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*edwig07
writes:I am 19 years old, in college. My boyfriend graduated from college this year and we are staying practically on opposite ends of the country. My problem is that he doesn't seem to have enough time for me. If I call him, he says he will call me back in some time but that some time stretches to a few hours quite often. Also, since college isn't really busy and I dont hang out with a lot of people very often, I feel lonely at times. Added to this, all my friends have boyfriends here, and they spend most of their days with them, having fun. I just feel so left out and miserable. Is this relationship worth all the effort? I don't know what to do.But, also I must add, that my boyfriend is really very caring and sensible most of the time, even though, he does tend to give a lot of unwanted advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, Frenzotic  +, writes (25 November 2009):
 I think only you can answer if the relationship is worth it here.
I'm in a similiar situation...if you are feeling lonely then you need to find activities/hobbies that will allow you to enjoy yourself and make friends even.
ALl too often it's very easy to feel lonely, especially when the rest of your friends are with their boyfriends having fun etc...
The best thing you can do is talk to your boyfriend about how you're feeling and see if there's anything both of you guys can do to see more of each other
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