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writes:Ive been faking with my current bf. i feel i am close to orgasms but i never quite reach it. when i feel close i get a kind of scared feeling and stop him. i dont always get this feeling. what can i do to keep myself going and to make sure he always gives me an orgasm. we do alot of foreplay before hand but im not sure how to reach a proper orgasm without stopping myself. help please xxx
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (23 February 2007):
katzkitten is verified as being by the original poster of the question ive only slept with 2 guys. the 1st cuoldnt even last long enuf. so i can answer that one. we've been together mearly 2 months (dnt say am rushing into things, i know what im doing lol) he is so lovely and sweet and i feel totaly confortable wit him. te scared feeling is more of a dont think i can handle this kind of feeling. Hope that helped xxx
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reader, NowWhat?  +, writes (23 February 2007):
Hey Katzkitten; I feel for you girl. But I need to know, is it just this guy you've been facing the problem with? How long have you been together? Is he considerate and loving during sex and other areas of your relationship too? You can't achieve orgasm unless you're comfortable with your partner. Maybe he puts too much emphasis on making you cum as guys consider this some sort of minor victory. More details would certainly shed a light
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reader, cherri sparkle +, writes (23 February 2007):
seems there is something in your mind stopping you hun, the scared feeling probably comes from another area in your relationship that youre not entirely comfortable with. something is stopping you from relaxing and enjoying the sensation or maybe you are just concentrating on the emphasis of an orgasm too much. just enjoy it
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