Is he normal? He says he doesn't want to sleep with me right now.
Q. I had a date last night with an amazing guy! We went out for drinks, ice cream, and to browse books at the local bookstore. After that, he invited me back to his place to play chess. We didn't get to play because we were too busy talking but then he ...
A. 29 January 2020: Wow, I think you would appreciate that you found a man who doesn’t just want to get in your pants on the first date. You should appreciate that and respect his desire to go slow. Personally I would never have sex on the first date and I would feel ... (read in full...)
No matter how much of an effort I put in, my husband looks at me like I'm am old dish rag
Q. I feel my husband is not attracted to me . He shows very little interest in me . I could walk around naked or in lingerie and he wouldn’t bat an eyelid but with other younger women who he clearly finds attractive he definitely pays attention . If we ...
A. 29 January 2020: My husband is the same way so I feel your pain. He doesn’t like that I’ve put weight on (even tho he has gained much more than me!!) and he frequently criticizes my belly fat which I feel very self-conscious about. I have never caught him watching ... (read in full...)
What is the ideal male body type?
Q. I have been lifting weights for ten years and had a bodybuilder type of body. Most other males envied me. I assumed women found my type of physique attractive too. So I was surprised that my girlfriend didn't quite like the way I look and wanted me ...
A. 21 January 2020: Personally, I don’t like muscular men and I find slightly chubby guys to be the most attractive. I don’t understand the appeal of rock-solid 6-pack abs. My husband’s belly has always been quite big and I love it. It’s very cute. It feels so good to ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend masturbates to people he finds on instagram. I feel like I've been cheated on
Q. I know everybody does it but It’s been three years that we’ve been together and I walked in on my boyfriend masturbating and he pretended he was just gonna take a shower while slamming his laptop. So I did something I regret and snooped and found a ...
A. 21 January 2020: So he’s just looking at girls’ pictures and masturbating? Has he contacted any of the girls? Texted them? Talked to them? Met them? If not, I don’t consider this cheating. Honestly this is totally normal behavior for men. It’s just a fact that men ... (read in full...)
Should I move on or give it one more try with my overly religious ex
Q. So I dated this guy in 2013-2015 We got very serious very fast. He came from an overly religious background but when we met he was more or less totally normal and although he was against having sex before marriage. We did it multiple times a...
A. 7 January 2020: Leave him. You love each other, but it takes more than love to make a marriage work. It also takes agreement on important issues like faith, values, lifestyle, and how to raise children. It may be nice to think that two people with very different ... (read in full...)
I like to sleep naked. Is there any concerns I should have?
Q. I enjoy sleeping completely naked. Is there any concerns I should have? I keep my bedroom window covered up and I know not to near my front windows without putting clothes on. So there is no chances of my neighbors accidentally seeing me naked....
A. 7 January 2020: I usually sleep naked! The only thing I ever worry about is a spider biting me in a sensitive area (extremely unlikely but terrifying). Just check your bed for insects before getting into it, don’t leave food in your bedroom (it attracts bugs), and ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't like my new hair colour.
Q. ive been with my partner for twenty years when I met him I was natural brunette but now im in my mid forties got a few greys and I changed my hair to blonde which everyone likes my family and friends and I get much more attention. Most importantly I ...
A. 30 December 2019: Why didn’t you ask for his opinion before dying your hair? Personally, if I were you I would change back to brunette. I want to be as attractive as possible to my husband so I value his opinion the most.... (read in full...)
She gave me her number but isnt answering.
Q. Hi! Thanks in advance for your time. Briefly, I was out Friday and met a nice waitress in a lounge restaurant. We clicked. Good conversation along with sexual tension. She kept telling me she'd come back to our table to chat and she did with one...
A. 5 December 2019: The “wait 3 days” thing is old-school. Nowadays, it’s better not to wait too long. Don’t text her 2 minutes after getting her number, that would be annoying and clingy. But later on that night, or the next day, would be good. Sounds like she either ... (read in full...)
I've been tracking my wife via her phone and she lies about where she has been.
Q. I’ve had suspicions my wife has been cheating on me for some time. There were signs all over the place that I just couldn’t ignore. In the end I decided to track her day to day using the ‘Find my iPhone’ app whilst I was at work and the kids were at ...
A. 4 December 2019: Are there other reasons you think she’s cheating on you or is this it? Is your relationship healthy? What made you suspicious enough to start tracking her? What you are describing sounds suspicious BUT there are an infinite number of possibilities ... (read in full...)
I really want a baby, is this a stage I am going through?
Q. I turn 18 in a couple months and have been with my boyfriend a little over 2 years. We are neighbors so we have slept with each other but I really want a baby. And I really want to be with him forever. Is this just a stage I am going through?...
A. 3 December 2019: Yes. Do NOT get pregnant right now. You are setting yourself up for a lot of unnecessary pain if you do. It takes more than love to raise a child. It takes finances and stability, neither of which you have right now. I know these feelings seem ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps making comments that make me feel bad about myself.
Q. I've been dating a man for the last 3 months that has never been in a relationship before. He's 27 and has dated but never committed. We met through mutual friends and had a bit of a rough start in some areas but he was always receptive to listening ...
A. 28 November 2019: Have you gained weight? My husband made similar comments to me and they really hurt. I’m not obese but I’m not skinny either (5’2” 175 pounds) and he is constantly looking at skinny girls online which makes me feel very insecure about my size :/ I ... (read in full...)
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