14 and confused about my sexuality
Q. Im 14 and in the Past few months I have been masturbating and suddenly feel an attraction towards gays and orgasm more quickly. Yet at the same time I have never had a crush on a boy and have had many over girls and regularly get erections thinking ...
A. 25 January 2013: I very much agree with So Very Confused... also sometimes at your age it's about how taboo something is sometimes that gets you excited over the idea. Not saying being gay is taboo, but what I'm saying is anything out of the normal can peak the ... (read in full...)
Why don't any girls pay attention to me?
Q. Ever since I hit 15 my teenage hormones kicked in and my personality took a complete 360. Before I hit 15 girls thought I was really cute because of how happy, playful, and funny guy I was, not to mention I had a tough personality. But then I ...
A. 25 January 2013: Guys don't finish with puberty until their early twenties... until then it can be extremely awkward for most. Sometimes because of your loss of confidence because of it it can effect your personality and your outlook on life... being upset or anxio... (read in full...)
Do you think he wants to break up or work things out?
Q. Let's start with saying I am gay. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 6years he llived 60 miles away so we would meet up or I would go see him yes you would call it a long distance relationship . He got a job closer to we're I live ...
A. 24 January 2013: Sometimes moving in together puts a strain on the relationship that was unforeseeable. You could spend years with someone, and you could spend weeks at their place but when you finally have to call your space someone else's space, you start thinking ... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me any hot make out advice?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm a 17 year old girl. I have a party coming up and my crush is going to be there and something tells me there's going to be some action. Does anyone have any hot make out advice that guys like, but nothing too dirty cause it's...
A. 24 January 2013: When I get my tongue in my boyfriends mouth, I lick the inside row of his top teeth, just once, in one direction, subtle, to the point and it drives him mad.... (read in full...)
How important is oral sex?
Q. The basic question here is how important is oral sex to you? I'm aiming this at both genders just to get an overview from both sides. I've been with some people who absolutely love oral and others who aren't really that interested in it and i'd li...
A. 23 January 2013: I think oral is kind of a hit or miss with me... Sometimes it's exactly how I need it, how I want it... but other times it's a mess, it's done wrong, and a complete turn off from the idea of even getting to the sex. Also there are times when I... (read in full...)
Could he really be holding on even though he can only communicate with my friend in secret? He says he regrets trying to break up with her!
Q. My friend's boyfriend broke up with her because he was told to do so. My friend didn't agree and now they are in a stage where they are not bf/gf but secretly communicate like they are still together. The guy said he still loves her and that he's ...
A. 3 September 2012: I'm not really sure of your situation. He could still want to be with your friend even though he broke up with her. But I'm not sure what that has to do with you though...... (read in full...)
Would a woman be irritated by my bending penis?
Q. my penis is bending (as a arc) left side always...it will irritate a women?...
A. 3 September 2012: One in 4 men have a noticeable curve in there penis. If your with a womanthe only suggestion I have is to not have relations with a woman whom you don't even feel comfortable discussing the issue.... (read in full...)
How can I boost my self esteem?
Q. I've been having this challenge of self confidence to go after girls that I like. I always feel they will turn me down and hence I will be ashamed. Now I need a wife to marry but my greatest enemy of low self esteem is at it again. Pls help me....
A. 2 September 2012: I can't stress enough how the most attractive thing a guy can have isn't a gorgeous face, or nice things... it's the way he feels about himself that makes a man attractive. If you like yourself enough to think, "Hey, I'm a catch, I'm awesome." Girls ... (read in full...)
When do I ask where we are in a relationship?
Q. I've started seeing a girl that I've been good friends with over the last 6 months. We've only been seeing each other for about 6 weeks and been official for a few. However, we are both working abroad as teachers and our contracts end in about 5 ...
A. 2 September 2012: If you're wondering, chances are she's wondering too. I think you should just ask. I don't know her, but I figure she might react better if you bring it up kind of nonchalantly instead of trying to do the whole, "Listen, we need to talk..." ... (read in full...)
