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LDR b/f sent me a package and says I can't open it until we're on the phone together. What could it be?

Q.   So i've been in a long distance relationship with a guy for a little while now (9 months)and he kind of popped the question i think over the phone... obviously there's no ring yet. I told him I wasn't too concerned about a ring. He said he spoke ...

A.   15 July 2012: I hope its what your heart desire and don't you dare keep it a secret. Tell us what's in the parcel lol !... (read in full...)

Will I still bleed the first time I have sex?

Q.   I'm a virgin buh a week ago i masturbated nd fingered mysef then i notice dat i'm not as tight as before.do u tink i will still bleed when i decide 2 hav sex?...

A.   15 July 2012: I bled my first time around but not a whole lot. More like spotting, the kind you get before actual period starts. Don't worry about being tight its all in your head, gosh I sometimes wish I was still a virgin. ... (read in full...)

One minute I was everything for him, the next minute, it was all over!! How is that even possible?

Q.   2 weeks ago, I went to the hospital for my medical checkup. The medical nurse who took my blood sample approached me later and asked for my mobile number. To make it short, he told me that he was so disturbed by me the day I came to the hospital ...

A.   2 July 2012: I know you're feeling badly but trust me its better he told you the truth instead of stringing you along. Playing games in hopes of sleeping with you and then dumping you. I really wish there were more guys like that who are truly honest.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seems to make it obvious that I'm not that glamourous

Q.   Hi everyone, as anyone ever been in a relationship with someone where they knew the person didn't find them as physically attractive as other people and felt like you were being wasted on them? My boyfriend seems to make it obvious that I'm not that ...

A.   2 July 2012: I look exactly the way my profile pic is and my boyfriend at times makes comments about my looks that hurt my feelings. Once a few days after we met we were walking to a cafe holding hands and he said out of the blue "your hands feel rough do you do ... (read in full...)

Are my friends right? Do I have no conscience? I slept with a married guy.

Q.   what should I be feeling about my situation? I had sex with a married man. I am barely 18 he is 42 and works in the same place i do. I have a boyfriend. he at first wanted to talk to me all the time after the sex he kept asking how the sex was afte...

A.   2 July 2012: OP by posting this question you're putting yourself in a really bad position to get criticized by Tom,Dick and Harry. However I'm not gonna judge you or put you down I will tell you though to end this relationship with your married lover. Secrets ... (read in full...)

Are my friends right? Do I have no conscience? I slept with a married guy.

Q.   what should I be feeling about my situation? I had sex with a married man. I am barely 18 he is 42 and works in the same place i do. I have a boyfriend. he at first wanted to talk to me all the time after the sex he kept asking how the sex was afte...

A.   2 July 2012: OP by posting this question you're putting yourself in a really bad position to get criticized by Tom,Dick and Harry. However I'm not gonna judge you or put you down I will tell you though to end this relationship with your married lover. Secrets ... (read in full...)

I have a crush on him. Yet always he is IN a relationship. But he Does know I like him.

Q.   I have a crush on this guy in my year. He knows I like him, but I don't know if he likes me. Since I told him, he doesn't act weird. I can never talk to him about it because he is always in a relationship. What do I do?...

A.   2 July 2012: Leave him alone, let him come to you, do not chase him. If he is interested he will make his move as someone said "the ball is in his court". All the best... (read in full...)

She goes weeks without touching me but promises me we'll have plenty of sex once married

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for a 1.5 years and we are compatible in almost every way. Both of us are in our early 30's. My sex drive is still very high and I always want some no matter how tired or overworked I am. I am agnostic and she...

A.   2 July 2012: I hope she's not using sex as a weapon to get you to marry her. ... (read in full...)

My friends broke up and I like the guy. Do I go out with him? I don't want to hurt her

Q.   Where to start.. A couple I am friends with broke up a couple of weeks ago. I have been friends with the guy for just over 3 years and have been pretty much best friends with the girl since she moved to town about 2.5 years ago. My problem is the g...

A.   2 July 2012: I hope to God I'll never have a "so called" friend like you. I feel bad for your friend, I'm pretty sure she will be crushed when she finds out that you're making a play for her ex. I do hope she tells you how she really feels and not lie and say ... (read in full...)

My 13 year old Bf of one month wants to move to 'touching' (second base). Is it too early to push for this?

Q.   Okay, I am 14, my boyfriend is 13, been together for over a month. He wants to move to second base ( feeling/touching..), if it's okay with me. I just wonder if that's too soon.. :/ ...

