I feel like I'm completely useless and have nothing good in my life
Q. so depressed so given up like a hopeless case i could barely write all of this even though i realize that asking this question online to bunch of people who know me at all is all in all one another dumb thing to do but frankly speaking guys lol i ...
A. 26 August 2009: Well I'll tell you one thing you sound clever. You're questioning society and that's impressive. So what if people form their stupid cliquey groups - they amount to nothing anyway, all the popular people are just shallow inside and hollow between ... (read in full...)
I don't want a relationship with him, but I don't wanna be a one night stand either! What do I do?
Q. I've been single for a year now, and enjoy clubbing regularly, At the spot theres a DJ who really has made an impression on me. Hes not even mega anything, Not too cute just handsome enough - Dresses rather nicely though. We'd been making eyes, he'...
A. 26 August 2009: I just cant share him with all those horny girls lol ... (read in full...)
I don't want a relationship with him, but I don't wanna be a one night stand either! What do I do?
Q. I've been single for a year now, and enjoy clubbing regularly, At the spot theres a DJ who really has made an impression on me. Hes not even mega anything, Not too cute just handsome enough - Dresses rather nicely though. We'd been making eyes, he'...
A. 26 August 2009: Baby duck thanks so much your advice has really meant alot, You're so clever. And you are right he does seem to think of himself as some modern day smooth 'babe magnet' I refuse to be one of his conquests, hopefully I can keep my head on straight... (read in full...)
I couldn't feel anything during sex, did he have that feeling too so he hasn't contacted me?
Q. Thank you and hello Andrew.I justwanted to ask a personal question that's quite embarrassing but has been weighing on my mind.On Thursday night my friend and i had sex for the first time before he left for his hometown.We've discussed having sex ...
A. 24 August 2009: Its terrible that you should feel like this, I find taking a few breaks to dry down there helps immensely. the guy probably wasnt very big anyway. No worries sex is about fun and relaxing not a competition and sounds like he was pleased with the ... (read in full...)
I don't want a relationship with him, but I don't wanna be a one night stand either! What do I do?
Q. I've been single for a year now, and enjoy clubbing regularly, At the spot theres a DJ who really has made an impression on me. Hes not even mega anything, Not too cute just handsome enough - Dresses rather nicely though. We'd been making eyes, he'...
A. 24 August 2009: Thanks Immensely for the advice :) I'm slowly getting over this incredible attraction. I know, youre right, It might not be worth all those risks. He sleeps around even if he claims not to.
I don't think I can put myself on the line for this guy ... (read in full...)
My best friend is dating a loser, I've got to the point where I'm sick of hearing about it
Q. My best freind has been dating a loser for 4 years. He's addicted to cocaine, is violent towards her and her 5 year old child (both physically and emotionally abusive), walks in and out of her life when he wants and basically treats her like dirt. ...
A. 23 August 2009: Oh my gosh the exact same thing happened to me with my sister. Its a common situation. To be honest i tried everything too - I threatened, Argued, Took her out. We even had physical fights over it. she used to run back to the idiot every time even ... (read in full...)
Husband stuck on porn!
Q. I don't show it to my husband how much he hurts me, but it really bears down heavily Before our wedding my husband was really a great prince to me. Too late. We're married...and I depend on him financially now, although this could change if I move...
A. 16 August 2009: Uhhh the whole PORN thing is so insensetive! My ex was a bit of a porn addict. It's horrible... They make you feel like you'll never be as sexual or satisfying as the girls on their screens GOSH. And they can make you do some pretty strange things ... (read in full...)
One night stand eaves me filled guilty and shamed
Q. To begin with It was my birthday and I got totally drunk and me and my friend decided to hook up with these 2 guys we know and they were being really friendly and sweet, they took us to some random house where we waited for ages for his bro who ...
A. 16 August 2009: That's so sweet. Thankyou so much. I definitely needed to hear that. :)
Too many women ARE selling themself short and after many years they realise it was all FRUITLESS.
I feel like I will just let the whole thing go untill I meet someone who spar... (read in full...)
I don't think I'll trust someone again
Q. I am 20 going to be 21 this year and have never had a boyfriend before. Actually, there were several guys who pursue me last time and I almost got into a relationship with a guy (J) this year april after dating for around 3 months. We agreed to keep ...
A. 16 August 2009: Forget that guy,... He was never good enough to bother with in the beginning. After years of dating you learn that trust is somewhat overrated - don't be afraid to just have fun new experiences. Often we regret more what we do NOT do more than what ... (read in full...)
