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Why won't she give me her number?

Q.   I tried to get this girls number off of myyearbook.com, here's how the conversation went: Me: You have really pretty hair :) Her: Aha,thank youuu Me: You're welcome :) Her: :) Me: Can I have your number? Her: No Me: Ok. Why w...

A.   17 June 2012: Get to know a girl before you ask her for her number, that was just too creepy. She probably posted the number thing so she can get attention, or she might give it out to someone she finds extremely attractive. I've gotten 3 numbers from that site, ... (read in full...)

Need some info and insight about having sex on a girl's period. Help?

Q.   I'm in a real pickle about this one. My current girlfriend and I trust each other enough to have unprotected sex, and of course I get that feeling that I want to cum inside of her, although I can always control that urge. Me and her were talking ...

A.   17 June 2012: Stopped by to say thank you again and to post a little update. We've been using condoms to have sex, and we did try it while she was on her period. It did feel a little sloppy with a condom so I decided to try it without. I must say, it was great, ... (read in full...)

Need some info and insight about having sex on a girl's period. Help?

Q.   I'm in a real pickle about this one. My current girlfriend and I trust each other enough to have unprotected sex, and of course I get that feeling that I want to cum inside of her, although I can always control that urge. Me and her were talking ...

A.   31 May 2012: Dang you guys are amazing, I've put a lot of thought into everything now so thank you so much. We've started using condoms a lot more than before, really trying not to risk that accident. Will comment more later, again, thank you.... (read in full...)

Need some info and insight about having sex on a girl's period. Help?

Q.   I'm in a real pickle about this one. My current girlfriend and I trust each other enough to have unprotected sex, and of course I get that feeling that I want to cum inside of her, although I can always control that urge. Me and her were talking ...

A.   28 May 2012: To tell you the truth I know nothing about birth control pills, and I don't think she does either. I didn't know you can actually buy them, maybe that's the reason..... (read in full...)

Partner doesn't think of me during masturbation

Q.   Hi, this question is for women and men, would it bother you if your partner only thought about you briefly or sometimes not at all during masturbation at the start of a relationship? For some reason it bothers me, I would wonder why they hardly ...

A.   28 May 2012: You shouldn't worry about who or what he thinks when he masturbates, especially at the start of the relationship. If he falls in love with you I'm pretty he will think about you, at least every once in a while. In a relationship we're allowed to ... (read in full...)

Need some info and insight about having sex on a girl's period. Help?

Q.   I'm in a real pickle about this one. My current girlfriend and I trust each other enough to have unprotected sex, and of course I get that feeling that I want to cum inside of her, although I can always control that urge. Me and her were talking ...

A.   28 May 2012: Again thanks for the help, I think you guys are awesome. I'm also very happy that most answers are coming from females since most men, like me, think with a head at a time and it isn't always the right one. I feel a lot better with all the advice ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend asked me to stop the handjob I was giving him, because he didnt want to ejaculate and make a mess!

Q.   We were making out on his bed and it was intense ....he fingered me..he always cares a lot about my pleasure and makes sure to please me...and so far i never did anything for him...he'd say he just loves seeing me happy because it makes him happ...

A.   28 May 2012: You can always ask him if it feels good, or talk to him about it before you do it, letting him know you really want to do it. Ask him to guide your hand or let you know if he wants it slower, faster, harder, etc. It really can get messy so that may ... (read in full...)

Need some info and insight about having sex on a girl's period. Help?

Q.   I'm in a real pickle about this one. My current girlfriend and I trust each other enough to have unprotected sex, and of course I get that feeling that I want to cum inside of her, although I can always control that urge. Me and her were talking ...

A.   28 May 2012: I was reading something and I found this (I'll post it the bottom), is this of any help? Most women have normal 28- to 32-day cycles, and if someone with this cycle has an average two- to eight-day period, she will not get pregnant during her peri... (read in full...)

Need some info and insight about having sex on a girl's period. Help?

Q.   I'm in a real pickle about this one. My current girlfriend and I trust each other enough to have unprotected sex, and of course I get that feeling that I want to cum inside of her, although I can always control that urge. Me and her were talking ...

A.   28 May 2012: Some of the responses are a little harsh, but they're all definitely helpful answers. I know the pull-out method isn't a secure thing, but I can say I've explored myself enough to know when I have pre-cum, although there's still a possibility that I ... (read in full...)

This has never happened before, not like this.Was this fluid what I think it was? Sperm?

