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Is she intrested in me or am I being stupid?

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Question - (29 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im a 17 year old boy in college, and I just wondered if anyone could tell me if this girl is interested in me. She does make a lot of glances at me, sometimes she'll do it every second or so for a while. I've seen her do it out of the corner of my eye when she's walked past me. She does like to include me in conversations sometimes. Or sometimes if im talking, she'll join in ask me questions. She's one of those girls that has to put there opinion across, and im very quiet and prefer to say nothing.

She could just be interested in me as a friend but im not so sure. Does anyone else think that she might be interested in me, or am I just being stupid.

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A female reader, Charlpop United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2009):

Charlpop agony auntIt sounds like she might genuinely like you, so don't put yourself down!

However, it can be hard to take that leap in making sure someone likes you.

It's a bit daunting to go up to someone and ask, "Hey, do you have a crush on me?"

I wouldn't recommend it!

But I would advise that you talk to her directly more.

If she likes you, she'll talk directly back at you, but if she's not interested, this will probably make her a little uncomfortable, and she'll try to include others in the conversation.

Also check her body language when she speaks to you, or when she's around you.

Does she face you or turn her body to you, or smile a lot?

I'm not trying to sound like a professional, I'm just talking from personal experience lol.

But you have to take into consideration if you like her.

If you do like her, then it might, unfortunately, be an illusion, like you're trying to pretend she likes you.

If she acts the same way around everyone else, you should take that into consideration, too.

Hope this helped!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009):

That's easy. It's called Proxemics. Does she invade your space? Does she touch you and smile at you. Does she pay more attention to you when others are around? Does she lean toward you? You can go online and look up the signs that someone is into you.

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