I wonder what people see when they look at me? Any thoughts?
Q. I wonder what people see when they look at me? What do I want them to see? I don’t know! But I know it isn’t what they see. Secretly I used to wonder how the girls I despised so much for having the little self-respect they did, I used to wonder how ...
A. 1 August 2007: Thank you :)... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! ...
A. 21 July 2007: I also responded last time without sucess but will try again.. so let me know if your interested... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Call for new volunteer moderators (please read carefully)
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING! Moderators approve new questions, think up of interesting and accurate titles and approve/reject a...
A. 15 June 2007: Hey Andrew I've been on this site a few months now and log on everyday have alot of free time on my hand now that college is over so I would love to help out and be a mod. (Give something back) So if you think I could be of some help please drop me ... (read in full...)
Should I continue seeing this man or marry re my own culture and religion?
Q. hi, ive been through alot of shit in my life and somehow have managed to come out of it all. ive been heart broken twice and hurt. currently i am livin in the opposite side of the country to my parents, i am studyuing and when im finished i am ex...
A. 30 April 2007: hey.. i'm sort of in the same situation.. feel free to message me if you would like some1 to talk to.. i know some days i feel like i wish i had some1 who would understand..... (read in full...)
We broke up... She wants me as a friend, I want her as a lover. Should I just keep clear?
Q. My gf of 6 years and I recently split up. We have 3 young kids together. I moved out around 6 weeks ago and we were meant to be on a trial "break" for 2 months. I dont want us to split up and basically chased her for a month telling her I loved ...
A. 18 April 2007: become friends with her. think of your children.... (read in full...)
My bf matches his undershirt to his underwear, but don't people only do this when they know they're going to sleep with someone!?
Q. Is this weird? My b/f matches his undershirt to his underwear(like grey, black, blue)...He has been doing this since i can remember and does it most times i see him..but isnt this something you do when you are going to sleep with someone? Someti...
A. 6 April 2007: I agree. You say: "He's being doing this for as long as I can remember." Maybe that's just the way he is?... (read in full...)
Is there any advice you can give me on how to make her feel better and be there for her without having to cuddle her?
Q. hi, my wife recently lost a very close family member. Well all i've tryed to do over this past week is be there for her but now that the funeral is over she is worse than she was before. Everytime i ask her how shes feeling she keeps saying shes ...
A. 8 March 2007: What kind of illness do you have that prevents you from hugging your wife?... (read in full...)
I already have a girlfriend but have just got with this other girl, now I like both of them. Who do I choose?
Q. What do i do? I've just got with this girl while I've already got another girlfriend! Who do I choose?...
A. 5 March 2007: I agree with maxsteel86. Do the girls a favour leave them both alone.... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Had DearCupid changed your life in a positive way? I want to hear your stories...
Q. Has DearCupid changed your life in a positive way? If so, please let me know. Either post here (anon if you prefer) or send me a private mail. Sometimes when I'm coding at midnight or tinkering with an errant database, or wondering wh...
A. 2 March 2007: I recently joined this site, couple of months ago.. not even that and already I've learnt so much just by reading other people's problems and advice. I wish I'd thought of this! I normally don't post unless I have something to say but I saw this ... (read in full...)
Why do women prefer dark-haired men?
Q. Why do women in the UK always praise dark hair? Has it become something that women say regardless. I never hear a woman , or extremely rarely, who says she prefers blond hair on men. I have seen two surveys done in the UK in the last four ...
A. 1 March 2007: Why stress over things like this? So what if women "prefer" darker hair? A woman is not going to base her life with a guy SIMPLY because he has dark hair.. jeez stop stressing already.... (read in full...)
It's not even strawberry blonde!
Q. Why do people in the UK often call blond men "gingers"? They don`t call blond women "gingers". They don`t call dark haired men "redheads". Whats the big beef? Just because blond hair has flecks of ginger, well thats the same with women as well. ...
A. 1 March 2007: eyeswideopen, that's what I'm thinking? What's the big deal? ... (read in full...)
I have a huge crush on him! Should I have asked him for his e-mail?
Q. hey everyone? what do u think i should have done? maybe do the next time i get the chance to? as we were in computer class we tried to get through the msn but for som it didn't work. And my crush was one of them..so later in the class as he was ...
A. 1 March 2007: Why don't you just get his add off your friend? ... (read in full...)
My husband is texting a woman constantly, is he cheating on me?
Q. if my husband puts some womans phone number on his phone under a false name and delets all txts he sends and recieves but only from her, and clears his call register twice in as many days is he cheating? several times i have asked him if he is seein...
A. 24 February 2007: You need to sit your husband down and say, "honey, you know you said you're not having an affair? Well, I was looking through your phone, and I can't help but get paranoid. Please explain. Also I know I shouldn't have but I rang the number out of my ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend tells me she's 16, her mates tell me she's only 14, I'm 24. She never wants to see me and always has excuses, her mates tell me she's cheating on me, I don't know what to believe! Help!!!
Q. I'm 24 Years old i'm dateing a 16 year old girlfriend who i never see. the problem, i never see my new girlfriend but i have a big heart to dump her for not seeing me. i kind of blame myself for us not seeing each over. v-day i lost the car ...
