He says he flirts with other girls to feel better about himself, could this be true?
Q. Ok, guys i been with my mate for a few years now. like more than 4. Lately he will do anything to get another female attention, or like he need some type of validation from another female. He recently admitted to me that he have low self esteem and ...
A. 30 July 2009: This might not be what you want to hear, but hearing 'You're gorgeous' from someone you're in a relationship with, and hearing it from a randomer aren't the same thing. It's like hearing you're Mum tell you you're gorgeous. It just isn't quite the ... (read in full...)
He cheated, how do I regain the trust needed to get over the betrayal?
Q. i neeeed soo much help... ive never asked for help but i need help... he recently cheated on me but realised he made the biggest mistake in his life and we have been tryna work things out ever since... the thing is i dont trust him and though i know ...
A. 30 July 2009: I know it's going to be hard, but perhaps breaking up might be a good thing. It doesn't have to be forever, but perhaps you could just give the relationship a break for a couple of weeks and see how it goes. Or you could both just talk about your ... (read in full...)
Do you think she'll cheat and be with another guy?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 9 months. She is on holiday at the moment in Italy with her aunt, but she has gone camping, and has her own tent. For some reason, I keep thinking she is going to cheat on me, depsite the fact that she ...
A. 30 July 2009: The number of people who meet people on holiday who don't speak the same language and fall in love is incredibly small. I can only think of two - a woman in a magazine, whose 'love' made a fool out of her anyway, and Shirley Valentine.
It's natu... (read in full...)
Does she really hate me that much?
Q. Hi, I recently got my question answered by someone who told me to ask my girlfriend more questions about the relationship, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-want-to-leave-her-but-feel.html Now she doesn't like it and starts blaming every...
A. 30 July 2009: I read your previous question and then this, and it seems like the best thing you could do for yourself is to leave her. It doesn't seem like she makes any effort in your relationship at all, and you mentioned that you have said to her you wanted to ... (read in full...)
I just ended an abusive relationship. I'm scared of what my ex might do!
Q. Hi everybody So I finally got the courage to leave my abusive (mix of verbal, physical and sexual) boyfriend this week. I ended up having to do it online because after talking with some friends they suggested doing it in person would be too dang...
A. 30 July 2009: This sounds really bad, and I hate to say this but it sounds like you should have gotten out of the relationship sooner. And I know that really doesn't help!
Depending on how much stuff you used to do with your ex, I think you should start goin... (read in full...)
Does he want to get back with me?
Q. okay, so i was in this relationship for 6 months... i was in love with the guy ..when the summer started things started changing becuase he was broke and we coudnt really go out and have fun .. so it was if the relationship was fading but the love ...
A. 30 July 2009: This may not be what you want to hear, but from an outsider's view, I think he's just going to hurt you again if you let yourself be vulnerable again.
However, I don't know the full story and if you feel you want to give it another try, you shou... (read in full...)
Is being a 'Nice Guy' a bad thing?
Q. Girls keep calling me a nice guy. Is this a bad thing? Something definitely isn't working because I've never had a real relationship. I never really get close with girls, or talk to them like close friends. I'm "friends" with a lot of girls, but ...
A. 30 July 2009: Being a nice guy is definately not a bad thing! For one thing it makes you way more approachable, but you have to remember that girls don't like making the first move, so if you're not making any moves, they won't either!
Confidence doesn't mean... (read in full...)
I'm so confused by this girl, I need advice!
Q. Girls... OK, Let me give you a brief understanding of my background in dating. Im 14, 15 in a few days and I have never been on a date, Never asked a girl out and now im interested in them, they are very confusing. So, I have no experience yet...
A. 30 July 2009: I'm glad I was able to give you some extra perspective on the situation!
I think it's a good idea to give it some time, but you could perhaps build on your friend relationship with her in the meantime, start hanging out with her more? And get to k... (read in full...)
Follow your heart. What do my weird dreams mean?
Q. I've had some weird dreams lately. And I was wondering if anyone could help me understand what they mean. First dream: I dreamt that my fiance and I moved into an apartment that was in the house that my ex boyfriend lived it. His family and my ex...
A. 30 July 2009: I think the first dream is you're kind of worried your ex might get in the way of your relationship.
If you've recently got engaged, this could have made you worry a little?
Second dream, possibly something like the first, but, I do agree with y... (read in full...)
I want to go out with my friends but my girlfriend wants to see me. What to do?
Q. Hi there, I've started seeing a girl for the past month or so. But I'm worried she's becoming a little too attached to me. She constantly wants to see me, and while I'm thrilled to bring her all the happiness I can, it can be hard work, because 1)...
A. 30 July 2009: My brother currently has the exact same problem, except he's fallen in love with his girlfriend, so he's stuck with her!
You [I hope] can be rescued.
She needs to know that she can't demand all of your attention.
What I think would be the bes... (read in full...)
How should I ask her out? What should I do
Q. ive been talking to this girl on msn thats in my classes and we are friends but not too much friends that i cant ask her out. how shall i ask her out. for example what should my facial expression be and what words\phrases shall i use and how shall i ...
A. 30 July 2009: My advice would be to approach it confidently, but not directly.
Your ideal conversation --
You : So... You have a boyfriend?
Her : No, you?
You : No, not atm... [Insert a few more lines of conversation here] So... Are you looking for a re... (read in full...)
Is she intrested in me or am I being stupid?
Q. Im a 17 year old boy in college, and I just wondered if anyone could tell me if this girl is interested in me. She does make a lot of glances at me, sometimes she'll do it every second or so for a while. I've seen her do it out of the corner of my ...
A. 30 July 2009: It sounds like she might genuinely like you, so don't put yourself down!
However, it can be hard to take that leap in making sure someone likes you.
It's a bit daunting to go up to someone and ask, "Hey, do you have a crush on me?"
I wouldn't rec... (read in full...)
My First Time
Q. So your first times suppose to be special, right?. You dream about finding that one lad who will sweep you off your feet and make all your dreams come true? WRONG. I was 15, gulliable and young.So innocent.The only time i'd ever mentioned sex wa...
A. 29 July 2009: Wow.
Would you like to be my hero?
Almost all of my friends [girls and boys!] have all had sex [most more than once!] and they all tell me I should do it, especially since I turned 16 a couple of weeks ago, but... I don't want to do it just to ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused by this girl, I need advice!
Q. Girls... OK, Let me give you a brief understanding of my background in dating. Im 14, 15 in a few days and I have never been on a date, Never asked a girl out and now im interested in them, they are very confusing. So, I have no experience yet...
A. 29 July 2009: Hey!
Okay, trust me on this, girls are uber afraid of rejection, so no wonder you're feeling confused - we don't usually make it obvious when we like someone!
The first question you've got to ask yourself is, do you really like *second girl*, o... (read in full...)
I always feel depressed and insecure without my boyfriend around. How can I become more independent?
Q. I am always feeling depressed when I am not with my boyfriend, and I already know i am insecure about myself. What can I do to become more confident and dependent of myself?...
A. 29 July 2009: My best friend used to be like this. I'm not saying anything against her, but she spent all her time with her boyfriend until she got completely dependent on him and then boom, dumped, and she was absolutely devastated.
The only way she got thro... (read in full...)
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