Why is it that I feel like I should be with my ex even though I know it would be a bad thing to do?
Q. Ok, so i have an ex boyfriend. We have been together for almost 3 years. we have been talking since March 20,2008. In the beginning things were so good, which is what made me fall in love with him..but sooner than later things slowly starting ...
A. 9 January 2011: there is an old song breakin up is hard to do but to everything there is a reason don't let yourself get stuck in the pattern of bad relationships i have been in one bad relationship after another and don't wish that for you it's dangerous and will ... (read in full...)
Still in love with my ex but in a 2 year relationship.
Q. I recently saw my ex boyfriend and we both have feelings for each other for 4 years now. Plus he is in the Army. I am in a 2 year relationship with my current boyfriend and he been there for me when I had nothing. What should I do?...
A. 9 January 2011: honey there was a reason he is your ex just remember what that reason was and keep moving forward with your life never back always forward sometimes there will be temptations in life that will tear your world apart be very careful you don't ruin ... (read in full...)
It hurts when he looks at other women
Q. Hi, I need some insights... My bf and I are in a great relationship for over a year and half, we love each other so much and we plan on getting married. But he's a MAN and he can't help looking at other women. I know, they say it's normal, "m...
A. 6 January 2011: guys are inconsiderate if you let them do it they will snap the whip if he loves you enough to give you his last name then his looking should be over he's already found you right? Just sit down and talk to him about it tell him what you've told us ... (read in full...)
When guys ask women about their sexual pasts, do they really want an honest answer?
Q. This question seems like a no-brainer at first... who's going to say they DON'T want honesty? But then I read all the posts on here from people (mainly guys, it seems) who are insecure about what their partners have done before them, and with whom, ...
A. 5 January 2011: always give the thats the past answer because guys are jealous exspecially if they love you and will most of the time use it against you in anger just think of it this way when you fall in love its hard on both sides to think the one you love has ... (read in full...)
How can I find the willpower to fight my addictions?
Q. How can someone find more willpower? I have a couple of addictions that are killing me and I can't stop on my own. Where I live is rural, theres no AA or anything like that and I cant afford going to rehab. The only thing I can think of is getting ...
A. 3 January 2011: jesus christ is your answer young lady he helped me kick a drug addiction and sex addiction he is a friend that sticks closer than a brother and will give you the willpower you need i promise if you ask in his name you will recieve... (read in full...)
What are the after effects of cheating ?
Q. I want to know what are the after effects of cheating on someone? is it make 'permanent' damages for your current relationships? can people have the same desires for each other again after cheating? or is there any kind of despises,anger or lack o...
A. 3 January 2011: i agree to the above and will also add if your current partner does love you they will try to move past it but will think about it often and will eat away at them every day you will steal away a piece of their heart and scar them for life it will ... (read in full...)
What does it mean if a man says a woman is a bit ripe?
Q. What does it mean if a man says you are a bit ripe?I overheard this man I just met, on the phone talking about me and he told the person my age and then said "she a bit ripe,still"I think he mustve meant shes a bit old,but I only just turned 23!and ...
A. 1 January 2011: if someone is saying your a bit ripe they mean that you stink my dad uses the phrase tell him his breath is a bit ripe and watch him go brush his teeth that is a tester for my reply... (read in full...)
I'm a big strong guy but have overwhelming urges to cuddle. What's wrong with me?
Q. How do I start this? Let's see, I'm a masculine guy I guess you could say. I think people interpret me as being that way. I'm 6 foot 1, 250, broad shoulders drive a truck, play rugby, have tatoos, and own more than a few firearms. I wear overalls to ...
A. 1 January 2011: keeping yourself locked away will not help you i understand completely how you feel inside please hang in there and save the last dance for me... (read in full...)
I want a baby so bad, but we can't have one.
Q. It breaks my heart to see all these young women on here pregnant and scared when there are people out there that want babies so bad and can't have them. I've been married for 5 years and we can't have kids. The adoption agency we spoke to said th...
A. 27 December 2010: have you tried your local children available that have been pulled from bad situations lots of babies and toddlers who got a bad start with abusive or drug addict parents who lost them and never wanted to go through what it took to get them back ... (read in full...)
How should I prepare for being a teenage parent?
Q. okay thnx for the previous advice guys and yea everything is fine now, my parents were pretty stricken at first but after their shock they were very suppportive! our friends were all shocked but their great... just another question...what ...
