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I am a high school teacher in the UK so come accross problems every day and feel that often an honest answer is the best. I wont sugar coat things and tell you what you want to hear, I'll give you a frank and honest answer to your problems.
I've been in relationships from a young age and have dated many types of men so I can help men and women with relationship advice.
As I'm a teacher I'm aware of child protection issues and many laws of the UK regarding young people. I'm happy to answer any teens problems!
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I want to have lots of sex and willing to cheat for it
Q. I'm tempted to cheat on my husband, we've been married for less than a year. While dating we had great sex but now he's not into sex like before and I'm horny all the time. I met a guy and we've talking about sex a lot, he wants me to meet him at a ...
A. 14 May 2009: I'm very traditional and believe that if you're having these feelings then you don't love your husband. If you did you'd be able to talk to him and work through relationship problems. You need to make a decision to save your marriage and work on ... (read in full...)
My friends have warned me about him but I see a different side to him
Q. im 15 and the boy im seeing is 16 we're in the same year though . i need some advice because im being told by friends lots of different things and im not sure who to listen too or who is right. i dont wish to offend anyone in this because im not r...
A. 14 May 2009: You're very young angel. What happened was actually illegal and he could be arrested for sex with a minor. Did you sleep with him because you wanted to or because you wanted him to like you?
It sounds like you're already very involved with thi... (read in full...)
Drunken boyfriend is a jerk
Q. hi im 22 and ive being going out with my curent boyfriend for 4 years we have a baby together and hes 1 .i already knew him before so ive known him for about 8 years.ive never been in a relationship like this before he drinks all the time swear ...
A. 14 May 2009: Sweetheart do you actually love this guy or do you just not want to be alone? It sounds like this guy is mentally abusing you, he's draining your confidence and he says these kinds of things because he's hoping you wont have the confidence to leave ... (read in full...)
Too many times for oral sex?
Q. oral sex question i gave head for the first time the other day and im 15 i did it five times is that too much for first time or in general too much anytime? and should i have swallowed please help x...
A. 14 May 2009: If you wanted to do this then it's fine. But don't do it because you feel you have to. It's always your choice and don't do it just to impress him.
Be careful of STI's too, you should always practice safe sex, even if it is only oral sex, it'... (read in full...)
How do I get him to open the door and let me in?
Q. HI. i met someone online hes about my age really cute and a lovely guy all around. we talked almost everyday about this or that and it seemed we got on well, he then sent me a naked pic of himself and told me that he only did that for me and he as...
A. 14 May 2009: Did you ever meet this guy or was it all online? It sounds like he was keen and was trying to get sexy pics of you (even though he said he wasn't) and when he wasn't getting what he wanted he went cold and made excuses.
I'd leave him well alo... (read in full...)
Do I just need to move on from this girl?
Q. Hello Everyone I need some help here. OK. I was dating my girlfriend, i met her and she was a stripper and a model. I was into it for the looks at first then it got more serious and i told her to quit stripping and she would give me the excuse of ...
A. 14 May 2009: Breaking up with someone is always hard but it sounds like you have your head screwed on. It can take so long to get over someone, some people never get over their ex girlfriends, but when you know it's not right you find a way to move on.
You o... (read in full...)
What's going on with this lower abdominal pain I'm getting?
Q. I'm a teenager and I've been having this lower abdominal pain for about 1-2 weeks. Its like a dull ache all around my hip and the top of my thigh, round to my groin area, on both sides. Sometimes when i run, or just walk, i get sharp stabbing pains. ...
A. 14 May 2009: I can't speculate what it is because I'm not a doctor.
If you're worried you can call NHS direct for free 0845 46 47 or use the website http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/ and they will respond with proper medical advice.
If you've had back problem... (read in full...)
What should I do about my two BFF's who are ignoring me?
Q. my two best friends at school are ignoring me. Because recently i've been going though some really hard stuff with my mum and everything and they are just a bit fed up with it. should i just face the fact that they don't wanna hang out with me or sh...
A. 14 May 2009: Your friends are a bit fed up with the fact you're going through a hard time? It doesn't sound like they should be fed up, they should be supporting you when you are fed up!
These girls sound a bit immature and not like good friends, but if you e... (read in full...)
Who should I invite to his birthday celebration? My family or his friends?
Q. I'm planning my bf birthday celebration. I want it to be a surprise! The trip allows 12 guests.. At first I wanted us alone but hey I'm paying for a group so might as well take advantage of it. A 2 hr. trip. Dinner and cruise. His family and ...
