I am dating my best friends ex-fiancee. Should I tell her?
Q. Hi guys and gals. I moved down to London around six months ago because I found a good job. I left my best friend up in Manchester. About three months ago, I ran in to my best friend's fiance here in London. I knew that they had broken up since my ...
A. 12 March 2009: I don't agree with the statement that she "will get over it or should at least". You just don't do this to your best friend. I have a great friend and her boyfriend and I were mutual friends before they started dating. They broke up a... (read in full...)
How can I change my life to be happy again
Q. Im at the point where i cant take anything no more and i want to know how i can stop from feeling like this. Well i have been through a lot of stuff mostly just being abused by men sexually physically and mentally and i have had enough. I live wit...
A. 12 March 2009: Hi,
please try to seek counseling. I think it would really help you. You need to express your feelings in a non-intrusive, non-judgmental way and I feel that counselling will help you.
Please pm me if you need to talk... (read in full...)
Should I start practicing to like girls?
Q. another big problem with me is that almost those that are attracted to me are seems to be straight guys, i like sexy straight guys so much but i don't like female guys and i don't wish to move with them infact i hate their way of behaving as am a ...
A. 12 March 2009: Hi! I am sorry that you feel this way. There is nothing wrong with liking what who you like, but pretending to like someone can be a detriment. Think of it this way.... person a is not attracted to person b. person for what ever reason bes... (read in full...)
I am dating my best friends ex-fiancee. Should I tell her?
Q. Hi guys and gals. I moved down to London around six months ago because I found a good job. I left my best friend up in Manchester. About three months ago, I ran in to my best friend's fiance here in London. I knew that they had broken up since my ...
A. 12 March 2009: I agree with keogan! I think you should tell her especially if it is serious. It does not sound serious at the moment, but as a best friend, you should her. The longer you take, the more difficult if would be for you to tell her.
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Since we are housemates now, does that mean he is off limits?
Q. So here's the deal... I met this guy through mutual friends about 2 years ago. He's a relatively shy guy when hes around people he doesnt know and hasnt really had a girlfriend. We all hang out go out for dinners, parties etc and we always got al...
A. 12 March 2009: Just ask! Talk to him and see what he says. ... (read in full...)
I'm stuck in the "what if" kind of situation
Q. Hi, to be honest i'm not really sure why i am writing this. I dont know if i want help or if i just want to get things off my chest. The thing is i met a boy when i was on holiday when i was nine, we clicked straight away. After the holiday we kept ...
A. 30 December 2008: Hi,
this happened to me awhile back with a similar situation from when I was younger. I won't go into details, if you pm me I can explain more. The short end of the story was that in my case, I was no longer attracted to him once we reco... (read in full...)
Should I hope Mr Wonderful gets back with me or just forget him?
Q. I went through four years of self healing after a very manipulative relationship.I have two children and i found it very hard to get back on the dating scene itried several times but just wasn't bothered.I then out of the blue met the most wonderful ...
A. 27 December 2008: I would honestly tell you to move on. Your ex will probably always be involved since you have kids together, so if he says he can't do the kids thing, then he can't.
I also feel that you might need some time for yourself to just breathe and refr... (read in full...)
Why can't he just be with me and be happy
Q. Okay so I meet this man and and from that moment on we were together, literally, i moved in with him and we were an automatic couple. he had noticed me for 4 months and had wanted to be with me so he says but i never noticed him till he actually ...
A. 26 December 2008: Hi there,
He simply wants to have his cake and eat it too. If he wanted to be with you, he would.
Everything he is basically saying is just talk. If he knew he had a good thing going and did not want it broken he would have stayed. seems to me... (read in full...)
Is he silently pushing me away??????????
Q. My bf of 4yrs was offended by me talking about our future. I want to marry him, and I told him. Ever since then we went 8 days with no contact or talking. Then I finally cracked and called him. He is very distant on the phone with me. I did ask ...
A. 26 December 2008: Hi,
is there anyone else close to you that knows the situation (maybe a friend)?
I don't what to say that he is pushing you away as you did mention that your communication is not the best. There could be another underlying issue. Does he have... (read in full...)
Am I just afraid of being a single Mom again?
Q. i am trying to decide whether or not to leave my boyfriend, the problem is ,is that sometimes he can be a real jerk to my daughter and i can't stand it anymore. we get into fights because i stick up for her and he gets mad so i don't know what to ...
A. 26 December 2008: Hi,
I am glad that you stand up for your daughter! She will thank you for it in the long run. Take it from someone who knows (my mom never stood up for me, I had to stand up for myself). He is not worth it. There is nothing wrong with being a si... (read in full...)
