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I discovered the guy I was seeing had a GF all along, now I'm dating "some other guy" to make him jealous, any ideas??

Q.   met this amazing guy thought everything was going really well, we had sex it was pretty good then I started to fall ''in love'' with him even though I dont even believe in love properly then all of a sudden i find out he had a girlfriend all alon...

A.   23 April 2008: I wasnt being unfair by getting with someone else, the guy liked me I liked him and I think Its better to move on than to get caught up obsessing over one person!! He knew i had been seeing someone anyway and he knew it was over. anyway me and the ... (read in full...)

My husband doesn't seem to be interested in sex!! What should I do?

Q.   My husband doesn't seem to be interested in sex. Everyone says I'm attractive and I get a lot of attention from other men. I am totally committed to him but I feel like I've tried everything. I have tried to be "hard to get", understanding, and ...

A.   14 April 2008: I know this sounds bad but that is so lame, i had a similar problem with my ex, I think if its their problem they should get it sorted out! it shouldnt be your responsibility, with me and my ex out lack of intimacy drove a wedge between ... (read in full...)

This crush is messing with my head! How do I deal with it?

Q.   i really dont know what to do about me boyfriend. i love him! i mean i really do love him but i arent in love with him anymore :( i do love him a lot. but i have fallen out of love with him although i still care and think about him 24 7!!!! but ...

A.   14 April 2008: ahh something similar is happening to me at the mo, its like human nature I think, like wanting what you shouldnt, and such I reckon as long as you dont let this turn into an unhealthy obsession it should be okay if youre bored of your boyfri... (read in full...)

What shall I do if it gets to the point where he wants sex??

Q.   Ive been dating this guy for about 5 months now and here it comes.. hes 18.. im 14 . yes i know thats a big age gap but i really love him .. Everything has been great so far but lately we have been talking about sex alot (i have a extremely perverte...

A.   12 February 2008: i agree with what everyone is saying....... just explain nicely to him that you aren't fully ready for sex..... he might ask for a blow job or hand job instead so you might have to ask yourself if youre ready for that either. if he demands or t... (read in full...)

How do I move on from an ex who doesn't want me??

Q.   im currently getting over a hard break up and really want to move on but its so hard!my ex broke up with me about 2 months ago and it broke my heart, we had an amazing relationship but then started arguing about petty things and he could not handle ...

A.   12 February 2008: something similar happened to me last year and I still have feelings for my ex and stuff. break ups are so hard and tough but I'm glad to hear your still keeping on top of your life! well done.... the best thing thats worked for me is dating ne... (read in full...)

Can't find guys that share my sex fetishes

Q.   since I started having sex Ive always been into some wierd fetishes; like facials, anal, smoking fetish, and especially- BDSM. I enjoy pain during sex and many other 'strange' things.... I won't go into details.... but all the guys I end up shagg...

A.   12 February 2008: thats true I never discussed any of these things properly with guys,,,, i suppose i shouldnt just spring up on them when they least expect it!!! these are great answers. thanks alot guys! =) =)... (read in full...)

How to avoid a mess after sex?

Q.   my boyfriend and I have always used a condom for intercourse-but I now fancy feeling the rush of semen into my vagina.My boyfriend's not keen on the possible mess afterwards so is there a way of keeping as much in as possible?...

A.   12 February 2008: mess is fun! it annoys me when guys are all OCD about their own semen lol...... like someone else mentioned you dont want to be catching std's so know you are taking a risk of getting AIDS and careful about pregnancy if you arent on the pill etc... (read in full...)

Pregnant and I think he's cheating on me..what are the signs?

Q.   ok I believe that my boyfriend is cheating on me I jus have a gut feeling but I don't kno what to do cause I'm 5 months pregnant with his son I don't kno what to do what are some signs to look for should I leave or stay some one help me please??? ...

A.   12 February 2008: check his phone. check his trouser pockets, smell his penis to see if it smells like another womans bits.... but whatever you do don't accuse him ..... until you have some semi-concrete evidence,,,,,... (read in full...)

Question about anal sex and cleanliness...any advice?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have anal sex alot. The other day though it went really messy and embarrassing. How do u clean the anal area so that it is clean. He is really good though and washes his penis after but i just want my anal area to be clean. C...

A.   12 February 2008: ahh same thing happened to me once and I was really embarrassed then i thought; that if guys want to go THERE then theyre the ones taking the risk! It is embarrasing though..... The best I can suggest is use a wet wipe and slide your figer... (read in full...)

How do you get rid of stress?

Q.   I'm 18 and I get stressed really easily. Can you please suggest ways to get rid of stress....

A.   12 February 2008: yeah I'm like that, and Ive tried practically everything from self harming to drugs. =O My favourite HEALTHY remedies for stress are **bit of yoga** **exercising** **sauna** **comedy programmes lol** **drawing/art/poetry*... (read in full...)

My nipple is itchy and flaky!

Q.   My left nipple is itchy, dry and flaky. What can I do to make it better? I'm not pregnant, this has never happened before. It's been itchy for about a week now, and only yesterday did I notice when I actually looked that it looks a bit flaky. I...

A.   9 February 2008: right lets please relax a minute hun! It depends how bad it is, if its only a bit itchy witha bit of dry skin then I wouldnt worry much but if they are cracked or scaly you could have eczema. it could just be a rash though. I had itchy nipples ... (read in full...)

I prefer natural pubic areas to the fashionable smooth, hairless styles. Why do women think I'm a freak when I explain my preferance?...

Q.   I discovered long ago that I'm only attracted to women who keep themselves "all-natural" or at least remain very hairy below the belt. In the past I dated women like this and I never had a problem meeting women who cherished their natural hair ...

A.   9 February 2008: I see where youre coming from, its just that sometimes shaved feels cleaner and neater. right now I'm sort of in between with a small square of trimmed hair. I'm shocked that all the women you're coming across are completely hairless! they must be ... (read in full...)

I'm very mature for my age and I'm in love with my teacher!

Q.   I am so depressed, please nobody try and tell me this is a stupid crush! I know exactly what a stupid crush is! And this is not a stupid crush. As a child I suffered quite alot of personal family trauma, I had to take care of my whole family, ...

A.   9 February 2008: ahh I sorta know how you feel coz I had a massive crush on one of my teachers from year 7 til year 9 and I thought i really liked him and wanted to make a move and stuff but the best thing is to just leave it for now, after all my experiences in ... (read in full...)

Does he fancy me, or is this just my imagination?

Q.   I've known this guy since year 8 through one of the other guys in my class. As I'm now in year 10 I'm in loads of new class' and met loads of new people; and have ended up in this guys class for Performing Arts BETC. We keep annoying eachother; ...

A.   9 February 2008: sounds like it but its hard to make a proper move when its school coz if youget rejected then everyone till talk etc, a good idea would be to invite him on a social outting outside school like a meal out or just to hang around town or a party etc ... (read in full...)

He can't seem to make me orgasm... Is there something wrong with me?

Q.   Hiya, me and my guy have been together for a while, and the problem is when ever we trying to please each other i never have any problems pleasing him and making him cum, but when it comes down to me i always struggle, he seems to hit all the righ...

A.   7 February 2008: This is really terrible advice, in fact, its not even advice. but I had the exact same problem as you once, until one day I took half a pill of viagra and I had the best sex of my life and I came 3 times. If i was you I'd research on medicine or ... (read in full...)

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