A. 14 May 2009: In my opinion often combining families can be a very serious affair. This sounds like a lovely trip and I'd definitely invite his family. Maybe then invite two of his best mates and two of your girl mates who he gets along with to balance things ... (read in full...)
I'm uncomfortable with him going to a speed dating party. Am I overthinking or...?
Q. Hey. I dunno if I'm just being a typical woman here and giving this too much thought but would like some second opinions. I've been seeing a wonderful guy for two months now - it's our 2 month anniversary on Friday and everything's goi...
A. 14 May 2009: You sound like a lovely girlfriend! My first question would be if there are any other male friends going? It's usually a good indication if there is a big mixed group going. If you trust this man then I think you have nothing to worry about. ... (read in full...)
If he wants anal then go gay!
Q. What is up with guys wanting to try Anal!! I am tired of every single guy i have dated wanting to try it. I am a girl I have a vag... If he wants anal go gay!!... Please explain how a guy sticking his dick in a butt hole with poop coming out of be ...
A. 14 May 2009: Olivia is right - Plenty of girls enjoy anal but at the same time there are many girls that don't.
It is described as an odd sensation but can be very pleasurable for both the male and the female if you relax and take your time.
Ultimat... (read in full...)
Cheating girlfriend knows karate..want to break up!
Q. Alright,my g-friend is cheating on me.i do not see her often so i dont know how to break up with her. (i think she knows karate so i cant break it to her to hard)How do i get out of this?...
A. 14 May 2009: She's cheating on you yeah? Do you know this for definite? Does this bother you enough to break up with her or are you just not doing it because you're scared of what she'll do? Some people do work through rough times such as people cheating but I ... (read in full...)
Why does my Dad have these pictures and texts? What do I do?
Q. Hello, this is something i cannot talk to my friends about or my mum, havent told anybody. My parents divorced 13 years ago, as my dad met another women, they are now happily married and have had 2 children(seven and ten), i really love my s...
A. 15 March 2009: It depends on your relationship with your dad. If you can casually say 'you know you didn't delete all the messages on your phone, maybe we need to talk about what I saw' then this would be good. If not I recommend you seek help from professionals ... (read in full...)
What's going on in her head?
Q. me and this girl have been talking, for quite sometime almost 5 months, we went out for 2 but she wasnt ready for a realtionship, i beleive she didnt have full closure on her ex ( they went out for three years), soo we still talked and hung out, ...
A. 15 March 2009: Honey I have to be honest with you, it sounds like this girl is wasting your time.
There is no such thing as 'too soon' or 'needing time to heal', she's just using getout clauses. She knows how keen you are on her and is using you to make her... (read in full...)
Will the pregnancy test results be accurate?
Q. I wonder if anyone could help to put my mind at rest. i had sex on tuesday and he didnt cun inside me but i know precum can still get you pregnant. i did a pregnancy test on friday and it showed nagative which i am relieved about. will this be ...
A. 15 March 2009: As you may have noticed there are many new pregnancy tests on the market that mean you can check your pregnancy earlier than was previously possible. The newest one states that you can find out up to two weeks before your period although they will ... (read in full...)
My sister is having an affair with a married man with 3 kids!
Q. will i will just be brief here my 24 year old sister is having an affair with a 38 year old man who is married and has 3 kids.. he says he was never happy with his married life and was forced to marry this woman because of his casanova image a...
A. 15 March 2009: If its a serious relationship it would have come out anyway so telling your mum probably did no harm.
Sisters often have very different morals, she probably wont listen to you because if she feels she is doing nothing wrong she'll listen to noone... (read in full...)
Threesome--what is my girlfriend REALLY thinking?
Q. okies...im male, im 16 n i have a strange question... ive been going out with my girlfried for a year now! and things are great! i love her so much and unlike other teenage relationships this one has lasted really long... she is very cute! ...
A. 15 March 2009: Be careful! I was 16 once and I know how confusing it can be from a girls point of view. Being bi-curious is something many teens go through so in no way is that odd.
I think this sounds a bit like both girls are trying to please you, they may... (read in full...)
Why does he protect the malicious ex?
Q. I've been dating my new blooke for 8 weeks, things are going very well, we get on amazingly well and for the first time in quite a while I really feel something for this guy. Now, as most guys do, he has An Ex. One of the kinda pain in the a** ...
A. 15 March 2009: It sounds like your ex's break up wasn't as 'mutual' as he is making it out to be. She sounds resentful of the fact he's met you and has left her behind. It may be that it was a mutual break up but it's never easy finding out your ex has moved on ... (read in full...)
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