My husband keeps taking money from our bank account and we're financially struggling!
Q. My husband seems to be doing better as of this week. But as a general rule he is constantly getting into the bank account and taking money. He doesn't tell me this or include it on the ledger so we have bounced numerous checks and have had repeated ...
A. 16 August 2009: Ahh It's a horrible feeling that, to know someone is acting so irresponsibly and inconsiderate. My father is exactly the same
taking money and even giving/loaning it to people when theres not even enough to pay the bills.
I realise here it is a ver... (read in full...)
One night stand eaves me filled guilty and shamed
Q. To begin with It was my birthday and I got totally drunk and me and my friend decided to hook up with these 2 guys we know and they were being really friendly and sweet, they took us to some random house where we waited for ages for his bro who ...
A. 16 August 2009: I know I do drink way too much
I feel like I associate fun with alc. and need to change this viewpoint. Yes I may have acted like a slut for one night,
I don't usually even do casual sex & this was my first sex experience all year.
I feel used bu... (read in full...)
She's been with some "big" guys. What if I'm too small for her?
Q. My girlfreind and i have been dating for almost 3 weeks but about 5 months ago we dated for about 3 weeks.(because she broke up with me) and weve gotten a lot closer since then. She thinks that sex is very important in a relationship. I love her ...
A. 16 May 2009: Thats untrue the whole vagina is an erogenous zone!
If you really want to feel the burn I know from personal experience life isnt always a sex friendly zone, try supplements of horny goats weed which is healthy and boosts your sexual health, this... (read in full...)
Colour, hair and personality...
Q. Do guys prefer blonde girls to black haired girls? Do they prefer them tall or short, tomboy or girly girly type? Do they prefer a heavy girl with blond hair who is short and heavy or black haired who is short and heavy?? ...
A. 16 May 2009: Guys like girls with jut confidence in who you are,
Dress well in a style that you like and be fresh and clean,
Be approachable and friendly !:)
I suppose it also helps to keep fit and have friends also If you're independant thats very attract... (read in full...)
My period cycle just ended, I'm worried my b/f could be bothered by the smell!
Q. So ive had sex once with my bf last week, and im pretty sure we will do again today for the second time. I want to, but the thing is i just had my period, like it literally finished in the night, and im wondering cos it might smell a bit, would my ...
A. 16 May 2009: Have a good wash down there should be fine !... (read in full...)
Best way to achieve Big "O" and what to use?
Q. Ok. What is the best thing to use to achieve orgasm. Is there any thing that might be liying around my house I could use? Also, I am wondering what the best sex positions are....
A. 11 February 2009: you could do with hooking up with a dildo but then again my first orgasm was with some small hand massager thing lol.
Ive known people to use the ends of brushes lol. maybe just something safe that looks like a penis wash it before and after with... (read in full...)
First time sex leads to a hurt ego and erection problem.
Q. Ok so I tried to have sex with a girl. We were in the club and making out and I was hard like rock hard. We decided to go to the beach (it was winter but Cyprus is not that cold in winter.. but still) and started making out there, I was still ...
A. 11 February 2009: ---theres a lot of HYPE over how mind blowing sex is, and even I was a little bit not dissapointed but even I thought
''is this sex? this is sex? is this it? hmm!'
Its really confusing. But trust me I've done 2 virgins and they were both nervous ... (read in full...)
Female vs. male masturbation - what is your opinion on this?
Q. I have always wondered why female masturbation is such a taboo subject. It is almost accepted that men will masterbate, so why isn't this level of acceptance given to women making themselves aware of their bodies in a completely natural way. Just ...
A. 11 February 2009: It's coz in my opinion, men run alot of these things that radiate this idea, Its blatantly a double standard, the same with 'giving head' (m/f)(f/m) and the concept of too many partners. Men tip the scales in their advantage whenever they can.
I... (read in full...)
Why does he get soft as soon as we start?
Q. why does my bf willy go hard when we mess about but as soon as he puts it in it goes soft?...
A. 11 February 2009: Honestly Ive been with a few men like this, Theyre so hard when youre playing and sucking them and whatever then as soon as it comes to sex they become a total let down! Its so frustrating its like building up to nothing. And then you try and try ... (read in full...)
Do other women ever feel a little aroused during their period?
Q. do anyother women experience feeling a little horny during your period? i don't think i could ever have sex during a period, but sometimes i feel a little up for it. must be to do with hormones of something? i guess i'm lucky, as i never have hea...
