I'm pregnant and he's not there for me...
Q. I like this boy, his name is Chris and we've been going out a lot of times since we met but we kept on breaking up over and over again. Then on 3/13/08 we start going out and we were having sex and now I'm pregnant and he's not there. What should ...
A. 20 March 2008: So you sttarted going out on the 13th of March and having sex and now by the 20th March you are sure you are pregnant?!!!!... (read in full...)
Does the trust EVER come back again?
Q. When your partner does something to hurt you, lets say emotionally cheats and even though he's sorry and you give him another chance, things will never really be the same again will they?? Does the trust ever come back... is it possible to forget t...
A. 18 March 2008: I've also been in the exact same situation. Ok its fairly new for me (as in 2 months ago). Well what happened in my situation was I cried a LOT, I was with him. He explained (ok every badly), I had to get it all of my chest, I found it less ... (read in full...)
I feel like my dad doesn't approve of anything in my life...
Q. hi, im sixteen and i need some advice. I want to be an architect but my dad keeps saying that job doesnt pay well for women and idk what to do. Thats something i really want to do, i just feel like my dad doesnt approve of any part of my life, he ...
A. 17 March 2008: You know what I wanted to be an engineer. My dad didnt approve. I spend 3 years at university and doing a good degree (physics) - I dont regret it at all. After the 3 years I decided to go for a masters in Engineering. Well my dad eventually ... (read in full...)
What is spooning and why do men and women enjoy it so much??
Q. I have a question about what the term spooning refirs to. How is spooning done? What information do you have about it? What is it about it that women tend to enjoy? What do men like about it? What aspects of spooning are equally enjoyable for men ...
A. 21 February 2008: Spooning is better than cuddling as you are "cuddling" up against each others bodies, it's comfortable - you might get a little "poke" in your back though. x... (read in full...)
What does this phrase mean?
Q. Question for the agony aunts. What does this phrase mean? "What goes on tour stays on tour". This is regarding my husband's trips away with a couple of friends.(some are day trips and some are overnight/two days away in another country) It is ...
A. 18 February 2008: It means that whatever happens when he is away stays away. It may be a secret of his, or a secret of a friend, it may be as suggested just boy talk, or something like BadVoice noted. I recently went on a girl’s weekend away and we said this befo... (read in full...)
Should he be so flirty with her?
Q. I’ve a question, what would you think about the following situation? Ok I was looking at some past chat logs on my bf's computer (I wouldn’t normally, just I really don’t trust the girl he was talking to). My bf isn’t naturally very flirty yet he f...
A. 18 February 2008: Hey xemzybabex and Tuatara thanks for your answer, it’s so much easier to know other people who have been in the same situation and worked through it. I agree but I’d rather him not flirt on MSN as if I did exactly the same back then I’m sure he w... (read in full...)
Should he be so flirty with her?
Q. I’ve a question, what would you think about the following situation? Ok I was looking at some past chat logs on my bf's computer (I wouldn’t normally, just I really don’t trust the girl he was talking to). My bf isn’t naturally very flirty yet he f...
A. 18 February 2008: Hey xemzybabex and Tuatara thanks for your answer, it’s so much easier to know other people who have been in the same situation and worked through it. I agree but I’d rather him not flirt on MSN as if I did exactly the same back then I’m sure he... (read in full...)
Every time I see him, I end up with a painful vaginal opening that lasts for weeks.
Q. I'm in my late 40s and going through menopause. I have a boyfriend who I only see once in a while, outside of a long term monogomous relationship. Every time I see him, I end up with a painful vaginal opening that lasts for weeks. He's not massively ...
A. 13 February 2008: You might be allergic to that brand of condom, try another brand and see what the out come is?... (read in full...)
Should he be so flirty with her?
Q. I’ve a question, what would you think about the following situation? Ok I was looking at some past chat logs on my bf's computer (I wouldn’t normally, just I really don’t trust the girl he was talking to). My bf isn’t naturally very flirty yet he f...
A. 9 February 2008: Hey guys, thanks for the responses, I did tell him it bothered me and if he was really serious about us then he had to actually prove he meant it. He has been trying to prove it to me...only time will tell I guess. I'm just a little concern... (read in full...)
I want them to have great lives.
