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Will I trust again?

Q.   I have just found out that my finance that I have been with for over 12 years has been cheating on me for about 1 month. I found out when I received the cell phone bill and this odd number was all over the bill. He denied it so then I really ...

A.   25 November 2007: I've been in your shoes, its horrible. I hope your taking care of your health, thats most important right now. When trust is lost, you really have nothing. I caught my wife having multiple affairs at the same time. I was devistated and instead of ... (read in full...)

How can we find our daughter?

Q.   my daughter joined a cultic relationship. he made her change sch stop contact with family and friends and moved her away. now she seems to have left him but we have no idea where she is. we think its a cult farm, any ideas of how we can find out ...

A.   27 October 2007: If I were you, I would seek help from a private investigator. You should contact the police and file a missing persons report if you have'nt already.... (read in full...)

My best friends mum

Q.   i live in glasgow,scotland and i am 31, i want to shag my best freinds mum but i dont know how to go about it she has great big tits. my freind lives away from home so it's just her living herself, one time i was at my freinds own house at ...

A.   27 October 2007: Be prepared for new teeth.... (read in full...)

The second time the guy's wife came to my house and showed me a text message on his cell phone from my wife, saying she loved him.

Q.   My wife cheats on me constantly, we've been together for 15 years. I just caught her for the 3rd time in the past 8 months with the same guy from her work. At first she said nothing was going on, I caught them flirting. The second time the guy's ...

A.   11 August 2007: I have been in your shoes. This is all to familar to me. I am still with my wife but I can tell you the lack of trust has caused me to loose most of my love for her and there is still no telling if she would put our marriage at risk again. After ... (read in full...)

Is six to eight bottles of alcohol a weekend-every weekend too much?

Q.   Does my husband have a problem with drinking? i have been with my husband for 13 years.when we were 20 we drank at christmas,nights out or special occasions.this is the way its been for the past 12 and a half years.alchol never really intereste...

A.   17 July 2007: I can only see this turning into 6-10 bottles everyday soon. You have to stand strong, him make him give it up. Let him know he's risking it all, his family, health and career. Look into Alanon, [sorry I'm not sure of the spelling.] That is a good ... (read in full...)

My wife said she doesn't think she is right for me any more and I'm devastated!

Q.   My Wife and I have been together for 7, coming on to 8 years. Married for nearly 6 years, we have 2 lovely boys aged 4 and 21 months. This whole thing has come as such a shock to me. About 2 weeks ago my wife said that she didn't love me anymore and ...

A.   15 July 2007: I would think she has something going on with another guy. This is exactly what happened to me. My wife had an affair and soon after had several. One day she came home and said she didn't love me or want to be with me any more. Shortly after giving ... (read in full...)

Did she have revenge sex?

Q.   Revenge Sex? My girlfriend and i were out with another couple. I knew the other girl for years, and we were all drinking. The other girl kissed me, open mouth style and I let her. My girlfriend saw this and was devistated. Two weeks late...

A.   13 July 2007: Only you will really know if she is the type of person to be willing to cheat. The scratches and bruises could have come from anywhere. If she's the vengful type, she may have. Keep an eye on her, you'll know soon enough if she is cheating. A person ... (read in full...)

Attractive or not? - dense black pubic hair.

Q.   I have lots of black dense pubic hair and I don't shave or trim. Do guys find this attractive or do they hate it?...

A.   11 July 2007: I like it hairy, bald is bland. Trimmed is also fine with me. I see many women like to shave it all off for some reason. I am not into that at all.... (read in full...)

I wake up in the night and he's pleasing himself... !

Q.   hi i have been with partner for 3 years we have a good sex life but over the past few months he has become distant towards sex we still have it but not as often and i often wake through the night and he will be masterbating he does not know i am ...

A.   11 July 2007: I would dump him, he has issues. He has no desire left for you because he is always masturbating, probably more then you'll ever know. Being that he satisfies his own needs, he has little to no desire to take care of your needs because he's already ... (read in full...)

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