A. 27 December 2010: as far as i know the school can do nothing only parents as for your gf just be there for her listen back and foot rubs when needed MAKE SURE she takes her prenatal get lots of ultrasound pics for scrapbook and start hitting flea markets and used ... (read in full...)
Heartbroken and confused about my future love life.
Q. I dated someone for 8-9 months and it has been fully 5 months since the breakup and i'm still not over him. it was my first relationship. the break was really hard. I am worried that maybe he is the one, why else am i having such a hard time moving ...
A. 27 December 2010: you just described me to a tee lol i am going through the same thing the only thing we can do is pray i live in the country and my town is population 2.000 ugh but i know in the bible god has sent wives to the water trough for believers and will do ... (read in full...)
I'm a big strong guy but have overwhelming urges to cuddle. What's wrong with me?
Q. How do I start this? Let's see, I'm a masculine guy I guess you could say. I think people interpret me as being that way. I'm 6 foot 1, 250, broad shoulders drive a truck, play rugby, have tatoos, and own more than a few firearms. I wear overalls to ...
A. 27 December 2010: you sound like a good guy that has been hurt really bad first i'll say there isn't anything wrong with hunting it is a good sport requires skill anyway i was just in a relationship with a jobless loser who ripped my heart out over and over but my ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mom I'm pregnant?
Q. i am 14 years old and 4 weeks pregnant. the father is 19. no one knows should i tell my mom since it was consensual? what about the dad? i have only seen him once that night. should i tell him? would he care?...
A. 23 December 2010: they both need to know although if your mom freaks she could get him with stat rape whether you like it or not but yes tell them they deserve to know... (read in full...)
Can a trust lost be found again.
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for ten years. I have been totaly 100 percent commited to her and our relationship. I have just recently found out that she had cheated on me at the start of our relationship and got caught by the guys wife. It ...
A. 23 December 2010: i am so so sorry if you find the right answer post it on my page too... (read in full...)
Coping with girlfriend going away for 8 days?
Q. Hey everyone, My girlfriend will be going away on a holiday tomorrow with her family for 8 days. And I am going to miss her so much! I don't know if 8 days is actually a lot but what I know is, its hard for me. Making things worse, I will no...
A. 23 December 2010: i don't have an answer for you on this but just wanted to say wow wish we all could be loved this much... (read in full...)
How can I make it in life?
Q. i have lost all hope, joy , happiness...what can i do? i have failed to get a job, or get into another relationship..more so i have no one i can tell about my challenges...so am all alone, scared..infact terrified...so what can a simple gal like...
A. 21 December 2010: you say that you are a simple gal so i will make this simple jesus christ he is the friend that sticks closer than a brother and can heal your heart send the right man job and friends and he is the greatest listener he will even plead your case to ... (read in full...)
My first, but he does not want the blood when its expected.
Q. Hi agony aunts! Im 15 and in a serious LDR. We spoke about what if we had sex. It would be my first, not his. But OUR first together. Obviously not soon, but what really bugged me was that I was asked if I had popped my cherry, I said no. I don't...
A. 18 December 2010: your making a mistake your fifteen but you aren't stupid why would you want to lose your virginity to someone like that it is so special don't you want it to be treated as such... (read in full...)
Girls can you understand why she dumped me? I loved her
Q. We met... there was an interest, we hooked up an became the best of friends that slepted together after a year of this we eventually wised up and officially became a couple, i have had alot of girls and im no amateur but we were so happy together, ...
A. 17 December 2010: there is nothing wrong with you she isn't the one god made for you plain and simple don't dwell on what you needed to do differently you sound perfect to me she is not your rib as eve was to adam don't let this change you because your rib is out ... (read in full...)
I'm a big strong guy but have overwhelming urges to cuddle. What's wrong with me?
Q. How do I start this? Let's see, I'm a masculine guy I guess you could say. I think people interpret me as being that way. I'm 6 foot 1, 250, broad shoulders drive a truck, play rugby, have tatoos, and own more than a few firearms. I wear overalls to ...
A. 17 December 2010: my dream guy and he's stuck on a website you've just described everything i've ever wanted and could never find please don't change this about yourself women love to be held and kissed passionately i would love to lay my head on a mans belly in my ... (read in full...)
