)
A male Anguilla age 36-40, *rivia writes:

Question for the girls.

What games do girls play and why do they do it. I have this girl who gives me an impression that she's game but when I act on it, she doesn't seem keen and doesn't initiate or start anything unless I do. This is extremely frustrating and was wondering is there a valid reason for her behavior or am I pushing her too hard too fast?

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A male reader, trivia Anguilla +, writes (29 June 2009):

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Thanks girls for the advice, however i've recently found out that she has infact hooked up with some guy over the weekend, not sure why but obviously it wasn't her being a challenge, she obviously wasn't that interested even telling me she was the day before. You girls can be very confusing and frustrating ;) Thanks though

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A female reader, josephy France +, writes (28 June 2009):

josephy agony auntwe like men to start thing ( call me first, aske me out,....

and play hard to get lol.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009):

Seems like she wants you, but wants you to work for her attention. Like she is testing you as to how much you want her. Its normal behaviour for younger women as the thrill of being chased just as men love to do the chasing.

She may be waiting for you to initiate things as she doesn't want to appear too forward. In dating, women are torn between appearing too prude or too slutty, so she is measuring what you want from your advances IMO. Give her a chance and have fun with it.

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