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writes:welll me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7months now .. and we had a massive fall out on sunday there . well we actually split up for a couple of days .. because i was getting to jelous .. i cant help it but ? everytime i see him looking at someone i always accuse him of looking at other girls and we were on the train and this girl smiled at him and i thought he knew her but he said he never .. and i kept accusing him and would always talk to him pure in a bad way .. like i always get soo jelous .. then we where on the phone on sunday night and he finished with me because i kept argueing with him i dont know why .. i cant seem to control this !! and its buggin me .. but he finished with me and said sooo mean stuff to me anno i probly deserved it but he was sayin stuff like i dont wanna ever get bk together and go find someone else n a havnt loved you for a while n sayin he hated me n everything .. but i was at college yesterday and i was in the town for my lunch and i ended up seeing him in the town but we hadnt spoke since sunday.. well monday because i was still beggin him but he wasnt having any of it .. he just wanted to think about it .. but i seen him yesterday and he just started smiling at me sooo much and he was huggin me and telling me he missed me soo much and that .. and he asked me bk together .. but i still have this heartbreaking feeling that something will happen like this again :( .. and i dont want it to .. because i was soooo depressed i wouldnt eat or sleep i just hope he does love me .. but he said he was angry thats why he said all that stuff to me ... but he said it would work this time .. what do you think ... ??
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reader, Gio  +, writes (23 May 2008):
I think he must really like you and care for you if he is putting up with your jealousy and accusations. You ask if it will work this time? It seems as it is up to you. Stop imagining things, accusing him of things because he looks at someone else. We all look at those around us, there is nothing wrong with it. Don't allow jealousy get in the way of what could be a nice lasting relationship.
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