Should I forgive him after his drunken cheating?
Q. Hi, I caught my boyfriend on cheating. We were at friend's wedding. he was utterly and almost unconsciously drunk. He didnot know who I am when I entered the room he was with this awful girl. Trousers down, she was correcting her clothes, not sur...
A. 29 May 2008: Hi again.
It is not sad to think you would advice a friend to dump the cheating boyfriend. We do this because we hurt when someone hurts our dear ones. That is why sometimes it is better to talk to a person that is not so closely involved, some... (read in full...)
Should I forgive him after his drunken cheating?
Q. Hi, I caught my boyfriend on cheating. We were at friend's wedding. he was utterly and almost unconsciously drunk. He didnot know who I am when I entered the room he was with this awful girl. Trousers down, she was correcting her clothes, not sur...
A. 28 May 2008: Sometimes we have to forgive certain things...the question is, do you believe it happened just because he was totally drunk? If you do, and you think he would not have done it otherwise, if you both love each other as much as you say, you loose ... (read in full...)
I want to end my friendship with my unreliable selfish mate.
Q. hi everyone, ive got problems with my best mate. ive made my mind up im finally finishing our friendship. ive put up with her for years and now realising the same as with loser guys dont change neither do mates! i dont need/want to have her in my ...
A. 28 May 2008: Emails are a good way to let people know how you feel, without having to have an argument on the phone or have a big one face to face. A straight forward message saying how you feel and that you had enough of being taken for granted and therefore ... (read in full...)
He says it will work between us this time. What do you think?
Q. welll me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7months now .. and we had a massive fall out on sunday there . well we actually split up for a couple of days .. because i was getting to jelous .. i cant help it but ? everytime i see him looking at ...
A. 23 May 2008: I think he must really like you and care for you if he is putting up with your jealousy and accusations. You ask if it will work this time? It seems as it is up to you. Stop imagining things, accusing him of things because he looks at someone ... (read in full...)
Our relationship feels like it's fallen apart... any advice on how to repair it?
Q. First off, I want to apologize for writing so much. I'll just start out and say that lately it's been the way he treats me, which he says he is nice to me but he does not show me affection, hug me or want to spend any time with me. He's too busy ...
A. 22 May 2008: Hi, Maybe you need to take a look back and compare the way you were before, when he was treating you well, and the way you are now. It is a fact that nobody likes to be near a person who complaints all the time. This raw people apart, no matter h... (read in full...)
I think I am fat, but my friends tell me I'm skinny!
Q. I think I am fat,my friends tell me that I am skiny but I think the opposite. I am 52kg and 170cm....
A. 22 May 2008: Hi, well, I am 170 cm and used to be around your weight. I must admit that I look better with my now 58 kg. It all depends of course on your build, so maybe it would be a good idea just to double check with your doctor or dietician. ... (read in full...)
My husband has a very bad temper. I'm tired of this endless cycle!
Q. My husband has a very bad temper. He always "blows up" and we get into a physical fight when we disagree. The other day he saw a baby picture of my brother in I in our photo album. He told me to take it out and stash it somewhere if I wanted to keep ...
A. 22 May 2008: It is a fact that couples won't agree on everything. You could very well put the picture of your brother somewhere else, for you to see, and to avoid further discussions with your husband. The problem now is not anymore about giving in on little ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend, but he is still wanting to meet up and fool around with me.
Q. I'm heading into my senior year. There is this guy and he is turning 21 in September. I'll be 17 soon. But age is not the problem. He has this girlfriend who he has been with for like 5 years now. I think he wants to break up with her, but I also t...
A. 22 May 2008: Just think what he is doing now to his girlfriend, could be doing to you later. ... (read in full...)
I was married, but now I'm alone in this world, and I've done nothing wrong.
Q. I have tried in many ways to find love but can't seem to find it anywhere. Is it because I'm 48? Is it because I have a heart problem? Is it because I'm not that good looking? (don't get me wrong I'm not that bad) Or is that I don't have much mo...
A. 21 May 2008: Hi,
Have you tried finding love in people by maybe helping them? Sometimes the love of a man is not all what we women need. Volunteer to assist with the elderly, hospitals, or others. YOu will find that if you give love, it will come back to y... (read in full...)
Please help me, I'm so desperate to save my marriage!
Q. I made the biggest mistake of my life last march. I met some guy on the internet. We ended up having sex and now my marriage is on the verge of getting divorced. I want to know how i can fix it. I have two kids in this mess as well. I still love...
A. 21 May 2008: Hi,
Unfortunately, when one's trust is broken, it is sometimes very difficult to repair. Were there reasons that made you do that? something lacking in your marriage perhaps? have you already talked to him about that and explain things? If you ... (read in full...)
All I did was ask her if she cheated on me!!
Q. Why would my girlfriend brake up with me?! All I did was ask her a question to see if she had cheated on me....
A. 21 May 2008: Hi, You don't say what the question was, but perhaps it was an offensive one, or she saw it as a lack of trust on her? ... (read in full...)
Please take a minute to pray for me...
Q. My heart cant take much more! Well i've still been sticking it out with my boyfriend who is still talking and kissing his ex's behind, just so he can have a calm relationship with his kids. I need a prayer request please!!! I want to be strong eno...
A. 21 May 2008: Hi Misha,
One question...can't he get shared custody of his kids?
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She is in canada and I'm from UK I plan to one day visit any help from people who have experience of long distance love?
Q. Ok well i met a girl a short tiem ago and to make it short we fell in love at first we though it was just puppy love but after we spoke more and more we found that it was the real deal i am only 15 and some may say im much to young to think of love ...
A. 21 May 2008: It is real, long distance relationships can work, but it is not easy, specially if you take into consideration immigration regulations. If you are certain this is it for you, and you are thinking of planning a future with her, perhaps it would be a ... (read in full...)
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