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Why does she hate sex with me?!?!
Q. my wife and i have been together for 12 years. we love each other very much so. she loves everthing about me, well almost. we love spending time together, cuddling, just everything we do we enjoy it both together. when it comes time to make love she ...
A. 17 July 2006: Good grief! That must have been devastating for you to hear that! I think you should have a quiet, calm loving talk with your wife and ask her to have some therapy with you. You do not mention that she feels pain, so there may not be a physical ... (read in full...)
He'll never travel to visit me and I have to be the one who makes the long trip to see him. Every time!
Q. I have a question and I hope I do not bother with this, but I can't really talk to my friends about it. I have been dating a guy for almost 2 years, the first year he was in L.A. we were seeing each other on and off, then he moved to oceanside. ...
A. 16 July 2006: Sorry, lovely girl, but I believe you are being used. It must hurt a lot. Tell him you cannot make the journey and ask if he can come to you. I think you know the answer already, and I feel for you. Make up a reason. If he cannot make the effort to ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and don't get excited about sex... At all. Is this normal and will it get better?
Q. I am slightly confused recently. I am a seventeen year old girl and though I am 100% sure that I am straight, I just don't get sexually aroused by boys. Sure, it is flattering that ny boyfreind just has to look at me to get an erection but iS t...
A. 16 July 2006: Dear girl, yes, you are totally normal. Some people are what we call "late developers" - either physically or emotionally. I too was like you and lost my virginity before I was really ready and that was a very sad event. I regret that. Explain very ... (read in full...)
What's happened to his sex drive? Shouldn't he want to have sex with me?
Q. hello, i have a small problem, my bf and i have a good sex life, when we first started sleeping together we did it every time we met (bout 3 times a week) now we see each other slightly more and have sex 9 times out of 10. the other morning,...
A. 16 July 2006: I'm quite surprised that the men have not advised you about the fact that most of them wake up with an erection in the morning and it has nothing to do with feeling horny. Overnight, urine flows into the bladder - for girls and boys - but for boys, ... (read in full...)
It's ok at first, then it gets soree... Why?
Q. everytime i have sex i get sore after 10 minites into it. its happened with 2 people now, and its unconfortable to do it. then in the middle of it i dont fell like i want it and its not pleasurable anymore. also i get swollen which is awful. . . ...
A. 16 July 2006: Two things, it sounds to me very much as if you are sleeping with your partners without being sufficiently sexually aroused. You do not mention your age, but you mention 2 partners.
If you are sleeping with them to keep them as BFs before you are ... (read in full...)
My partner wants me to have multiple orgasms
Q. hello, my name is mamadrama, and i'm having problems having mutiple orgasms i can only have one and after that it's very sensitive to the touch and my mate loves to give oral sex alot and it's frustrating to him when i don't want him to do it after ...
A. 16 July 2006: Mamadrama, I think your name suits you well. Drama! The idea that all women are capable of multiple-orgasm is an urban myth, similar to the one about giant crocodiles in the New York subway. MamaD, perhaps up to 20% of all women cannot achieve ... (read in full...)
Am I a virgin still?
Q. this may sound stupid, but i'm a girl who masterbates and never had sex yet. I was wondering if I'm still a virgin? (please don't laugh)...
A. 16 July 2006: I didn't laugh either. Yes, you are still a virgin. You lose your virginity at the moment a penis enters your vagina. You do not lose it with masturbation, foreplay or the use of tampons, okay? When you do decide to lose it to someone you care for, ... (read in full...)
I find foreplay embarrasing!
Q. im quite a shy girl in the bedroom and dont give blowjobs as i feel to embarassed. i now think my boyfreind is getting bored of routine. im always up for it as in full sex but i always find foreplay embarassing. what do i do?...
A. 13 July 2006: You enjoy full sex because you are then face-to-face and you can see nothing more than his face, nor him yours. Foreplay needs trust and physical openness. Why are you ashamed of your body then? You must be attractive as your boyfriend wants to ... (read in full...)
