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I really want to be with her, but I don't know what else to say or do!

Q.   Hey everyone, Well, I've been in a very confusing relationship for a year and half now. Basically, I'm in love with a girl that's in love with someone else. This other person lives in a country country and they only see each other for once e...

A.   9 November 2008: thanks for you comments so far. the thing is shes the one who sways back and forth. I'm not the one who decides to stop talking; she is. I try and respect her decision but after a couple of weeks she'll contact me and we'll start talking/seeing each ... (read in full...)

Do you think he wants to be friends so we have a chance at getting back together ?

Q.   My ex recently dumped me after an off and on relationship of 3 years. We had been arguing about small things and it was making us both unhappy, but I didn't want him to end things. Anyway, he dumped me about a month ago, and after the breakup he ...

A.   7 November 2008: i'm actually in the same situation. it sounds to me like hes confused; like hes not sure what he wants. the thing is, this could eventually turn into a cycle for you were you're together one day and not the next. so i think you should leave him ... (read in full...)

How long until I can truly move on?

Q.   Why am I still feeling this way? It’s been 1 year since the break up. One full year –time has flew by. Is it even possible to still feel LOVE? How long does it take to get over it. I know there is no possibility of me getting back especially ...

A.   7 November 2008: honestly the only person that will know is you. I felt like that with my last ex. I kept myself busy with anything and everything. It took nearly a year or so, but one day it just happened. I still thought about her from time to time but finally ... (read in full...)

I decided to go on a break with my LD boyfriend of 7 years because I have cheated on him so many times. I miss him already, what to do?

Q.   So, here is the background information. I have been with my bf since i was 16, hes 7 years older. we have been together for 5 years now. When i finished high school, i went 400 miles away to go to college. we always talk every day, multiple times in ...

A.   5 November 2008: honestly the only way you'll ever be able to move foreward is if you tell him the truth; completely. a relationship covered with lies is doomed to end. Aside from that, you have to ask yourself if you're really in love with him. Granted that you do ... (read in full...)

Should I wait around for him to break up with her like he told me he would?

Q.   so me and my ex boyfriend just recently broke up, and right after; he got back with a girlfriend he's been on and off with for about a year. it killed me, but i told him i was fine. after about 2 months of them being together; i finally started ...

A.   22 June 2008: I agree with the last person. Im kind of in the same situation. If you really want to see how this person feels about you, leave him alone and see if he comes back to you. If he loves or cares enough; he'll come back. If he doesn't then you'll get ... (read in full...)

Why won't he let me do this one thing?

Q.   My boyfriend and I are very comfortable with each other. We've been together for 4 years. We have a healthy sex life. I have one question though, he's seen every part of me, we've experimented with different things and positions... and yet he still ...

A.   22 June 2008: Honestly, it's just not his thing. No matter how much you're gunna ask him, it's more than likely not going to happen unless you did it in his sleep! but dont do that! I would just leave it alone and if theres ever a day he wants to do then there ya ... (read in full...)

Do I inititate contact, or do I wait for her?

Q.   i've been in a very confusing on and off relationship for almost a year now. It's been pretty complicated. In a nutshell, i messed up and lost her trust; not because of cheating but because i kept some things from her. She forgave me for what I've ...

A.   22 June 2008: thanks..well I haven't called or texted her in 4 days but she did email me telling me she wanted to be quiet. Is that a ploy for me to answer her back even though she said she wanted to be left alone for now?... (read in full...)

Do I inititate contact, or do I wait for her?

Q.   i've been in a very confusing on and off relationship for almost a year now. It's been pretty complicated. In a nutshell, i messed up and lost her trust; not because of cheating but because i kept some things from her. She forgave me for what I've ...

A.   22 June 2008: update. When i said I've had a confusing relationship; it was because she doesn't know what she wants and shes confused about who she wants. Shes been confused about either being wiht me or her first love from another country. Thats where the conf... (read in full...)

Not hearing from him is wrecking my head!

Q.   Well i dunno where to begin really, iv been kinda seeing this guy n really gettin close to him and have spent alot of time with him just lately,.. Being all cuddled up on the sofa watchin a film, walking down the road hand in hand and all that jazz, ...

A.   22 June 2008: I know the feeling trust me. I'm in the same situation right now. The only thing i can say is to call him and see whats going on, how he feels about the relationship. although i know what you mean about not tryin to seem so obessive. Most of my ... (read in full...)

Should I continue to be his girlfriend or should I move on?

Q.   Should I stay or should I go? And if I go, how can I cope with the pain and find new love, good love? I've been with this man for almost 2 years. He's been amazing most of the time. Except lately. Long story short, we have issues, I've writ...

A.   22 June 2008: The fact that hes a jealous person is one of the reasons why he has a hard time dealing with your past. He wants to you be the only girl for him, but now that he knows about your past he has doubts. I was in the same situation and my x had a pretty ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend can't trust me because I've confided in other people!

Q.   Theres a girl I'm in love with and we've been seeing each other for almost a year but not too long ago she lost complete trust in me. She is a very private person and doesn't like sharing her personal life with others. Throughout our relationship ...

A.   13 June 2008: hey thanks everybody. everything you guys have said has crossed my mind but i didn't want to ad mit it. I'm so in love with her but i don't know what else to do anymore. my close friends said to leave her alone and see if she comes back to me; by ... (read in full...)

Can a man please explain whats going through his mind?

Q.   Insight on men needed (sorry, this is kind of long-winded): My boyfriend and I are..were in a ldr [long distance relationship](only 4 hours), but it was okay b/c we saw each other often and he was VERY into me, almost obsessive at time. Then, he g...

A.   12 June 2008: From what i hear, sounds like hes basically insecure about the relationship. He definitely pushes u away so he doesn't get too hurt in the relationship, yet at the same time he does want to be with you. The Long distance is definitely whats ... (read in full...)

She says she really likes me, but she loves that guy and says she can't get over him.

Q.   Basically I've been having this on and off relationship with someone for 8 months now. The problem is she was/is in a long distance relationship with someone from another country that she only sees once a year. He was her first b/f, practica...

A.   13 May 2008: thanks again for your advice. ... (read in full...)

She says she really likes me, but she loves that guy and says she can't get over him.

Q.   Basically I've been having this on and off relationship with someone for 8 months now. The problem is she was/is in a long distance relationship with someone from another country that she only sees once a year. He was her first b/f, practica...

A.   11 May 2008: thanks everybody. Everything you guys have said so far has crossed my mind too, but i can't stop thinking about her. I feel bad cause our relationship started off based on her cheating. I also think and wonder, how in love can she really be if shes ... (read in full...)

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