Swingin' bachelor dating a single Mom - I'm not a family man, can this work?
Q. So, I've found the almost perfect woman and we've been dating a year now. She's the best g/f I've ever had. I always had a rule against dating single moms, but when I met her, I chose to break that rule and now I'm in love w/ her, but I can not ...
A. 26 December 2008: I agree with Emilysanswers!
Her kids are apart of her life (and I am glad they are...after all, they are HER kids). If you can not handle the kids you need to move on. Did you think that the kids would somehow disappear? If their father is a de... (read in full...)
Should I send this to my ex?
Q. to cut a long story short, i want to get with my ex link again but he's being long about it even though he said that he wanted a second chance..he said he needed time to think but i don't want to wait, could i send him this text; u cool? i real...
A. 26 December 2008: I agree with bitterblue!... (read in full...)
Forgive him?
Q. Back in July I met a man that I gave my heart to. Well things didn't go how I wanted them, I got pregnant in August, and in September, the day after I miscarried, he dumped me. He'd already been seeing someone else. It was very hard to get over, and ...
A. 26 December 2008: I think you need to move on and just walk away. The day after you had a miscarriage he dumped you?!!! That's disrespectful and hurtful. The other girl probably dumped him because she found out what a loser he really is. If you try to help him he ... (read in full...)
My husband had a child with another woman, is there any hope for us?
Q. I have recently caught my husband having an affair, we have been married 14 years and have 3 children. I told my husband I still love him and want him to stay, he said he would stay only to be with our children who he loves more than anything and ...
A. 21 November 2008: I am really sorry to hear about your circumstances, but I must tell you that making him stay is not within your best interest. Like the other poster's have stated, the child in innocent and does not deserve to be deprived from his/her father. ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me for this other girl but we have met twice for sex and I can't forget him!
Q. Im having real big trouble getting over my ex, we are still friends and talk everyday, we've even met up to have sex twice(I KNOW ITS WRONG)he then goes and says to me that you have to move on, the think is hes always the one who rings me first ...
A. 16 November 2008: I agree with everything everyone else said so far, especially Q's statement that "the problems he is having with his new girlfriend (or whatever she currently is) are HIS problems". Honestly, don't answer when he calls, don't text, don't meet up. ... (read in full...)
My relationship with my brother in law
Q. I am 25 and live with my sister and brother-in-law. I came here in search of job and am being here since 4 months. its the same time my b.i.l lost his job and was staying home. i love my sister very much and my b.i.l too, in fact respect my b.i.l as ...
A. 4 November 2008: yes, although you don't want that to happen, how would you feel if he turned the situation on you and made it seem as if you were the one advancing? Would it be better if your sister and everyone else turned on you?
Please wake up and smell th... (read in full...)
How Can I Change So He Doesn't Take It Out On Me?
Q. ok how do i change myself and not make my fiancee mad to where he takes his anger out on me and how do i change myself to be a better person so we dont break...
A. 2 November 2008: I agree with Gemini! you should never have to compromise who you really are for someone's love. There is a saying that goes "I would rather be hated for who I am than loved for someone I am not"! You should never compromise who you are. If he's ... (read in full...)
My relationship with my brother in law
Q. I am 25 and live with my sister and brother-in-law. I came here in search of job and am being here since 4 months. its the same time my b.i.l lost his job and was staying home. i love my sister very much and my b.i.l too, in fact respect my b.i.l as ...
A. 1 November 2008: Hi, please keep us posted on the situation. And most importantly, don't let your guard down... (read in full...)
How long before we can dispense with the condoms?
Q. Just a quick question. I'm about to start taking birth control for the first time. I'm 20 years old and up until now haven't taken it due to a leiden deficiency (which makes my blood thicker than a normal person's), but my doctor and I have found...
A. 31 October 2008: I was told by my doctor to never let the condom off! You can still get pregnant on the pill. The pill if not pregnancy proof nor is it STD or STI proof!... (read in full...)
My relationship with my brother in law
Q. I am 25 and live with my sister and brother-in-law. I came here in search of job and am being here since 4 months. its the same time my b.i.l lost his job and was staying home. i love my sister very much and my b.i.l too, in fact respect my b.i.l as ...
A. 31 October 2008: Hi, you should trust your gut instincts and intuition. I think you should tell your sister. Think of how badly things could turn out if you don't tell her. I know you don't want to hurt her, but in the long run you will be hurting her more. ... (read in full...)
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