I've always been slim, but now I'm getting skinny!
Q. How Can I Gain Weight? I've always been a in slim/skinny body type area but reccently I've been losing weight like nothing which I think it's cause of the Bristish summer. But now my collar bone is showing and I don't like it, I don't like it...
A. 13 July 2006: Hi! you have been given excellent advice up til now. Continue to exercise regularly and control your diet. It must be balanced. A completely fat-free diet, for example, is not healthy otherwise your body will burn off muscle resources. Honestly, a ... (read in full...)
How should I deal with my one-night-stand with the pregnant German girl who wants more?
Q. I recently met a women at a club. I was a lil intoxicated when i met her and i had alot of things going through my mind at the time. Anyway, we kinda got to know each other and i found out she is a month pregnant and seperated from the father and ...
A. 13 July 2006: You poor lad. You might find it surprising to hear this from a female, but I know Germany and some of the military bases there. It is a credit to you that you have a bad conscience about this and I hope you learn how to choose better in future, ... (read in full...)
I have major jealousy problems and need advice on how to quit them!
Q. I don't know exactly what my problem is. I know I have jealousy and insecure problems, but I'm not sure how to control it. I don't like the way I act and I don't think talking to a pshyciatrist is going to help me. I've already tried that. I am ...
A. 13 July 2006: Hello, my lovely, yes you do know what the problem is and you have been brave enough to ask for help. Well done. The problem is, you are insecure and unable to trust your bf, so you are sometimes jealous and nasty. First, sit down quietly and have a ... (read in full...)
18 and I'm ashamed to be a virgin!
Q. Hi. I'm 18, I've never been really kissed (my first and last kiss was a little pash with a guy in year 4) i'm pretty ashamed because all my friends are no longer virgins and constantly ask me about who i've kissed and why i don't a have a b/f. I a...
A. 10 July 2006: Don't be worried about the tampons, you poor girl. Use pads. Your problem with tampons is most likely a psychological thing as your so-called friends have obviously upset you. When you accept being proud of your virginity, you will lose that ... (read in full...)
Ladies, I need your help. After our baby was born my wife has no sex drive and is questioning her feelings for me!
Q. This is a problem that only women can help with. My gf has a zero sex drive, and it is either since our baby was born at xmas or since we argued a bit since then, not sure which triggered it. We have been getting on great, and i mean gre...
A. 9 July 2006: First of all, well done for sticking by your wife and showing that you love her by seeking advice. Post-natal depression does not always manifest itself as being sad, but apathy especially if she is tired with breast-feeding. Seven months is a ... (read in full...)
Could sperm survive a swimming pool and make someone pregnant?
Q. I realize this is probably a really ridiculous question....but I'm just curious. I know that the likelihood of getting pregnant from dry humping with clothes on assuming the guy cums is so very slim if at all even possible, that there should b...
A. 9 July 2006: The likihood of becoming pregnant from if you've been "dry" humping in a swimmiing pool is almost impossible. For one, the chlorine in the water will kill the sperm quite quickly. However, you are underestimating the risk of dry humping if your bf ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is controlling and I have no life, aged 26... Should I give him the heave-ho? Yes - or no?
Q. hi all,i have a BIG problem my b/f is very controlling to the point it has become mentally abusive.a small example the other night i suggested we watch a film,half way through i started nodding off he saw and turned my head towards the t.v and said ...
A. 8 July 2006: You are in a controlled relationship, and the longer you stay with him, the more your own self-esteem will be undermined. It seems like you already have lost all love for yourself and self-respect.
Dr. Pete has already given you excellent advi... (read in full...)
He gets it up, but can't climax...
Q. This man doesn't need Viagra...getting it up isn't the problem. The problem is...he can't climax (cum). What's up with that and are there any suggestions? Thanks!...
A. 8 July 2006: Your question is too short for a valid reply. How old is he? How much stress does he have? How long have you been together? Are you in a loving relationship?
Some men can start but not finish when they are under stress. Other men cannot start at... (read in full...)
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