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He masturbated with my photos now he's avoiding me, why?

Q.   I have a friend who has been first my coworker and then my friend for some time. He has been a big flirt, but had a girlfriend who dumped him 6 months ago. He has started to waste time with girls as a gigolo he says. He started flirting on me. ...

A.   8 September 2011: My experience would be that there was a reason his gf broke up with him, and he is afraid that if he got with you, then you would leave him for the same reason. At least that is what I think... (read in full...)

To tell? Or not to tell? I cheated twice on him

Q.   Hi everyone! I've asked two questions before about my relationship with my bf of 4 1/2 years. Well I have another question for everyone. I cheated on my boyfriend twice wit 2 different guys. SHould I tell him? I mean I know if I tell him everything ...

A.   8 September 2011: hmmm Well, the fact that you dont feel guilty about is certainly questionable. But do you still love him? I would imagine that most cases a person would cheat on another person would be because thy feel like their partner is not providing so... (read in full...)

I think I like someone I've met online - How to meet up?

Q.   Hello, just joined here with the intention of asking this question because where I would generally muse over things, I gotten to know certain people so wouldn't feel comfortable, especially considering the topic at hand specifically concerns one ...

A.   15 March 2011: Right, well first of, distance is one thing, but if your both in the same country, then what on earth is the problem? "Trains are expensive", "bus rides take too long", man up mate, if it does take long to go there by bus, then by all means go, one ... (read in full...)

I jokingly asked a girl to be my g/f, she accepted and I already have a girlfriend!

Q.   Well uhm, I am having a bit of a problem, and I dont know how to fix this, so Im hoping I can find people who can help me with this problem. I have a girlfriend, and I have been with her for a year, we have had our fun and everything.. but...

A.   28 November 2010: Because she is Romanian... (read in full...)

In love and now we're "kissing cousins"

Q.   I'm 21 years old and i'm in love with my 15 year old cousin. I have told her how I feel about her and she told me she feels the same way. I was shocked when she told me she's in love with me too. We are now kissing cousins. I know my feelings for ...

A.   25 October 2010: I say go for it love is love heck, you cant pick your family right? if you two like it, do it, end of story man... (read in full...)

15 and pregnant...parents don't know..

Q.   I am 15 and 2 months pregnant.. i have told my boyfriend of 9 months this and he is happy but scared like me. but i have a big problem. my parents do not know and his don't either. and this baby doesn't belong to my boyfriend. i started seeing ...

A.   25 October 2010: Honestly, as happy as you are, this is irony in the shape of that child. You should never have cheated to begin with, it doesnt really matter, and since its not really your boyfriend's, dont drag him to hell with you, as far as anyone else is ... (read in full...)

An old boyfriend wants to have sex with me... but we're BOTH married!

Q.   I have been married to my husband 10 years and he is great to me. This last year an old boyfriend from over 15 years ago found me over the internet and we have become friends. He was my first ever boyfriend. He says he is happily married to his ...

A.   5 September 2010: Ok, well, men have some sexual urges, I mean both men and women can be turned on by people other than their partners. Just ask my ex girlfriend and my ex bestfriend. But I dont think its much of a cheating thing, its just a sexual fantasy that just ... (read in full...)

He gets offended when I cannot cum!

Q.   My boyfriend and i have a great relationship. We do have sex, a lot. He has had many other partners, where as i have only had one other. My problem is that i cannot cum! He gets really offended and things it's his fault, but he does turn me on- i ...

A.   5 September 2010: Ok, well, I a dudes ego in sex usually revolves around if the girl cums, other than having a long penis. But as it sounds, it neither your faults, you just need to explain to him that you have difficulty cumming. I mean have you ever cummed before, ... (read in full...)

Should I do it? Should I cheat?

Q.   Should I do it? Should I cheat? In desperate need of advice. Please help. Hello aunts. I really need some good honest advice. As weird as this might sound, preferably from someone who has cheated before. Let me give you a quick background: I ...

A.   5 September 2010: Ok, well, Im not old enough to cheat on a wife, but a girlfriend, I did, and Im not proud of it, but it was for the same reason you are trying to justify. That she could be doing things behind your back, and you have to set the balance between the ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's guy friend!

Q.   So my girlfriend has a guy friend that she grew up with since she was like a few months old. She always tells me he is just friends. i saw a text from this guy a while back saying "im craving you rn". so im like wtf? she said he was drunk and i ...

A.   5 September 2010: I have the exact same problem here man. I understand what might be going through your head, the thoughts of this boy and your girl doing it behind your back, it sucks a lot. And in my opinion, if another person say "if she didnt love you she'd be ... (read in full...)

How often does a healthy couple have sex?

Q.   My boyfriend says we need to have more sex, and I thought we had sex a lot (about 4- 6 times a week). I just wanted to know how often do other couples (do you) have sex? And how long have you guys been together? Did you have more when you started ...

A.   28 July 2010: Well, I think you should talk to him about it, like a number of people already said, look for compromise, sex is great, but if you think its too much for you, then dont hold it in, tell him about it.... (read in full...)

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