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Why did he have makeup smeared around his lips?

Q.   My husband is the most loving loyal husband, we never argue at all and we get along amazing, we are both just so madly in love, he’s always been very affectionate and he really is amazing in every way. However he went on a works meal yesterday a...

A.   22 April 2018: It was just staff... (read in full...)

Why did he have makeup smeared around his lips?

Q.   My husband is the most loving loyal husband, we never argue at all and we get along amazing, we are both just so madly in love, he’s always been very affectionate and he really is amazing in every way. However he went on a works meal yesterday a...

A.   22 April 2018: Hello, sorry I meant female not snake, I didn’t spell check beforehand sorry. I know they called for first aid as I was on the phone while it was happening, however he did wake up himself when they were shouting him etc it was my friend who ... (read in full...)

Do you think he is using me?

Q.   Hi I'm a 23 yr old woman iv been with my boyfriend for almost 3months he never calls me unless I ring him,he hardly texts too. Three weeks ago I tried ringin him contiously as he did not pick up my calls and rhe next mornin he dumped me. When I m...

A.   15 June 2011: Dont abort your baby, plenty of mum are single and cope fine, this isnt your babies fault x... (read in full...)

How do I last longer?

Q.   Hi, My problem is somewhat universal... I started masturbating since I was 14 without knowing of what I was doing. But its been late till I knew what it was and it became an addiction to me and I could not help doing it. Now I am 23 and am still do...

A.   23 February 2011: It's not such a bad thing if your in a rush! Why don't you invest in some sex toys? there are toys that will hold pressure and make you last longer!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has anger issues, but I don't want him to leave. Will he ever change?

Q.   I really dont know what to do anymore! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a 6 month old son. He works nights and I look after our son. He gets really naggy over the slightest thing and will shout, swear, and punch the walls....

A.   1 February 2011: I have tried and he agreed to go but we didnt know how to go about that type of thing? He shot at you?? thats abit extreme!... (read in full...)

Help me find a name for my baby boy...

Q.   I'm due a baby boy in 5 weeks.. and i have no idea whatsoever to call him.. please could i have some ideas? I know this site isnt for this kind of question! but im desperate!...

A.   5 June 2010: Thankyou all for your answers!... (read in full...)

I can see us breaking up but I still have fun with him

Q.   My boyfriend of 3 years and nearlly two months, lives with me and my family and has done for 2 years. Recently tho we;ve been argueing alot, we usualy argue but neevr this much before. He says he doesnt think thing's are working out and doesnt want ...

A.   28 March 2009: You all make it sound so easy. I do love him, but thing's have just become so boring, and he just wants to play xbox all the time. & he's always so miserable and I sudgest things for us to do, and hes always moaning that he cant because he hasn... (read in full...)

How can I figure out if he's straight?

Q.   to make things clear, i am a bisexual thirteen year old. i like a guy, but he likes my ex girlfriend. i completely hate my ex. (i told her that im bi, and made her promise not to tell, and only a few people know it. and she did. she told ALOT of...

A.   21 December 2008: Honesty is the best policy, ask him! if you're not comfortable with asking then get to know him abit more, maybe say silly things like "isnt he hot". if a guy walks past, see his reaction. If he agrees he may just be joking though, try not to make a ... (read in full...)

Does he think I've done something bad when I haven't?

Q.   first of all I have ocd, paranoia and anxiety. Which makes my problems alot worse and gets me worked up about them. Im 15.. and this problem may seem petty and stupid, but it is really getting me down. These problems make me feel ill and I wont ...

A.   21 December 2008: Talk to the guy, if you like him & he likes you, don't worry about what other people say or think. If you you havent done anything wrong then try and explain this to him, maybe even over msn if it's easier, if he still doesnt believe you then maybe ... (read in full...)

Name on birth certificate! Help!

Q.   Hiya.. im really confused over what to do! I had my first baby in the middle of november, me and the father were not together when i gave birth and hadnt been for about 2 weeks.. he wasnt there when she was born, and saw he for the first t...

A.   21 December 2008: I personally would just be truthful, if you continue to lie or say that they made a "mistake" things will get worse, tell him how you we're feeling at the time & why you didnt add his name. If he doesnt understand then maybe reconsider adding him ... (read in full...)

I'm scared I'm going to lose him if I don't act now. What should I do?

Q.   Hi. at the moment i am really stuck. after talking to my ex boyfriend who i was with for 2 years on the internet the other day i haven't been able to get him out of my head. i love him so much and i've known him 4 3 years. hes one of the nicest guys ...

A.   5 July 2008: i would go for it, though you are young, you went out for awhile.. go for it :] just be careful he doesnt knock you back or hurt you. good luck x... (read in full...)

Am I psychic?

Q.   Heyy ! Im getting rather freaked out . I think i have physic ablilities. This has only happened twice but it only begun recently. First Occasion: I had a dream about a man in a bear suit in some toilets , the day later the exact same bear outfit +...

A.   4 June 2008: wow, well if you are psychic then im jealous!. things like this happen to me alot too.. but not as powerful.. i wouldnt read too much into it just yet, however if you do keep finding this happens then i would seriously consider weather you sho... (read in full...)

He likes me, but doesn't want his family/friends to know he likes fat girls?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for 6 months now and he doesn't want to introduce me to his friends or family. When I asked him why I havent met his family yet he said it is because I'm fat and he's not sure if they would approve. I've been ignoring him ...

A.   7 May 2008: what a load of crap! i'm fat. & I hate it. & i hate it hwen I get called fat. Why would you let a love one treat you this way?? ... (read in full...)

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