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British 19yo Male.

Currently at University, studying Accounting and Finance.

Trained peer mentor and mediator.

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He won't go out with me because I'm "flat chested" Grrrrr

Q.   Well basically, I am 14 and I am not fully 'developed' yet. Like I haven't started my period and my boobs are basically like mosquito bites. This is because my mum developed really late. She didn't start her period til she was 16 but the annoying ...

A.   25 March 2009: I agree with the others. I'm a teenage guy myself, and am often disgusted by the way other guys talk about girls. My best advice would be to ignore him completely. You need to find someone who accepts you for who you are; and because of your ... (read in full...)

He lied..he still checks girls out!

Q.   Ok.....so in the beginning of me and my boyfriends relationship I said that I dont like when he checks girls out because I find it to be disrespectful to me...and he said "ok, but iv been doing it my whole life, but if you give me some time I can ...

A.   25 March 2009: Whilst it may frustrate you that he does it, it's a natural thing to do. As 'Mr Me' said, girls do it too! As Ginalolabridga said - he's being honest with you. At least you know where you stand - he checks them out, but he's still with you - y... (read in full...)

Should I just delete the message before he gets it?

Q.   Help, urgent advice needed. You are probably sick of my saga. My husband had a 'text affair' with a work colleague and although it's over he still has to liaise with her and attend work related committee meetings (he doesn't see her on a daily basis ...

A.   25 March 2009: I don't know you. I don't know about your situation. But to me, this screams of major jealousy, and you're being rather childish about the situation. Do you not trust your husband at all? They have to work together, and they won't build a stri... (read in full...)

What should we do to make it good between both of us and make our parents happy too?

Q.   Okay, so me and my gilfriend have had are ups and downs and as of now, what should I do? I want her to marry me and she wants to marry me. But, there are many things wrong, for one her parents don't like me and mine don't like her but we are both ...

A.   24 March 2009: Understandably, you want both your parents to be happy with your relationship, but if you seriously want to marry eachother, then worrying about what parents think shouldn't be an issue. Parents want the best for their children, but contrary... (read in full...)

Teacher Love?

Q.   ok...do i hear anybody? *tests mic* ok...good. Listen please, i really need help. My teacher said i'm sexy and i'm only 13, he's 29. i love him, and i know all the risks i'm taking if i do love him. (The whole teacher can loose his job thing) Yea...

A.   24 March 2009: Olive... Know that it may be difficult for you. If you've got a close friend you can trust, it may be easier for you to ask them to go with you if you're going to talk to your principal. Also, still; even thought it was just a quick brush on t... (read in full...)

Teacher Love?

Q.   ok...do i hear anybody? *tests mic* ok...good. Listen please, i really need help. My teacher said i'm sexy and i'm only 13, he's 29. i love him, and i know all the risks i'm taking if i do love him. (The whole teacher can loose his job thing) Yea...

A.   24 March 2009: You're 13. I doubt you truly know what love is. And, the teacher having kissed you is total professional misconduct. My best advice for you would to be talk to another teacher in your school; there should be someone you can turn to; e.g. your p... (read in full...)

I'm really confused would he still wants sex with me yet he has a girlfriend

Q.   HI guys, ive just started talking 2 my ex again, i said id lend him money which i have done before, i said 2 him he can give it bk 2 him when ever he can, but then he goes and replys yeah im sexually favs, i mean yeah i still like him, and have slep...

A.   24 March 2009: I [partially] agree with the first response. Yes, he may just be wanting sex for the reason that he wants sex; and that he doesn't mind where he gets it from - gf or ex - as long as he gets some: the more the better. However, in counter to t... (read in full...)

Is this guy playing me? Or what?

Q.   hey people..can you help me with this please.. My question is, is this guy playing me? Basically, have known him for a couple of years, liked him for all of it...but it is only recently that he has come to find this out. We were at a houseparty whe...

A.   24 March 2009: I can't say if he's playing you or not; but there's one way to find out. Somebody has to be the first to make a move. Try asking him if he'd like to go for a coffee or something sometime - there's no harm in friends going out for a coffee. ... (read in full...)

I've gotten my tutor into big trouble!

Q.   Ok im 17 and basicly I have a tutor who I have liked for a long time and i was pretty sure he liked me too because of how flirty he was with me he'd like stroke my leg, playfully grab the back of my neck,ask me to stay behind class to help him do ...

A.   24 March 2009: Firstly, you should know that you've got nothing to feel guilty about. As a tutor, he has a duty of care, but must also keep contact at a professional level until you're at least 18. This is true even if he knew you liked him, and even if you ever... (read in full...)

Should I tell her I made out with someone when drunk?

Q.   Before I left for to Mexico for spring break I was kind of seeing a girl. We weren't officially dating but we told each other that over break we can look but not touch. So I went to Mexico and she went back home and I got blacked out drunk one ...

A.   24 March 2009: "Should I tell the girl I'm dating, what happened?" Despite saying to eachother 'look but don't touch,' something may have happened; and I believe telling the girl you are seeing that there's a possibility that something did happen should build up t... (read in full...)

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