Was she always that person and I just didn't see it?
Q. Last night me and the boys were out and we saw a girl who looked familiar to someone we went to school with. Well, it was confirmed when she smiled and said hi to us. She looked a lot different to how I remember her! I don't want to sound rude bu...
A. 1 April 2012: I think you're confused... I don't think she's the GIRL you knew... She has become the woman she was meant to be. That's the noticeable difference.... (read in full...)
Can men and women really be just friends?
Q. I have got my girlfriend over 4 times with guys on a compromising positions, when I ask her about these guys she says they are her friends only and nothing else. Okay my problem is I told her severals times that I personally don't believe on such ...
A. 29 March 2012: I have plenty of guy friends where its really nothing more. There may even be some sexual joking, but its strictly poking fun. There has never been a time where I thought of such guys as more than friends or had they thought of me as such.
But I do... (read in full...)
Has a woman ever had you under a spell?
Q. So have you ever been under a woman's spell? I mean, have you ever been in a relationship with a woman whom you knew was bad for you, but you couldn't break away? I had this kind of relationship last year. A woman I was seeing had me under some...
A. 29 March 2012: I can't say as a female, I've felt that for another woman... but I had a thing for a guy because he treated me horribly. I felt like at that point in time, almost like I deserved it. Like when he put me down, or told me to do things that I normally ... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about being a guy with feminine features
Q. I'm a bit insecure about being a guy with feminine features, and I'm hoping for some advice. I'm 23 years old and outside of one time in which a girl I'd consider really attractive initiated a make-out session with me in a club, I have pretty much...
A. 5 March 2012: I would never recommend any plastic surgery because its plastic, fake. The best way you can seem more masculine without surgery is facial hair. Find a good look for your face, something you like and compliments you. I'm figuring if you want somethin... (read in full...)
I don't care about anything, is this normal?
Q. It it okay to have not care about anything? Its like i've lost interest in things over the years. It all started when I got rejected by my fist Love and ever since then I have been on a downward spiral with my inner self. At first I started to hate ...
A. 5 March 2012: It's not not normal. I think everyone feels kind worthless sometimes, even for long lengths of time at some points of their lives. How I think is an easy way to kick yourself out of it? Just that, kick yourself out of it. My friend used to have thi... (read in full...)
Husband mimics everything I do like he's a parrot!
Q. My husband mimicks everything I say or do to the point where im just fed up listening to him. If I sneeze (i sneeze a lot!) he acts me and laughs. If I scratch my nose or just move some way he copies me. And he mimicks everything I say...
A. 4 March 2012: Is it intentional? Does he know that it bugs you?
If it's a sattire, then that's not very cool.
If it's something subconcious it's probably because we tend to mick people we like.
Immitation is the sheerest form of flattery.... (read in full...)
Does a guy's penis have a mind of its own?
Q. Okay I know this is a stupid question, but I've always wondered this. I almost asked a guy friend, but didn't because I didn't want him getting the wrong idea so here goes: Does a guys penis have a mind of it's own? Do you move it like you move a ...
A. 4 March 2012: From what I know some muscular movement is involentary but for the most part you can move it back and forth if you have enough pelvic muscles; this only really works with a boner.
But the boner isn't something that can move like a snack or slit... (read in full...)
Is it right for me keeping my commitment to my wife and god that I will only love my wife even if it destroys my inner self?
Q. Hello everyone I am 30 years old. I have been married to the love of my life for 6 years and we grew together since childhood. I love my wife; however, lately a close friend of ours for 6 years has been the emotional support for me. She practices ...
A. 4 March 2012: Isn't it possible to love everyone you love without sex? Or is it that you just want the sex, not the emotion? If I were your wife I'd be a bit concerned on how I had failed my husband so. You did make a commitment to your wife, and you're speaking ... (read in full...)
B/f treats me like I'm his property, not his girlfriend
Q. Dear cupid, I have been seeing my bf for about a year and a half now and things have been changing. In school he always downgrades me infront of hits mates like grabs my butt.. I find it very uncomfy. In school he always acts like I am his property...