A. 11 February 2009: Omg me too. I always feel really haurny even with all the daft big pads and that, I never know what to do about it,
I have had period sex once though and it was really good, my whole vagina felt engorged and really sensetive, I would probs do it a... (read in full...)
Tips about using dildos?
Q. when i mastuabate I play with my clit. Ive tried a dildo like 5 times, though it never works. How do i make it feel nice? It does fit down there, and it doesnt hurt, i just get nothin sexual out of it. How do I make it more sexual? Thankyoux...
A. 11 February 2009: Where did she^ hear that 90% of the woman's sexual pleasure comes from the clit? Thats BULL! every woman is different.!
Get a vibe with strong vibrations, some are less powerful, I was abit like you at first i never even used to use mine, then I go... (read in full...)
Best way to achieve Big "O" and what to use?
Q. Ok. What is the best thing to use to achieve orgasm. Is there any thing that might be liying around my house I could use? Also, I am wondering what the best sex positions are....
A. 11 February 2009: i find different things every time, Vibrators are obviously great and doing it in wierd places Also dual vagina-anus stimulation, I have the best orgasms when I build up for an hour or two, have a nice long bath, completely relax and then go wild.... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and I do not want to have this baby!!!
Q. I went to the doctor to get birth control and found out that I was pregnant. I already have 3 beautiful kids and I don't want anymore. Hubby has mixed feelings - guilt being the biggest. I know that I cannot handle another child and I am freaking ...
A. 11 February 2009: As hard as it may be I would suggest you don't keep it, It will be a very hard time but get lots of support from your husband and friends and in the future be very careful, don't forget to remind the children you already have how much you love them ... (read in full...)
I want to try cunnilingus one day but I feel it's disgusting... how to get over this feeling? How to start?...
Q. i want to try cunilingus one day because the i hear it's satisfying to ladies. but i feel it's disgusting. can anyone tell me how it feels like in your mouth and how it smells? i have this feeling there's a bad oduor in there. how do i start?...
A. 11 February 2009: Men are quick to ask you to suck their dick but when it comes to going down on a woman they ain't so fast.
To Be Honest i've had men who'se penis weren't so fresh and it is annoying, It is all a matter of personal hygeine.
I keep down there ve... (read in full...)
I discovered the guy I was seeing had a GF all along, now I'm dating "some other guy" to make him jealous, any ideas??
Q. met this amazing guy thought everything was going really well, we had sex it was pretty good then I started to fall ''in love'' with him even though I dont even believe in love properly then all of a sudden i find out he had a girlfriend all alon...
A. 23 April 2008: I wasnt being unfair by getting with someone else, the guy liked me I liked him and I think Its better to move on than to get caught up obsessing over one person!!
He knew i had been seeing someone anyway and he knew it was over.
anyway me and the ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't seem to be interested in sex!! What should I do?
Q. My husband doesn't seem to be interested in sex. Everyone says I'm attractive and I get a lot of attention from other men. I am totally committed to him but I feel like I've tried everything. I have tried to be "hard to get", understanding, and ...
A. 14 April 2008: I know this sounds bad but that is so lame, i had a similar problem with my ex,
I think if its their problem they should get it sorted out! it shouldnt be your responsibility,
with me and my ex out lack of intimacy drove a wedge between ... (read in full...)
This crush is messing with my head! How do I deal with it?
Q. i really dont know what to do about me boyfriend. i love him! i mean i really do love him but i arent in love with him anymore :( i do love him a lot. but i have fallen out of love with him although i still care and think about him 24 7!!!! but ...
A. 14 April 2008: ahh something similar is happening to me at the mo, its like human nature I think,
like wanting what you shouldnt, and such
I reckon as long as you dont let this turn into an unhealthy obsession it should be okay
if youre bored of your boyfri... (read in full...)
What shall I do if it gets to the point where he wants sex??
Q. Ive been dating this guy for about 5 months now and here it comes.. hes 18.. im 14 . yes i know thats a big age gap but i really love him .. Everything has been great so far but lately we have been talking about sex alot (i have a extremely perverte...
A. 12 February 2008: i agree with what everyone is saying....... just explain nicely to him that you aren't fully ready for sex.....
he might ask for a blow job or hand job instead so you might have to ask yourself if youre ready for that either.
if he demands or t... (read in full...)
How do I move on from an ex who doesn't want me??
Q. im currently getting over a hard break up and really want to move on but its so hard!my ex broke up with me about 2 months ago and it broke my heart, we had an amazing relationship but then started arguing about petty things and he could not handle ...
