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... Send *renzotic a private message | | | *renzotic's profile:Many friends of mine always come to me for advice and support for issues in their life whether general issues, financial issues but more often than anything it's relationship issues.
I'm still puzzled as to why they make me the first person to see but as I've found out from a dear friend of mine, I have an uncanny ability to see from many perspective, put my feet into different shoes and see things from both a male and female mindstate.
I've always been lending not just an ear but a hand to people. I like to try and help people with their worries and let them know there are ways of finding light at the end of the tunnel.
I hope that maybe some of my suggestions and words into some of your issues may prove helpful into ensuring the health of your relationships, into the people in your lives and to you. =] |
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How do I break up with a girl who adores me? I'll have to see her every day!
Q. I am in a serious dilemma.I am currently in an unhappy 3 months relationship. I really want to break up with my girlfriend. Trouble is she really adores me and she is planning out our future together and i am so terrified at breaking her heart and ...
A. 28 November 2009: Unfortunately avoidance is hard in this situation. However you really need to tell soon before she keeps dreaming bigger and bigger...the sting for her would get worse if you let it drag.
You need to sit her down and tell her "Listen, I don't th... (read in full...)
He shows signs he fancies me, but he's too shy to act. What do I do?
Q. I have liked this guy for over a year now and just recently he has began to show feelings towards me and many other people have been noticing. But the problem is is that he doesnt ever act on his feelings. It so hard to move on but i feel like we ...
A. 28 November 2009: Maybe you should start off acting on your own feelings, that way he'll start getting used to it, getting comfortable around you and maybe bring him out of his shell enough for him to display his own affections. =]... (read in full...)
Should I tell my bestfriend her boyfriend is cheating on her?
Q. hey! i have this best friend of mine at school and she has a boyfriend whom she's been with for 4 years or so... he's also at the same school. her boyfriend comes to the same tuition place at me [we go there for extra classes] and there he flirts ...
A. 26 November 2009: Surely he knows you? You're his girlfriend's best friend!
You should call him out on it. Ask him what he's playing at.
You need to tell your friend otherwise if later on she finds out and asks why you never told her, seeing as you and her boyf... (read in full...)
First he likes me then he doesn't.
Q. ok so i was on facebook looking through my friends photo album when i seen a guy i was attracted to, now i dont usually do this but my friend convinced me to randomly add him so i did. after he private msged me asking if i knew him and that he ...
A. 26 November 2009: You pretty much told him straight away you were attracted to him, you coming out of the blue, he didn't know who you were but was flattered that you liked him.
He may have been harmlessly flirting back to you.
He was wary about the attracti... (read in full...)
Girlfriend allows her Ex Boyfriend to stay the night with her.
Q. This is very complicated. My girlfriend who has a 2 yr old with her ex... who abandoned them for a high paying job out of state.... began dating me knowing that I was married but ending my marriage. While we fell in love ..over a two month period of ...
A. 26 November 2009: Your feelings were valid and not unreasonable at all. She told you he was trying to win her back...even more reason for you to feel cautious, wary, even angry but by using this emotion to respond to the situation could make her feel rather ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like I miss him if missing someone is not a sign of being in love?
Q. I am seeing a guy, whom I got to know at work. We have been hanging out and I get a sense of 'missing' when we are separate.I have been told that it isn't a sign for being in love, but if this is not the case, then why do I feel this way? Out of all ...
A. 26 November 2009: No, it simply means you miss the company of the guy you're seeing. It doesn't have to mean love and everyone experiences that at one point whether you're dating someone or you haven't seen your friends for a week etc
Surely if you're seeing h... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about this half-used box of condoms?
Q. I've been with my bf for about 5 months. He's absolutely amazing, treats me well, listens to me and respects me. Early in our relationship I told him that when it comes to being intimate I want to take things slow. I still haven't slept with him and ...
A. 26 November 2009: Has he been in a relationship with anyone else before you? You never know, he may have gave some to friends or his brother gave him half, or it's in his wallet etc?
If it's starting to nig at you you should ask him..
Just say "Oh I was looking ... (read in full...)
My friend is getting in the way of my relationship!
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend 3 weeks tommorow. Every time we go out in a large group, loads of people come out. But i have this one friend who i used to be really close too and now i can't be becuase i'm busy every day!! But when we're ...
A. 26 November 2009: Your friend may feel like she's competing for your attention, do try and arrange time for her or when in a big group make sure you talk with her alot rather than briefly.
You can try to sit, walk holding hands, wrapping arms around the boyfrien... (read in full...)
Why would a husband try to tape record his wife secretly?
Q. Why would a husband buy a recorder and hide it from me? I found a recorder in my vehichle and asked him if he knew what it was. He said it looked like a recorder. I said, oh maybe it belongs to one of our kids friends. He went on to his own ...
A. 25 November 2009: Have you been doing anything to make him think suspiciously?
Tell him it's strange since he never uses your car, hand it back to him and tell him that you're open and honest and if he wants to talk to talk to you. Leave him to be after that. If... (read in full...)
Feeling miserable over missing my bf! Is this relationship worth it?