A. 4 March 2012: This could not be the case but it looks as if he's picking up emotionally abusive behaviors... These people get joy out of distancing people from others who love them because they can as well as denying their partners rights and property just ... (read in full...)
Really like this boy, but don't know if he likes me back!
Q. I really like this boy but I don't know if he likes me back. I only have one lesson with him and at the beginning of the year I sat near him ( there was a seat inbetween us and only one other person on our table) and we talked and the next week he ...
A. 29 February 2012: It would seem he likes you. But you're both young so it's not like you have sooo much to do with it even if you were to engage in a labeled relationship with this boy. But I do suggest that because you are so young, try to be up front and forward ... (read in full...)
My head is screaming that my boyfriend shouldn't treat me like this!
Q. Quick background: Both 17, together 2 years. Boyfriends best friend Craig. Other close friend Jake. Me and Craig are close, like siblings. We all play Xbox together and my boyfriend is extremely horrible to me on it but completely different in per...
A. 28 February 2012: Seems your boyfriend has a slight addiction to gaming. I'm not talking about the light addiction which is when someone jokes about how maybe they drink too much caffine or they have an addiction to somethinnng silly. A real addiction conflicts with ... (read in full...)
How can I get my buddy to stop bugging me about my girlfriend?
Q. Hello Dear cupid-ers! So, I have a question for ya'll I would ask my friends but .. Its about them really haha! So, Ive had a girlfriend for the past year and a half and i love her with all my heart, she is the one for me without a doubt and we r...
A. 27 February 2012: I think he's jealous. It sounds silly but it's probably true. People only really hate things they fear. Seeing you with your girlfriend happy could make him jealous because hes either afraid of you not spending enough time with him or the fact that ... (read in full...)
What is a "hell-bent" heart?
Q. I was listening to the song by Lee Ann Womack, "I Hope you Dance". In the song are the lyrics: "Livin' might mean takin' chances, but they're worth takin' Lovin' might be a mistake, but it's worth makin' Don't let some hell-bent heart leave y...
A. 27 February 2012: Hell bent heart is usually someone who's sadistic and malicious, enjoys doing bad things.... (read in full...)
Why did my g/f make me wait 3 months to sleep with her but she slept with a friend she hadn't even dated?
Q. Ok here goes. Let me start off by saying I love my girlfriend and she loves me. She's 21 and I'm 29. The age thing rarely bothers me. (Only when she wants to go to her younger brothers for parties and such. He's 19 and I'm to old to be a house ...
A. 24 February 2012: I don't think you're overreacting, but I do think there are two sides to the coin here. She might have honestly not believed you and her weren't together and exclusive. She said the guy was like a brother, which just to her might have meant they ... (read in full...)
I've broken off contact with a married coworker, but wonder if I should reply to her notes?
Q. we are coworker (college friends) and she is married, i love her truely from the heart still i think about her 24hrs may be she will talk to my like a close good friend (not expected kisses etc) but close friendship as she earlier have with me . ...
A. 22 February 2012: I think if you truly believe you can hold yourself by the honor of there relationship, I think it may be in your best interest to stay friends with her. If she makes you happy and you do not concider trying to pull her from her husband then I don't ... (read in full...)
My parents are starting to ask about my boyfriend's family, what do I tell them?
Q. I have a problem regarding my parents and my boyfriend's background. Long story short, my boyfriend is adopted and his real parents are in a different country with the rest of his siblings. His foster mom is currently fighting a deathly cancer. ...
A. 21 February 2012: Maybe you could explain this all to your parents. Ask for their discresion in the matter. Hopefully you have that open of a relationship with your parents.
I personally think adoption makes him more special. Someone chose him of millions to take... (read in full...)
We dated, he dropped out of sight and then told me he fell for me too hard?
Q. I dated this man for 3 months. Then all of a sudden he just stopped calling. When I finally did talk to him, he told me that he needed a break. So for 2 weeks I didn't hear from him. Out of the blue last Friday, he called and I wasn't able to ...
