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Heyyy my names Michelle. Im 17 and ive had to grow up quickly.

Im not going to say ive had the worst life but growing up wasen't easy. Ive been through so much since the age of 8. I can't say I know how to help people with everything but I like to think that I could help a few people with things that ive been through or something simular.

Hope to hear from people.

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I love him and he doesn't know!

Q.   So, I have a friend who I've recently started to have feelings for. I actually think that I love him because every time I think about him, I get all emotional....The only problem is, is that he has a girlfriend. He used to like me, but I didn't know ...

A.   16 June 2010: Definatly tell him babe. If he's a good friend then he will understand. Tell him you made a mistake before by not getting with him and that you still have feelings for him? x... (read in full...)

I love him and he doesn't know!

Q.   So, I have a friend who I've recently started to have feelings for. I actually think that I love him because every time I think about him, I get all emotional....The only problem is, is that he has a girlfriend. He used to like me, but I didn't know ...

A.   16 June 2010: Definately tell him! Yeah it's complicated because he's got a girlfriend but think about if you don't tell him and you regret it? I would deffo tell him. If your friends then telling him shouldn't affect your friendship. You never know he could feel ... (read in full...)

I need some advice on how to get to know her!

Q.   well to start off..i know this girl that i really like before..she was my batchmate from highschool and at the same level until graduating to 2007 but we never really had any communication i mean were not even classmates due to the fact that our ...

A.   7 October 2009: Yeah jus say "ohh I used to go there too, I thought I saw you a couple times. Hope you dont mind me adding you ?"... (read in full...)

I need some advice on how to get to know her!

Q.   well to start off..i know this girl that i really like before..she was my batchmate from highschool and at the same level until graduating to 2007 but we never really had any communication i mean were not even classmates due to the fact that our ...

A.   18 September 2009: Yeahh thats a good start up. Jus sayy "hey hope you dont mind me adding you, you used to go to (name of school) didn't you ? .. Then see what she says back. (:... (read in full...)

Was he ok with me? Or just being funny?

Q.   Hi i posted something on here a while ago with regards to a guy i've known since primary school all through high school, and now i still hang out with him and the random moments we have flirting and always having heart to hearts and at a BBQ we ...

A.   18 September 2009: Ohh goood. Im glad it all worked out for you ! (: x... (read in full...)

I like him and want to ask him out but I'm afraid he'll say no!

Q.   Hi, I need help... There is this boy at school that I really like, but I don't want to ask him out for the fear that he will say no. I have known him for some time now, but he was frequently off school; so we didn't speak that often. Now we are in ...

A.   10 September 2009: Talk to him about it. Ask him how he would feel about having a girlfriend and ask him if he would consider going to the cinema with you or out somewhere (: Let me know how it goes. Good luck !... (read in full...)

I feel I'm ready to lose my virginity but I'm self conscious about my body!

Q.   My bf wants to hav sex with me but im nervous, i am prepared to loose my virginity to him but i feel as if im ready but in the same way i dont. im quite self conscious about my body im just confused about what to do x...

A.   21 July 2009: Dont be silly babes. Of course he won't think that, if he did they why is he with you ? Jus remember what I said, if your not ready then dont do it. Only do it if its something your comfortable with ! x... (read in full...)

Was he ok with me? Or just being funny?

Q.   Hi i posted something on here a while ago with regards to a guy i've known since primary school all through high school, and now i still hang out with him and the random moments we have flirting and always having heart to hearts and at a BBQ we ...

A.   20 July 2009: No Need 2 thank me babes, its what im here for :D Goood, Writing letters are better than talking sometimes because at times what we cant put in to words we can write down lol. I Hope it all works out tho for real b x... (read in full...)

He replied "maybe you do love me more" when I said "I love you more". What does this mean?

Q.   hi there, I am a little confused and I hope you can help me clarify this situation with your responses. Here goes, my boyfirend and I have been going out for almost 9 months now, we are both in our early 30's. He has never had a proper girlf...

A.   20 July 2009: Hmm thats a tricky situation. Maybe you do love me more ? I would of got up and turned the light on and said "excuse me ?" LOL. Im sure he does love you. Maybe he was too drunk ? Im not actually sure. Have you asked him about it ?x... (read in full...)

I feel I'm ready to lose my virginity but I'm self conscious about my body!

Q.   My bf wants to hav sex with me but im nervous, i am prepared to loose my virginity to him but i feel as if im ready but in the same way i dont. im quite self conscious about my body im just confused about what to do x...

A.   20 July 2009: How old r you babes ? Losing your virginity is something special. If you don't believe your ready then you don't have to do it. Ino your bf wants to do it but im sure if you explained how your not ready yet then he would understand. Why are you ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has been calling me horrible names but always claims he is joking after!

Q.   my boyfriend and i have a very close relationship we've been on and off but recently he's been calling me a bitch a slag and a c**t wen i say thats rude he always replies with im jokin but is he really joking but i love him so much i could never ...

A.   20 July 2009: I don't understand why your boyfriend would call you these things ? You must be so confused.. Next time he calls you a name say something like "why'd you keep calling me that ? If it's a joke then it isn't a funny one. Maybe you don't realise it but ... (read in full...)

Was he ok with me? Or just being funny?