Q. Hello again, My name is Faith and i previously posted a question about my childrens grandmother wanting to take custody of them. First of all thankyou for all your help but i have another question. Ive been thinking alot, and im just wonde...
A. 8 February 2008: I dont agree with what Koga 777 said. I have read your previous post and their grandmother if she truly has their best interests at heart would take you up on your offer of you moving to America with the triplets and not just the triplets. You ... (read in full...)
I am cold all the time, even in the blazing sun. What is wrong with me?
Q. i'm just wondering does anyone out there get really cold n i mean freezing cold. what ever the weather even blazing sun shine i'm cold. i'm never able to get a warm, i work in a kitchen and still cold. my boyfriend hates me touching him som...
A. 8 February 2008: It will be due to bad circulation, I am cold when it is hot as well - I give blood and they comment that my veins are small!
There is a disease called Raynauds Syndrome (research it on the net), where when your hands heat up they take ages to ... (read in full...)
Why do I seem to scare men away? Is there a hidden rule somewhere that I don't know about?
Q. This thing keeps happening to me. I meet someone they flirt, they look for excuses to see me again, we end up having the longest phone conversation and they laugh and giggle and you'd think they like me and then they don't call back or they don't ...
A. 8 February 2008: Dont talk about the ex...my boyfriend did for a good few months when we first started going out. It got to the point I was seriously going to ask him to stop or end it but as if by some miracle he suddenly decided to stop talking about her at the ... (read in full...)
Which one of us is being unreasonable - if either?
Q. Since my childhood I've slept with a noisemaker to drown out all the other sounds of the night. I find it soothing and I daresay I'm somewhat dependent upon it for a good night's sleep. My girlfriend of two years absolutely hates the thing. It's ...
A. 1 February 2008: Hi,
Me and my boyfriend have similar issues, we don't live together so its not a major problem. He likes to have a film/music on to sleep to, I however do not. The slightest noise keeps me awake.
You need to try and sleep without it or tu... (read in full...)
Can fighting/arguments be good for a relationship?
Q. Hi guys. I just have a general relationships question that I've been pondering for quite some time now and I'd really like some outside oppinions. Okay so, do you guys find that fighting/arguments are helpful or detrimental to a relationship? Is it ...
A. 29 January 2008: I think arguments are good for a relationship, it clears the air rather than holding it in for too long and it eating away at your insides. Obviously constant arguments are not good but the odd argument here and there I would say is healthy. You ... (read in full...)
When is it adequate to kiss a person for the first time? I want to, but should I?
Q. How do you decide if you should to kiss a guy yet? I've kissed people before, I just mean, how do you know if you are ready with a new person. I feel like I want to but I don't know if I should, even though he always asks me....
A. 19 December 2007: A peck on the cheek early wouldn’t matter; it will show you're interested yet reserved (i.e. he has to work to earn you rather than throwing yourself at him). However if it reels right go for it; if it doesn’t well there is always next time. ... (read in full...)
I would like my friend to introduce me to her collegue
Q. I have a female friend working on a local copmany, the problem is I am attracted by her collegue and she don't know me we never met before with her collegue I just saw her on my friend photo album bt I am not stop thinking her what can I do to get ...
A. 19 December 2007: Tell your friend you like her and see if she will invite you out somewhere on a group thing so you can get chatting to this woman that way. ... (read in full...)
Why did my ex say he wanted to be friends, but hasn't been in contact since? Did he mean it or was he saying it to spare my feelings?
Q. What does it mean when he says we should just be mates in a guys mind? thats what my recent ex said but not heard from him since ive got an idea of it like he said that but didnt mean it please help...
A. 19 December 2007: I think blokes find that as a way of breaking your heart but not completely stomping on it. Maybe he does want to be friends but maybe he doesn't want to contact you so soon, and maybe he thinks if he contacts you too soon then you might take it the ... (read in full...)
I just don't know how to tell my mum we are sleeping together without her losing trust in me.
Q. Hey... I'm 17 and been with my guy for 6 months (he's almost 19) we've had sex like 6 times in the relationship and i want to tell my mum about it because i promised her that when i did i would tell her but i just dont know how as i cant give her...
A. 29 November 2007: Maybe still tell your mam but tell her you slept together for the first time whenever you choose to tell her as that way it will clear your conscience and keep your mam happy x... (read in full...)
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