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writes:Hi, last wednesday my boyfriend fingered me and it was my first time that someone did this thing to me but i now every thing about these things ... the thing that worries me is that after 2 hours that he fingered me i went home and i went to pee and when i wiped on the tissue there were small patches of blood. Am i still a virgin ? and when someone says she is not a virgin does it means she already made sex or they fingered her ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2013): I was wondering the same. I was only fingered to a point but it was so uncomfortable when my bf did it so I stopped. Neither of us had intercourse so we both are still virgins. We have never ever had any type of sex. Oral sex takes away half of your virginity because it is sex but not full blown intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): we have the same situation.. but the difference is, is that my lesbian partner is the one who fingered me, not a boy. I think you are still a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): Yes, you are still a virgin. sometimes woman breaks her hymen from sports, she may not bleed during sexual intercourse the first time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): virginity does not refer to the hymen breaking, as it sounds like yours has. It refers to penis and vagina entercourse and you have not done that i assume so yes you are still a virgin. Some girls are born without hymens, some break theirs with tampons but that doesn't mean they've lost their birginity either. You can stick any old object up there that you want to but if you want it to be sex, then it has to be a penis!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): The blood could just mean that he broke your hymen if this was your first time doing this, you are still a virgin, and when someone says there not it means that a mans penis has entered her virgna, this is the only way to lose your virginity :) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): Definately still a virgin , blood was probly from all the stretching ur vagina and maybe ur skin tore a little.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): hi there,well your bound to get blood hunni coz you havent had sex yet which ovbiously means, (not to be horrible) but your still tight, and being a virgin means you havent had sex yet, fingering is just fingering depending on how many fingers and how far he pushed it his fingers into you he might have just popped your cherry. so your answer is yes your still a virgin until you have sex, and if you think fingering is pleasurable then try sex babe, its amazing. hope i helped x
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reader, Chelle.x  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 Yes you are still a vigin. You won't lose your virginity until you have had sexual intercourse.
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