Q.   Hi i posted something on here a while ago with regards to a guy i've known since primary school all through high school, and now i still hang out with him and the random moments we have flirting and always having heart to hearts and at a BBQ we ...

A.   20 July 2009: By the sounds of it, he sounds like everything is fine. When you go camping why don't you grab him to one side and jus explain how you feel ? Jus say like "im kinda confused about the whole BBQ thing and jus wondered how you felt because you have... (read in full...)

Is he scared of his feelings or does he not like me?

Q.   This is quite a lengthy question, I've condensed it to the most relevant details! Thank you too anyone who reads it and answers! I'm 17 and my ex boyfriend is 19. He is in the RAF and so works far away, about 160 miles away from me. We start...

A.   20 July 2009: No Guy' say how they really feel and that's what gets to me because it's like they love up there damn pride that they won't open up. Tell Him That B, Jus Sayy "Look uno how I feel about you and im willing to give it ago if you are. Yeah the distance ... (read in full...)

Is he scared of his feelings or does he not like me?

Q.   This is quite a lengthy question, I've condensed it to the most relevant details! Thank you too anyone who reads it and answers! I'm 17 and my ex boyfriend is 19. He is in the RAF and so works far away, about 160 miles away from me. We start...

A.   19 July 2009: Tbh babess i think he's scared of the distance thing because if he was trying to let you down gently then why is he still sleeping with you ? Maybe he thinks that you will find someone else because he's away so much ? Just talk to him and tell him ... (read in full...)

Am I still a virgin after he fingered me?

Q.   Hi, last wednesday my boyfriend fingered me and it was my first time that someone did this thing to me but i now every thing about these things ... the thing that worries me is that after 2 hours that he fingered me i went home and i went to pee and ...

A.   19 July 2009: Yes you are still a vigin. You won't lose your virginity until you have had sexual intercourse.... (read in full...)

His family really doesn't make an effort to talk to me and I'm shy!

Q.   Im scared my bf is going to break up with me. Ive met his family twice and I am pretty shy around them. I dont really say much, I'll say hi how are you and smile etc, and Ill talk to them if they ask me a question etc. However I am not good at ...

A.   19 July 2009: I Understand how you must feel. Its a big deal meeting the parents for the first time. Maybe they are not making the effort because you are quite quiet at times or maybe they know that your not how they are so they don't know what to say because ... (read in full...)

5 months pregnant need to tell my parents and don't know how!

Q.   I'm so frightend, I'm 16 and I found out about 5 months ago I was pregnant. The guy who got helped in this little creation of ours blamed it all on me and moved to a different school.I wouldn't dare tell my parents, they've done so much for me and I ...

A.   5 July 2009: Just tell your parents. Don't be scared. Cos really what are they gona do ? Shout for abit, then you jus say "shouting isn't going to do anything isit" they will understand.... (read in full...)

Am I blindly trusting him? What do you think?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. My boyfriend's friend that is female always sends him texts saying that she loves him and she misses him all the time. He has other females that he is close with and they don't send texts like this ...

A.   2 July 2009: Thats goood b :). What did he say ? Have things changed now ? x... (read in full...)

Am I blindly trusting him? What do you think?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. My boyfriend's friend that is female always sends him texts saying that she loves him and she misses him all the time. He has other females that he is close with and they don't send texts like this ...

A.   2 July 2009: Thats goood b :). What did he say ? Have things changed now ? x... (read in full...)

I don't want to lose him, how can I make our relationship better?

Q.   Okay here it goes! i am just wondering if you people can help me find ways to make our relationship stronger? i am a jealous person and i try so hard not to be! i think im getting better and i am just a open person where i talk about what bothers ...

A.   1 July 2009: Hi. Im quite a jelous person too, I try real hard not to be but sometimes I just can't help it. By what you said I don't think you have anything to be jelous over. Do you think he's cheating on you ? or is it just the distant thing ? Try and do ... (read in full...)

Am I blindly trusting him? What do you think?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. My boyfriend's friend that is female always sends him texts saying that she loves him and she misses him all the time. He has other females that he is close with and they don't send texts like this ...

A.   1 July 2009: Okayy first off please don't think it's you with the problem here. You have every right to be questioning his trust. If it was my boyfriend I would wanna know why she's telling him she loves and misses him. To me that doesn't sound like a 'friend' ... (read in full...)

Do you prefer guys with six packs or not?

Q.   Just A Quick Question To The Girls. Do you prefer guys with or without a six pack? i ask becuae my mates girlfrieds's dont understand wat the point of us workin out so much is.. so ummm yeah, Do you prefer guys with or without? ...

A.   30 June 2009: I like guys with a six pack. Guys who don't have one isn't bad but guys with a six pack is nicee :P... (read in full...)

I cry hysterically on rollercosters, how do I get over this fear?

Q.   Im going to bush gardens tomorrow with my family and I don't want to be a party pooper ... so I kinda wanna ride the roller coasters too but I get so scared and I cry hysterically the last time I was on one I was 11 ... and im 17 but still any ...

A.   30 June 2009: I used to be really scared of roller coasters, I would shake and nearly cry because I always thought that it was going to break or I would die. Haha. It's a little extreme to be honest. Seriously though you can't let roller coasters take over your ... (read in full...)

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