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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why is my boyfriend doing this?? doesn't he want to be with me anymore?my boyfriend and i broke up last night we we kept arguing..he takes me for granted and he doesn't appreciate me yet he says he loves me very much and he says hes really tried but he doesn't like hurting me and making me cry so we should go separate ways.he says he needs to sort himself out..find out whats wrong with and why he cant keep a relationship...then we can get back together.we made up.. and i suggested we get help with our relationship.hes meant to be taking me away next week for my birthday and now hes telling me..he needs to sort himself out first.is that his way of telling me he doesn't want to be with me anymore??please help...we're both 21.,,he says his love for me is not 100% but 65% now:(thanks xx
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reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch  +, writes (14 December 2010):
 guys don't want serious at 21 it's a fact i know it's hard but walk away when he faces the chance of really losing you he'll have no choice but to give you your answer either he'll realize that it doesn't bother him to loose you or realize that he can't live without you
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): Hm. Love is 100% or it is nothing.
Perhaps what is at 65 right now is his faith in the chances of things working out soon or his comfort with the idea of staying in this relationship.
I wonder if he made any effort towards helping the situation at all when you brought up how you feel he takes you for granted. I wonder if you made any changes when he brought up any grievances of his own.
I wonder if you can supply more details of your situation... what led up to this point?
-Tante V
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