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I'm suspecting my fiance's loyalty to me

Q.   Hi Everyone, I recently found out that my fiance is a member of an online dating site which really upset me.I glimpsed at the lap top and his e-mail box was open and there it was.I hope I am overreacting but he always told me how he doesn't ever ...

A.   30 August 2009: Well...i guess all this looks fishy to me...i can not tell you for sure if he is innocent...and yes he might have had something quickie what that girl in his contact last!... (read in full...)

Why is sex so good only after emotionally intense moments?

Q.   Why is it that the most incredible sex/love making seems to take place after an emotional moment between two madly in love people???? I mean we have been together a little over six months but we have known each other a year, and the sex is usually ...

A.   10 August 2009: well...from my experience i can tell u that we miss a lot of things when we stress a lot , for eg, a fight...when it is over everything looks so new and the mind gets back to where it always wanna go..and i guess some different kinds of hormones are ... (read in full...)

He is very territorial and we have sexual problems, please help?

Q.   At the end of May of this year, my ex got back in touch and we eventually decided to try again since the reasons we broke up 8 months before was mainly due to lack of time because of his career. We have now been dating 2 months and already I fe...

A.   5 August 2009: what is your question? ..to be with him or leave him?...i am not sure..looking at your situation ..you are having sex with him and still thinking if u should be with him or not? to be honest..i dont get it?... (read in full...)

Seeing her for 10 months, making a ring for her, good idea? Any other gift ideas?

Q.   hi, im 16 and my gf is 15, we've been goin out for ten months now, and we're goin back to school in a few weeks. we really miss eachother, and i really wanna make it special when we i see her, so i started making her a ring, yes, making one. ...

A.   5 August 2009: well..are u sure you do not want to wait? ..i am not saying that it's a bad idea...it would definitely take things ahead and will make your love more strong...but u are the person who know her well...all i can say is people change with time...so ... (read in full...)

Can I get pregnant from the clear fluid?

Q.   Okayee, my boyfriend and i have sex quite a bit. Usually its like 3 times in a period of 3 or 4 hours. And most of the time its Protected. But today he put his penis in without a condom. And alot of the time when he gets an erection he leak...

A.   4 August 2009: yes u can...the "clear fluid" has some amount of sperms and it can make u pregnant..being a guy i know how much a guy wants to cum inside a girl..its really is so amazing...but u can get pregnant with that fluid.... (read in full...)

He did it on purpose! I don't want to be pregnant

Q.   i really need help guys! pls. pls. pls..... me and my boyfriend had sex 3x. the first one is the night when i got home then the morning and the last one was when we arrived home back from the mall. the 2x we did it, he withdraw it just in time bef...

A.   2 August 2009: ofcourse you should..and if you do not get periods go to your doc..and do not let that a**hole enter inside you...forever...u deserve a lot better.... (read in full...)

Have I ruined my chance of possibly dating him because it started out as a FWB thing?

Q.   Ok, my question is whether I have immediately set up fuck buddy relationship status with this guy. I am generally promiscuous and have had some FBs. I have also had long-term relationships. I know what feelings need and needn't be present for ...

A.   2 August 2009: well..to be honest ..I would say NO..he wont be in a relationship with a woman who has FB-type relationships...if I had been at his place, i would have slept with you as long as i enjoy you and then would not wanna see you..this is indeed normal ... (read in full...)

He's showing off his genitals online and getting paid for it!!!

Q.   I found out that my husband was uploading movies and photos of his genitals to the Internet when I clicked on the browser (it was my day off from work, and he'd left the browser open after he'd put the computer on in the morning!). He'd set out f...

A.   2 August 2009: its difficult i know...and how could he do it...its wrong...leave him.... (read in full...)

How can she tell me she loves me and be with another person?

Q.   This is a complicated situation… and this might be long because in order to understand the situation many details must be given out. This is the warning. My Gf and I have been together in a relationship for 7 years. We had many good times and m...

A.   18 July 2009: Man...dude...i have been in the same relationship ..it was 4 years...and i did all the amazing things a girl could ever think of...indeed i exceeded her expectations in terms of love, care, loyalty and respect...but we were at different places due ... (read in full...)

Does this man fancy me or just see me as a friend?

Q.   Does this man fancy me or just see me as a friend? We worked together - only for 6 months but just clicked and got on really well and had to spend a lot of time just the 2 of us - both single (me divorced 5 yrs - him never married),both similar ...

A.   18 July 2009: well...the point here is he has never been married and if he never mentioned abd past girlfriends...there might be a possibility that he never had one...so deep inside he would be scared to come upfront and say what he wants from you...u have ... (read in full...)

I pushed my wife away because of insecurities, now she's gone to study and all I want is her.

Q.   After 9 months of marriage, i broke up with my 19 year old wife and now she's left town for further studies which i disagree with her because i felt insecure that she might be use by some male friends in her college just for enjoyment. I'm no more ...

A.   17 July 2009: well..dude..she is an indian girl...and above all she is married ....how the heck in this world can u expect an indian girl to cheat??..are u nuts..she would die but cheat...go back to her...take some flowers, chocolate and bend down on your ... (read in full...)

Am I a slut for continuing to have sex with my ex?

Q.   My ex and i broke up about 5 months ago. Although we broke up were still having sex. I feel used but i dont really mind it because he is great in bed. Is it slutty of me to think that?...

A.   16 July 2009: lol...to be honest i would say yes..yes u are acting like one right now....coz u know u wont be with this guy..he does not love u..he is here just for your body and not your heart and love...so i guess you wanna save all this for someone who really ... (read in full...)

Two kids, no time...Am I wrong to expect a little passion?

Q.   My wife and I have 2 small children, so it's hard for us to make time for sex. But when we do have sex, it feels like she's not really into it. We've fought about this before, and I know she's tired. But even at my worst, I'll still perform like a ...

A.   14 July 2009: No man...does have children makes u less horny...and makes u want less ur lover...no i do not think so..if she is not going to understand u and fulfill all ur needs who else would it be then?...she needs to understand it man....talk to her.... (read in full...)

I called her a random celebrity name while having sex!

Q.   I was making love with my fiance and by mistake I call her an random celebrity name. She got really upset, then angry she threw her engagement ring at me then she went her friend's. I called her friend (my fiance wouldn`t pick up) and ask her to ...

A.   6 July 2009: Hahaha!! you definitely screwed up boy....its hard...but not impossible to get her back....SORRY..SORRY...SORRY is the word...... (read in full...)

I want my ex back, I still love her and now she's seeing someone new!

Q.   Hi guys, I need help, i was dating a girl for 5 months and it was going amazing. We were both really in love and i thought it would never end. Then she broke up with me out of the blue, said that she needed to concentrate on her exams and she coul...

A.   6 July 2009: Yes dude...I know where u r coming from ...been there and done that....but would give you this advice...this is the same love and feeling of want I had as you have...but truly speaking she does not deserve it....if she is seeing someone else it ... (read in full...)

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