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writes:I have felt alone a lot lately. I was at a friends house and they told me they had seen an ex-gf of mine and said she was asking about me. I was the one who broke it off with her and it didn't end the best. In the past few weeks I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. I know it wouldn't work to start a relationship again but I still want to go to her. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): You still must have feelings for her. If you don't go back to her you will never know what could of been. If the reasons you broke up were no warranted or sometimes we can make mistakes, the only way to find out if it will work is by going back to her. She probably also thinks about you. If you had a good thing it is most likely there is still the connection you both had. There is no shame in returning to someone you love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): If you don't try you will never know. There must be a reason that you feel so strongly about this person still. The connection and feelings is still there. Try to make it work and you may be surprised.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): You had your reasons for breaking up with her. Just ask yourself were they good reasons. If they were, then stand strong and deal with your desicion. If not, then maybe you should rethink what you did.
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reader, diobolicmuphin +, writes (21 June 2009):
So go to her! You don't have to be lovers to share a friendship. There's a million more people you may not be meant for, but that doesn't mean at all that you cannot be friends with them. Guaranteed, if you just sit around wondering, you're only going to feel worse. Go for her.
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