Q. I am 19 years old, in college. My boyfriend graduated from college this year and we are staying practically on opposite ends of the country. My problem is that he doesn't seem to have enough time for me. If I call him, he says he will call me back ...
A. 25 November 2009: I think only you can answer if the relationship is worth it here.
I'm in a similiar situation...if you are feeling lonely then you need to find activities/hobbies that will allow you to enjoy yourself and make friends even.
ALl too often it's v... (read in full...)
Is that considered sex? Am I still a virgin?
Q. if a guy stuck his penis all the way in my vagina but he just stayed there and didn't move. like there were no thrusting or humping motions, is that considered sex? or sexual intercourse? am i still a virgin?...
A. 25 November 2009: Hey!
He entered you so no you're no longer a virgin. It doesn't matter if there was no humping, thrusting etc
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Are these signs she is cheating on me? What do you think?
Q. hey i'm in a long distance relationship and i suspect my partners cheating on me... many things tell me she is and i will write them as the following,but please,i would appreciate if no one answered me with the same old" oh y'know when you sta...
A. 24 November 2009: If you slept with her 6 weeks and she's 5 weeks pregnant then that's normal as it can take up to a week for sperm to fertilise an egg.
Having all-male friends on a night out sounds innocent, when she calls you by other men's name is it one of t... (read in full...)
I'm beginning to doubt my boyfriend loves me any more...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been in a committed relationship for 4.5 months now. He stays 9 hours away from my house but we really love each other. Nowadays he doesn't seem the same. Recently I was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and his best ...
A. 23 November 2009: You have a right to be annoyed at waiting for him just to hear him say he can't talk to you...but at least he rang you like he said =)
You said you'd talk to him in 2 minutes...what's wrong, if he's going to wait that he can't talk to his best fri... (read in full...)
Did I put my foot in by telling him I liked him?
Q. The other day I text my crush/friend that I had a little crush on him. When I text him he actually answered one of my questions for once but after that he didn’t text back. I went to the movies with my friends and his brother and all throughout that ...
A. 23 November 2009: Definitely a good thing you told him, I mean, hell even his brother is curiously smiling at you...gotta be a good thing!
You should try asking your crush how he feels about you. That or wait and see what happens...but surely you'd want to know wha... (read in full...)
I cant stop having sex dreams about my ex, please help?
Q. I cant stop having sex dreams about me and my ex, i've been told its natural etc but its not how i am - I'm quite a shy girl and never used to think about sex really. Unlike my friends I'm in no rush to have sex, mainly because I'm quite childish i ...
A. 23 November 2009: I'm afraid you can't control dreams. People have many vivid and intense dreams of all kinds. Dreams don't reflect your personality.
Dreams have long been discussed, no one knows why we dream what we dream. Many say dreams happen to represen... (read in full...)
I'm not sure how he feels. Do you think he likes me back?
Q. Hiyaaah I really really like this guy! He's a year below me in school and before I knew him properly he asked me out but I said no because I don't date guys unless I know them quite well and plus I didn't really like him much, but now I do I reall...
A. 23 November 2009: Sounds like he may like you back. You need to make general conversation with him face to face, talk about school...or something he mentioned online....get the ball rolling or miss out!
You may want to tell him again that you like him and sorry be... (read in full...)
He's left me holding the baby while he goes out and cheats!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we have a 3 month old baby girl, we are engaged and living together. I'm 17 years old, he is 22 years old... i love him with all my heart and now i feel hopeless. lots of different girls have been calling him ...
A. 23 November 2009: Hey, I'm sorry you have to go through all of this =(
The guy is cheating on you, PUNCHING you, telling you what you CAN and CANNOT do and it seems he's HARDLY there for you or your child.
It doesn't sound like he cares or respects you girl but... (read in full...)
When is he going to ask me to be his girlfriend?
Q. Ok, pretty simple question. I've been seeing this new guy for nearly a month. For about 2 weeks it's been getting serious. We are together almost every night when we both get off work. He never makes plans without me and I always invite him to ...
A. 23 November 2009: I've been in a similar situation, I realised some guys aren't going to be clear...the only thing you can do if you don't want to wait for him to talk, is to ask him yourself otherwise you'll be left thinking "what on earth are we exactly?"
I rem... (read in full...)
Why is he unhappy?
Q. My fiance and I would have been celebrating our 5th year together in December but in October he tells me that he feels like something is wrong with him, he thinks its an early mid-life crisis (he's 33), something is missing in his life, he feels ...
A. 23 November 2009: Has he been stressed lately?
Sometimes it isn't the relationship that caused anything. There comes a time in life where people need to discover themselves again. I know it seems vague but some people lose their identity and need to go find the... (read in full...)
Does he fancy my best friend and only talk to me online because he is bored?
Q. Hey everyone. I’m very confused about this guy’s behaviour and was hoping you could help me out. He’s good friends with my best friend. I met him about a year ago and he added me on msn. Since then I’ve been talking to him a lot online. By now we t...
A. 23 November 2009: hey!
From the sounds of it, it doesn't seem like he fancies your best friend.
You say that when he's online, he'll always start the conversation with you, everyday. A bored person doesn't do that.
Maybe by spending so much time online it's bec... (read in full...)
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