My partner and I had a really nasty violent argument... I don't know what to do?
Q. I really done know where to start... my partner and I had a really nasty argument,to the extent he physically hurt me. He is being very secretive with his phone and says its about his divorce, but normally he would show me. I did discovered a few ...
A. 17 December 2010: get him out get him out get him out this is serious he could kill you get him out now your life is precious there is a reason he's getting a divorce and he's now showing them to you furthermore why would you want someone who's not satisfied with one ... (read in full...)
Heartbroken and confused about my future love life.
Q. I dated someone for 8-9 months and it has been fully 5 months since the breakup and i'm still not over him. it was my first relationship. the break was really hard. I am worried that maybe he is the one, why else am i having such a hard time moving ...
A. 17 December 2010: i will agree that he isn't the one i can identify with you i am 28 years old and have thought four were the one but let me tell you sweetheart if they were they'd still be here so would yours when god sends him your way you'll never be able to get ... (read in full...)
I've lost the spark with my b/f, but it's there with his friend
Q. Hi everyone. I have a relationship problem. I've had a boyfriend for almost 2years (I am 19 now) I love him dearly and he loves me. He is sweet, kind and I'm his everything. His dad also treats me like family. However there is something missin...
A. 17 December 2010: you already know what's right you are only asking because of guilt because maybe just maybe one person in this crazy world would say go ahead ruin 3 relationships gosh girl what are you thinkin ... (read in full...)
How can I change my taste in men so I stop getting hurt?
Q. i have been in one bad relationship after another, i can't seem to break the cycle! i don't know if there is something wrong with me that i'm attracted to these same type of men but they are all alike. how can i turn my tastes to a different sort so ...
A. 17 December 2010: thank you all very much i keep falling for the wrong ones live in a small town mostly drug addicts and i have to watch them fall over and over because i wear my heart on my sleeve so i try to pick them up over and over and yes i thought about church ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be with him but he wont accept the breakup! Help!
Q. i want to break up with my boyfriend. I told him on phone because he is too much agreessive. After hearing on phone first he shown his agression till 40 mins after that i disconnected the call. Then after some time he started begging to give him one ...
A. 14 December 2010: his heart is broken so be careful people will do anything to avoid losing the one they love from begging to crimes of passion (meaning murder ) if you truely do not want this man change your number but first let him know that your both still young ... (read in full...)
She is not over her ex but I have fallen for her, should I tell her how I feel?
Q. I am love with my friend whom I know like from a year. She recently broke up recently with her boyfriend and it was difficult for her to get over it coz she never wanted to break up. But this guy just told her that he doesn't have feelings for her ...
A. 14 December 2010: avoid being the rebound guy it will only hurt you... (read in full...)
Friends or not? That's the question.
Q. I think she doesn't know what she wants. She admits we didn't have a bad relationship, but I smothered her, and didn't give her her space to breathe she needed. She also admits I'm a great person and was amazing. I've since met her and she says ...
A. 14 December 2010: i have been a girl in love and i always wanted to be with him she doesn't love you just wants to led you on the shelf till she finds someone else sorry hun take it from a girl... (read in full...)
His love for me went from 100% to 65%!
Q. Why is my boyfriend doing this?? doesn't he want to be with me anymore? my boyfriend and i broke up last night we we kept arguing..he takes me for granted and he doesn't appreciate me yet he says he loves me very much and he says hes really t...
A. 14 December 2010: guys don't want serious at 21 it's a fact i know it's hard but walk away when he faces the chance of really losing you he'll have no choice but to give you your answer either he'll realize that it doesn't bother him to loose you or realize that he ... (read in full...)
Is he a womanizer or just polite?
Q. Can anyone please help me decide if this man I am quite friendly with at the moment is a womaniser and not just being friendly. I look after this man's son at the nursery I work at. He started offering to give me a lift home a few months ago (he p...
A. 14 December 2010: if he were your husband would you want him doing this for another woman ... (read in full...)
Are we just lovers?
Q. Hey guys, So I've been in a 'relationship' with my man for almost 7 months now and it's kind of an odd relationship. We live apart and I work from 2pm until 9pm and he works from 3am until 2pm so we don't see each other in the week as by the t...
A. 14 December 2010: it's simple if you want change make change new shift new job whatever it takes i'm sure one of you have pull where you work so get together and talk about it ... (read in full...)
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