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He is my soulmate but I am starting to have 'stray' thoughts!!!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2.5 years. The first time I met him I was attracted to him, though he paid me no mind, and we ended up hating each other. On a whim, I talked to him about a year later, and I, seemingly automatically, became ...

A.   3 March 2007: Im also 21 and have been with my bf for 3 and a bit years and i know exactly what your going through. sometimes i felt that i was bored wthin my relationship but i was still totally in love with my bf and didnt want to break up with him because i ... (read in full...)

I feel I've lost a big chunk of trust for him. How can I gain this back?

Q.   we been together a month and we talk every day but recently a 13 yr old girl from the other side of the world started to claim she was my bfs gf and he loves her and all this **** he says he has blocked her on msn but i feel ive lost a big chunk of ...

A.   3 March 2007: you cannot expect to get the trust back into a relationship over night, it takes time and everytime you are not together you will be wondering what he is up to but if you decide that you want to make another go of your relationship then you have to ... (read in full...)

Does anybody know something I can do in bed to really impress my boyfriend??

Q.   Does anybody know something I can do in bed to really impress my boyfriend!! We have fantastic sex I just want to do something different that will really blow him away!! Any of you ladies or gents out there got any useful tips!! ...

A.   1 March 2007: Men love foreplay so why not blindfold him and give him lots of foreplay. men love it because they dont know whats coming next and apparently they get more sensation. you could always use moisturiser or baby oil when you play with him varying your ... (read in full...)

Am I too young to be broody??

Q.   Hi, im almost 21 and i have been with my fiance who is 22 for nearly six years now. We are both very happy, and have just got a mortgage together, but their is one problem........IM BROODY!!! We both work and i have a really good job, but their are ...

A.   1 March 2007: you seem very mature and emotionally and financially stable which is a good basis for bringing a bay into the world. for information about precautions to take whilst pregnant at work apprantly www.vetnurse.co.uk has forums about pregnancy and things ... (read in full...)

I would absolutely love to have a 3-some but how do I approach the wife about it?

Q.   so...i kinda wanna have a threesome but how do i ask my wife if she wants to get involved? this could be a touchy area. i think it would be so hot to be with two girls but yeah asking the wife.......

A.   1 March 2007: i think this is a definate no no. i had a threesome and it is something i would never recommend it creates so many problems afterwards. women get very jealous and at the time everything may seem as if it is going well but afterwards you will get all ... (read in full...)

I wrote for advice last year. This is an update on my age gap relationship.

Q.   Just over a year ago, I wrote a question asking for help with an age gap relationship. Some of the people who offered their advice asked for an update, so here it is... We are still together- I'm almost 18, and he just turned 32. We've known ...

A.   1 March 2007: not all age gap relationships fail i am the product of a successful age gap relationship there was 16 years between my mum and dad and they received so much criticism my mums parents even called the police on my dad yet they stuck with it and had ... (read in full...)

He says I'm fat, wants to leave me and wants to have sex with other women... but I love him, what do I do?

Q.   hi me and my bf are together for 8years now.a year ago he started to swear at me then he changed alot towards me he got very rude and had a bad temper, he gets angry quickly. He told my yesterday he actually wants to leave me coz its my fault he ...

A.   1 March 2007: i know its hard for you to hear but this man is not worthy of you. you need to get rid. i know it feels like a hard decision becuase for 8 years you have become used to having him around and the thought of being on your own is scarey but dont you ... (read in full...)

I have been with my girlfriend a year now and although we have sex I have never made her cum. Any advice?

Q.   hey there:) well... this is like my 1st message so it feels kinda weird. Right then... Ive been going out with my girlfriend for about a year and a bit and we have sex alot.. alot alot lol. but yeah i have never made her cum... she says she love...

A.   1 March 2007: I think its important to find out what your partner likes quite often they know what turns them on so sit down and so not to put pressure on her both of you tell each other what you like when it comes to sex. if she doesnt know then have fun ... (read in full...)

We flirt.. but how can I let my female cousin know I'm interested in her - and is she interested in me?

Q.   I am a 25 year old male living with my very attractive 30 year old female cousin who I am very attracted to. We have much in common. She often brags about how sexy or alike we are but I am not sure if her intrest is sexual. Whats the best way to ...

A.   1 March 2007: this is a very tricky road to go down firstly because if you make your feelings known to her and she does not recipricate then it could have a huge affect on your relationship Secondly whatever happens it is going to affect your families. you need ... (read in full...)

Can I still love my first love?

Q.   I am married to a wonderful man whom I learned to love deeply. I was contacted by my first boyfriend (of 30 years ago)recently and saw him. I still love him. Can that be true?...

A.   1 March 2007: Everyone has this amazing picture of their first love because it was the first time you felt that that warm gushy feeling that makes you want to melt but the truth is people change and what once seemed like the most amazing relationship in which you ... (read in full...)

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