A. 24 February 2007: The college won't give out that kind of details. If she was 14, would it make a difference? What does your instinct tell you? I don't want to patronise you but at 14 and 16 your gf is not going to be on the same "level" as you. Like you said ... (read in full...)
We broke up so is it okay to still have sex with him?
Q. me and my bf broke up....is it wrong to still have sex with him if we are "just friends"...
A. 23 February 2007: Would you have sex with your other "just friends"? I think your answer lies in that question.... (read in full...)
Should I call him and just be single so I don't keep making him mad?
Q. hey, again. i'm the one that loved my boyfriend but liked two other guys. well anyway theres this new kid at school and me and him flirt well today at luch i was sitting with my boyfriend and the new kid past our table and he smiled and shook hi...
A. 23 February 2007: How old are you? ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to become pregnant when you're on your period?
Q. At the risk of sounding really stupid is it possible to become pregnant when you are on your period? i have always thought it was the same as when your not but my bf says it isnt. is the chance less likely? am i wrong? or is he? xxx...
A. 22 February 2007: While your on your period the risk of getting pregnant is less, but you could STILL get pregnant.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend gives his friend too much info about our arguments then I get cheeky texts from the friend, it's really wearing me down... what can I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 18months. And obviously, we have started to argue on occassion. The thing is, everytime we argue, he goes and tells his friends all the details (which I understand and doesn't bother me). His friends then ...
A. 21 February 2007: Hey, Change your number. I know it sounds extreme, but so do the texts you are getting. Give your boyfriend your number (obviously) and you tell him not to give it to his friends, if he gives your number to his friend(s) well, what does that say... (read in full...)
Should I go back to her and will I ever be able to get these awful images and thoughts of them out of my mind?
Q. Sorry, bit of a long and complex one but I'd really apprecaite some advice because I haven't got any friends who have been this involved before and hence they can't understand. I have been seeing and living with my girlfriend for the last 3 years. ...
A. 21 February 2007: Hey. I understand what the other agony anunt/uncle are saying. I don't think I'm the best person to give advice on this but can I just first say how much I respect you for sticking it out? Not many men would have stayed as long as you have and you'... (read in full...)
I feel so depressed every Valentine's day... Help!
Q. every single valentines day im alone, lonely spinster im constntly depressed all the time i doubt the day will eva come wen i find the 1 infact i just know it neva will i know this iz hardly a positive attitude but ive given up now ive just ad ...
A. 13 February 2007: omg ure like 15? "lonely spinster" hardly.. i know at our age the whole play on romance is very inviting and for some reason teenage romances are seen as like "must be" but and it must fyl like you're the only lonely person (which bdw you're not) ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is such a hottie. But when other guys show her attention I get jelous. Should I tell her how I feel?
Q. hello, my problem is i have a really nice girllfriend whos a bit older than me, and she gets a lot of attention from other blokes and it gets me kinda jelous/angry. we both go to school and i get innapropriate comments, and so does she, even though ...
A. 24 January 2007: Rather than feel jealous why dont you think about it like this:
Of all the attention she gets, you're still the centre of her attention.
You should flattered even thought she has attention from all these guys you're the she wants.
I can understa... (read in full...)
This girl keeps trying to take my bf's away! This really irks me-am I being irrational here?
Q. I have a friend, a guy. I thought we were pretty close and we are just friends. i dont want anything more. The past couple of days i feel like this other girl is taking him away from me. i know it sounds totally selfish but this happened before the ...
A. 21 January 2007: thank u *smiles* that is true and maybe i was being irrational thanks for advice i will relax thanks..... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is a nymphomaniac and it makes me edgy when we're apart... is she making music with other guys?
Q. My GF has a REALLY high sex drive i mean whenever night or day she is ALWAYS up for it. We have sex everyday even sometimes twice a day. She's had loads of one night stands. 15 guys that she can remember (maybe more) and she's 19yrs. she told ...
A. 20 January 2007: is your relasionship just about sex? I mean your girlfriend might have a high sex drive but if shes with you and you guys have a stronger rewlasionship than just sex than maybe you should relax the chances of her cheating are the exact chances of ... (read in full...)
When I asked him out he said "let's get to know each other better, first". Is this his polite way of saying No?
Q. ive liked this guy for a while now (about 10 months) and he claims he liked me the same amount of time but when ever one was singel the other was taken and finally after 10 months we both single. we have flirted loads and had a few kisses. last ...
A. 20 January 2007: to be honest.. i think well i mean i dont know this guy but from what you have said it sounds like maybe he just wants the flirting and few kisses here and there maybe he's unsure of putting a name on your relasionship? If he's liked you for the ... (read in full...)
Do I risk hurting my sensitive bf and date this other guy that I have fun with?
Q. i dated this guy for two weeks but its still very early..and i like his freind before i met him..my bf is really sweet, but kinda clingy,and hes very sensitive..and i really hate to hurt him! and his freind is so fun to be around..he makes...
A. 20 January 2007: The way I see it even if you are thinking about another guy while you are with your bf then that's kind of a sign .. you know? and if you are staying with your bf then it definately isn't because you feel for him... sweet, but kinda clingy,and hes ... (read in full...)
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