A.   2 July 2012: You guys are 13 and 14 years old ! You are way to young to be even thinking about this. If you do go "second base" at such a young age you could regret it for years to come. Do not let him pressure you into doing anything sexual and if he gets angry ... (read in full...)

He told me in front of his friends he could do better than me and that our relationship is over.

Q.   I need some advice. I am aware I need to leave this relationship but I need input on how and whether it's really something I should do. I hae a 2 1/2 year old son who considers my boyfriend his "dad" bc he's been there since he was 2 weeks old. Last ...

A.   2 July 2012: Sounds like he's abusing you emotionally. You've mentioned several times that you know you should leave him, I hope you follow through and get away from him. Although he treats you badly and disrespect you I notice you've taken the time out to say ... (read in full...)

In my LDR we Text and I phone. But he has Never phoned me. Can we make this work? He's in the Military

Q.   Hi, Do you think that in 6 months my boyfriend has never actually rung me up? We text daily and I've called him a few times but even if he misses my calls he will text back? I've asked him and he said his just always texted and doesn't really...

A.   2 July 2012: I think its strange but he obviously cares if he's been texting religiously for 6 months. I hope he's not hiding anything, all the best and I hope everything works out for you two.... (read in full...)

He wants to be serious and then disappears!

Q.   OK - met a guy on a dating site, and we met and things were great. Met again and he was REALLY positive about me - called me beautiful, attractive, great to be with (should have seen him for what he is then .....?) etc. and we planned to meet again ...

A.   2 July 2012: You're not stupid, he's just good at what he does, most experienced players are. They have no conscience and only care about satisfying their needs. Please just forget he ever existed he has user written all over him. If I were you I would cut all ... (read in full...)

Just found out I am 4 months pregnant--and I had no symptoms! Is this unusual??

Q.   So, simple question to all the couples/moms out there. My boyfriend and I just found out I am near four months along, I had NO idea, just 2 random positive pg tests! So my question to you all, has this ever happened? An undetected pregnancy, or a ...

A.   17 June 2011: Congratulations ! ! You are so lucky they say women with irregular periods can sometimes have difficulty getting pregnant. Have you seen the (I didn't know I was Pregnant)show on TLC? Its a real life programme about women who had no clue they were ... (read in full...)

Trying to come to terms with being 3 months pregnant and getting hate texts from the father and his wife.

Q.   i started meetin a fellow which i taught to be very nice. was seeing him for about two months when he told my sister that he would like to get me pregnant but for as i have 3 kids myself i felt like i had my lot and was in no way interested in havin ...

A.   16 June 2011: He's a son of a bitch for treating you this way ! He was married but he told you he was separated its not like you are a blatant homewrecker. You should hit the bastard where it hurts his pocket, make him pay child support when the baby comes. ... (read in full...)

What should I do I feel used and betrayed?

Q.   hello everyon, im here looking for advice about my relationship with this guy im 5 months pregnant with my first child im 23 yrs old and he is 21 yrs old. sunday he came to my house we talked about him telling his mum about me and the unborn ...

A.   16 June 2011: Wow this guy is a douchebag ! I can't imagine someone being so mean. I feel bad for you, when the baby's born make him pay child support. ... (read in full...)

How can I make him want me more? Or get him interested in me again?

Q.   My boyfriend of about a year has been being distant and not replying to my messages straight away or calling me as often. We have had a few arguments the past few weeks. Normally we get along pretty well and have alot of similar interests. I have ...

A.   16 June 2011: Oh I feel bad for you,sadly I don't think there's anything you can do to make him interested again ,he has changed, maybe he's cheating or he wants to break up. At this point I think only you can decide how much of this treatment you're willing to ... (read in full...)

Question about feminie hygiene

Q.   well i have a situation. i wash my vagina area everyday more than once and it still smells i am a virgin and everything i just dont know why it doesnt smell good?...

A.   16 June 2011: An overwhelming odor may be an indication of a vaginal infection, don't try to treat it yourself by douching, using sprays and stuff like that it can make it worse, see a doctor. A smelly vagina is not normal especially if you have itching, green or ... (read in full...)

Crush "technically single." What does this mean?

Q.   There's this guy who I really like , thing is I fell for him before realizing he was taken.. He never spoke about his gf in group conversations or never hinted he was taken .. I've recently became his friend on fb and we chat sometimes about ...

A.   16 June 2011: Please don't get involved with this guy unless he's COMPLETELY single. Sounds to me like he and his gf are just going through a rocky times. I'm sure you don't wanna be the "we we're on a break" girl. Best wishes ... (read in full...)

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