A. 21 February 2012: Not knowing all the pieces, I would think what he's really trying to say is he's not willing to commit to anything and this may just be a ploy...... (read in full...)
Why do I keep thinking about this guy who I've only met a couple times?
Q. I don't understand whats happening this week. I met gorgeous funny guys who liked me and asked for my number and to take me out. And of course at the time it's nice and find the attention great! I've even gone on dates with them and they've been ...
A. 21 February 2012: Everyone, EVERYONE has their 'what if'... Usually someone you barely got to know and the timing was all wrong. The flame that ignited just for that person can't go away because there was no beginning let alone an end to the affair. I personally ... (read in full...)
I'm always there for him but he doesn't want me as a girlfriend
Q. HI I used like to this guy and I told him when I told him he never told me if he likes me or not. Then a month later he rings me up and tells me that he likes soem girl for a year and half, this girls feels the same but she not ready to move on. He ...
A. 21 February 2012: You need to be an adult about this, if you can tell him how you feel, you can ask him the girl's name for one. If he fumbles with it, you got him. Ask about the girl in specifics (where they met, how he knows her, what shes into) to know if hes ... (read in full...)
I like him but I'm wondering if he's gay?
Q. Hi, I really need some advice, I've met a really lovely guy who is in tbe military. But I'm concerned he might be gay. He can be camp at times, loves cleaning and ironing it took 7 dates for him to kiss me which I instigated and also said his ma...
A. 21 February 2012: I don't have experience in the field but I do think there are a few things to concider;
If he's going on dates with you he likes you. (Maybe he doesn't know he's gay, but for the moment he likes you)
Men who are close with their mothers and fema... (read in full...)
Is it better if we have this in common?
Q. Is it good to have a girlfriend who is a gamer? I'm a huge gamer and I've been playing video games for my whole life. I would like to have one, I just a little worried that she'll take over and my gaming days will be over. I just want to have fun ...
A. 2 February 2012: I'm a gamer of sorts. I don't typically play with my boyfriend, but I do watch him a lot and play on my own time. He enjoys it and so do I. The keep point in finding a good girlfriend is having things in common and enjoying each others company ... (read in full...)
I've asked this girl out more than once but she hasn't gone out with me yet. Is she at all interested? Should I ask her some other way?
Q. Alright so I am a douche! I really like this girl who I met earlier last semester at uni, she's a first year I'm a second year and we both play squash at the same level and very often. During the christmas exams I had had enough and decided to a...
A. 1 February 2012: She may say yes to the in person invitation only because she might feel too pressured to say anything else... but mostly from what you've describe I don't think she's interested in you in the same way. It sounds corny, but have you ever read the ... (read in full...)
I don't find him attractive, but I cant stop thinking about him!
Q. so ive met this guy twice and hes sweet but totally not my type. ive only met him when ive had a drink and he has too. i wouldnt say he's good looking - lets put it that way - but the first time i met him he gave me a kiss goodbye. and then the ...
A. 1 February 2012: He's a gentleman with confidence. He's a diamond in the rough. You might also be attracted to him through body chemistry. Though a lot of people don't believe this pheromones lead you on and can turn you on and interest you in someone. Give the guy ... (read in full...)
I feel ugly, and I need ways to cope!
Q. I'm in such emotional pain right now, because I think am so ugly. Nobody ever tells me I'm pretty, I am just really plain, and today I realized I'm deformed. I tried on several tight dresses, and my hips are just too big... if I fit into a dress ...
A. 1 February 2012: The most gorgeous thing a girl can wear is confidence and a smile to go with it.
Smile, you're gorgeous!... (read in full...)
My gf is really 21 but looks 14!! Is it wrong to date her?
Q. i am 29 girlfriend is 21 but she looks about 13 or 14. is it wrong to be going out with her?...
A. 31 January 2012: I read an article in Psychology Today that said people who are perceived as younger are often just more energetic and smile more. Which in personal relationships usually draws you in because happy people are more pleasing to be around. As well in ... (read in full...)
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