Q.   I met a chick almost 2 months ago, we have been great together, mazingly great. I've fallen for this chick and I'm getting the feeling she's falling for me. We're not going out or anything, but we do make out, a lot. I can tell when she's miss...

A.   20 May 2012: Well there was no pain whatsoever, I just saw it, which was really weird. Well I'm not going to a doctor anytime soon, but maybe I should. But if there's no need to worry since there's no blood or pain, I guess I'll leave it as that, I just hope it ... (read in full...)

Is it bad that my girl orgasms a little too fast?

Q.   Everytime but once if me and my girl have sex, she orgasms before I do. I know this is something to be happy about but her area I'm guessing, gets too sensitive to continue and like a guys does, needs a break. Could take her a few short minutes to ...

A.   9 December 2008: Well thing is, you probably remember this, I'm the same person that has the problem with her pushing me off. And sometimes we don't have alot of time, so I learned to stop every now and then to make her hold it back, not sure if this is good or bad ... (read in full...)

Why does sex with my boyfriend always hurt to begin with?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months now. We have had sex together almost every time we hang out. Which is roughly 4/7 days. I am on the pill. Every time we have sex the beginning part always hurts for like 5 minutes. Then ...

A.   9 December 2008: Have him rub his penis on your clit before penetration, and when he penetrates, do it slow, enjoy the moment. Make love, just always the lube and take your time. I had sex with this one girl before who had alot of experience but we couldn't do ... (read in full...)

I want to meet my online sweetie, but my parents wont let me

Q.   I think I have fallen in love with a guy who lives far away from me! I met him online and we havent actually met in real life (yet). I am 18 years old and he is 19. He really likes me and is so nice and caring and sensitive, and alot like me, we ...

A.   8 December 2008: You should tell him that you have to spend time at home, which is close to a relative. Maybe ask your parents if they can invite him over for the holidays and find out whether it would be okay with them first. They don't want you to go far away, so ... (read in full...)

Is Mountain Dew ACTUALLY killing my sperm count?!?

Q.   Soo.. I've heard from alot of people that Mountain Dew may lower sperm count. I don't even know how the sperm count things works really. I been drinking Moutain Dew ever since it came out in production. I do want to be a father someday and I want to ...

A.   7 December 2008: Umm.. Thanks, but... what? Well at least I'm starting to believe it's a myth but I don't get the yellow #5 situation or the Coitus interruptus O_O So basically there is no scientific proof that MD kills the sperm count? Ok, but what about to make it ... (read in full...)

How do I explain my attraction to him if they are only going to make fun of me?

Q.   I really like this kid he is in seventh grade. I am in 8th. All my friends think he is ugly and way to short for me. I hate it. I met him at are local skating place. He was soo sweet ans i thought he was really cute!!! We couple skated and i t...

A.   7 December 2008: I think you should just tell them straight up that you like the kid. If they make fun of you then they're not your friends. At least they will let you know they're just playing around and mean no harm. If you haven't told the kid himself what you ... (read in full...)

How can I fix this drunken mistake?

Q.   this weekend i was at a friends party and got super drunk... and woke up next to my best friend. we were both naked and not sure how far we have gone we found a condom but it was used but had no cum inside does this mean we havent done it..? shes ...

A.   3 December 2008: I wouldn't exactly know what to tell you here, but if she isn't pregnant, and if none of you remember what happened, then I don't think there's anything you should be worrying about, let her know you feel that way too, just be careful that it ... (read in full...)

She thinks I only want sex, how can I make things up to her?

Q.   My girlfriend use to have a boyfriend who in a way, forced her to do certain sexual activities, I've done those things with her and a lot more and without forcing her into anything. She knows I'm a freak in bed, and as a guy, I'm constantly thinking ...

A.   3 December 2008: Ok, it was my question, I joined since this site is very interesting. emily, thanks alot I'm going to follow your advice, also uncle phil, thank you. I do think alot more about sex since I'm not getting any, and I don't know if telling her that it ... (read in full...)

We had sex for the first time today, is it likely that I would get pregnant?

Q.   Hi people, please help me asap, I'm really worried and don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time today and when we had finished and he pulled back the condom fell off and was left inside of me. This was the third time he ...

A.   3 December 2008: Do as the first people said, but for the next time you have sex with your mate, change condom each time he cums, that's highly recommended. The more semen it has inside the bigger the chance for it to break, or if it breaks while it has semen ... (read in full...)

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