A. 12 February 2008: something similar happened to me last year and I still have feelings for my ex and stuff. break ups are so hard and tough but I'm glad to hear your still keeping on top of your life! well done....
the best thing thats worked for me is dating ne... (read in full...)
Can't find guys that share my sex fetishes
Q. since I started having sex Ive always been into some wierd fetishes; like facials, anal, smoking fetish, and especially- BDSM. I enjoy pain during sex and many other 'strange' things.... I won't go into details.... but all the guys I end up shagg...
A. 12 February 2008: thats true I never discussed any of these things properly with guys,,,, i suppose i shouldnt just spring up on them when they least expect it!!!
these are great answers. thanks alot guys! =)
=)... (read in full...)
How to avoid a mess after sex?
Q. my boyfriend and I have always used a condom for intercourse-but I now fancy feeling the rush of semen into my vagina.My boyfriend's not keen on the possible mess afterwards so is there a way of keeping as much in as possible?...
A. 12 February 2008: mess is fun! it annoys me when guys are all OCD about their own semen lol......
like someone else mentioned you dont want to be catching std's so know you are taking a risk of getting AIDS and careful about pregnancy if you arent on the pill etc... (read in full...)
Pregnant and I think he's cheating on me..what are the signs?
Q. ok I believe that my boyfriend is cheating on me I jus have a gut feeling but I don't kno what to do cause I'm 5 months pregnant with his son I don't kno what to do what are some signs to look for should I leave or stay some one help me please??? ...
A. 12 February 2008: check his phone. check his trouser pockets, smell his penis to see if it smells like another womans bits....
but whatever you do don't accuse him ..... until you have some semi-concrete evidence,,,,,... (read in full...)
Question about anal sex and cleanliness...any advice?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have anal sex alot. The other day though it went really messy and embarrassing. How do u clean the anal area so that it is clean. He is really good though and washes his penis after but i just want my anal area to be clean. C...
A. 12 February 2008: ahh same thing happened to me once and I was really embarrassed then i thought;
that if guys want to go THERE then theyre the ones taking the risk!
It is embarrasing though.....
The best I can suggest is use a wet wipe and slide your figer... (read in full...)
How do you get rid of stress?
Q. I'm 18 and I get stressed really easily. Can you please suggest ways to get rid of stress....
A. 12 February 2008: yeah I'm like that, and Ive tried practically everything from self harming to drugs. =O
My favourite HEALTHY remedies for stress are
**bit of yoga**
**exercising**
**sauna**
**comedy programmes lol**
**drawing/art/poetry*... (read in full...)
My nipple is itchy and flaky!
Q. My left nipple is itchy, dry and flaky. What can I do to make it better? I'm not pregnant, this has never happened before. It's been itchy for about a week now, and only yesterday did I notice when I actually looked that it looks a bit flaky. I...
A. 9 February 2008: right lets please relax a minute hun! It depends how bad it is, if its only a bit itchy witha bit of dry skin then I wouldnt worry much but if they are cracked or scaly you could have eczema.
it could just be a rash though.
I had itchy nipples ... (read in full...)
I prefer natural pubic areas to the fashionable smooth, hairless styles. Why do women think I'm a freak when I explain my preferance?...
Q. I discovered long ago that I'm only attracted to women who keep themselves "all-natural" or at least remain very hairy below the belt. In the past I dated women like this and I never had a problem meeting women who cherished their natural hair ...
A. 9 February 2008: I see where youre coming from, its just that sometimes shaved feels cleaner and neater. right now I'm sort of in between with a small square of trimmed hair. I'm shocked that all the women you're coming across are completely hairless! they must be ... (read in full...)
Does he fancy me, or is this just my imagination?
Q. I've known this guy since year 8 through one of the other guys in my class. As I'm now in year 10 I'm in loads of new class' and met loads of new people; and have ended up in this guys class for Performing Arts BETC. We keep annoying eachother; ...
A. 9 February 2008: sounds like it but its hard to make a proper move when its school coz if youget rejected then everyone till talk etc,
a good idea would be to invite him on a social outting outside school like a meal out or just to hang around town or a party etc ... (read in full...)
He can't seem to make me orgasm... Is there something wrong with me?
Q. Hiya, me and my guy have been together for a while, and the problem is when ever we trying to please each other i never have any problems pleasing him and making him cum, but when it comes down to me i always struggle, he seems to hit all the righ...
A. 7 February 2008: This is really terrible advice, in fact, its not even advice. but I had the exact same problem as you once, until one day I took half a pill of viagra and I had the best sex of my life and I came 3 times. If i was you I'd research on medicine or ... (read in full...)
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