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My g/f of 5 years wants to see what else is out there!
Q. Hey everyone, So I'm currently in a 5 year relationship and me and my girlfriend have been having some problems. Last night she told me that she loves me to death and cares for me yet maybe wants to see what else is out there. We are high school ...
A. 28 January 2009: Man, I was in your shoes about a month ago. I spent 4 years with her and then one day it all changed. The best thing to do is seperate yourself until you have a picture perfect understanding of this. It will not be easy but you need the clarity to ... (read in full...)
My ex wants me back and my current b/f has given me an ultimatium. I don't know what to do!
Q. Please can someone help me. I have been given an ultimatum by my boyfriend of 6 months and I am not sure what to do. I am happy with my current boyfriend in every way apart from the fact he has been smoking weed and taking cocaine occasionally for ...
A. 28 January 2009: This situation was familiar with me but I came to notice that she came back because I was seeing someone else(i think). Some people don't like the fact you move on so when they find out they try to come back into the picture. Furthermore, the drug ... (read in full...)
Am I just imagining things or is he not in love anymore?
Q. I have this problem. me and my boyfriend are only for about 5 days. i am really in love with him.. and i just want to make him happy. my problem is: he doesn't reply to my texts, calls and messages. it was wednesday, he told me he's not feeling well ...
A. 28 January 2009: I would just relax and not let your emotions get the best of you. Let him call you when he gets the chance. I'm sure everything is fine. Best of luck.... (read in full...)
My g/f doesn't know that I was on her profile and know she is sending naked photos of herself to another guy
Q. i went on my gf's tagged profile and she sent a message to another guy saying she will send him pics of her naked and so on. i wasnt meant to be on there so what am i suppose to do?...
A. 28 January 2009: There is no option but to dump her. There's no justification for that behavior, thats just wrong. You are her boyfriend and when you see something like that it only raises more questions. I would walk away and never speak to her again. I'm sorry to ... (read in full...)
Sexually involved with co-worker now he's seeing another co-worker
Q. Okay.. I went out with my coworker over course of 2 months we were having sex.. Now a few weeks later he's in a relationship another coworker. I'm really uncomfortable with this. I haven't told them because I want them to see that I'm okay with it ...
A. 28 January 2009: I think the best thing is to not be involved with someone at work considering the conflict it can cause and possibly you lose your job. I do understand how you feel but I would think in this situation you would see that he obviously wants someone ... (read in full...)
How do guys act around crying girls?
Q. I make it a rule not to cry in school, long story short, today i did. luckily, i was alone with the teacher, who's also female so she understands the hormones, etc. and was really nice ad calmed me down. anyway, it got me thinking: what would a ...
A. 28 January 2009: I can't say what everyone else would do but I would be sympathetic and offer any assistance. Most guys just don't know how to respond to a situation like that so they wont, but some do and can be just as understanding as a woman.... (read in full...)
He left me, went back to his wife, now left his wife again and wants me back
Q. I met my boyfriend shortly after he had split up from his wife we had a wonderful relationship for a few months then i couldn't believe it when he sat me down and told me he was going back to his wife he had been feeling really low recently and ...
A. 28 January 2009: I gave my girlfriend of 4 years that same chance and she disappointed. But that doesn't say it will be the same for you. Just make sure he understands this is the last time and that you are very generous BUT also have a backbone. Best of luck to ... (read in full...)
I didn't think I deserved him so I let him go but now I know I want him!
Q. Here's the story..... For the last 2.5 years I've been having troubled relationships. I've dated 3 guys 2 of which had serious mental and relationship problems worse than me! The guy I dated in between the 2 was wonderful! Everything a gir...
A. 28 January 2009: I have been the guy you are talking about. There is no harm in telling someone how you feel but just make sure your hope for the best but expect the worse. We all make mistakes and admitting to them is a great start for healing that wound. Just be ... (read in full...)
I've asked him out twice, he's said no, but I think he likes me
Q. so, thier;s this gye that i like. when i first saw him i thought he was weird. but i found as i talked more, and more abouthim that he was starting to grow on me. at first i dont want to say i was kinda stalkerish but i would talk to him we would ...
A. 28 January 2009: I would not show your interest in him anymore due to the fact you are being let down easy. On the other hand, just wait it out and be friends with him and see what comes of it from there. Sometimes thing do change in your favor, just don't rely on ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my boyfriend but its getting boring
Q. I'm an 17 year old girl.I've been daiting my boyfriend who's also my best friend for a year now (he's 20). We have what you'll call “the perfect relationship”.everybody wants to hve wht we have and we're happy with each other and we really do lov...
A. 28 January 2009: You definitely have to have friends. So I do see the problem. However, just follow your heart. Best of luck to you. ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of my insecurities and keep this guy?
Q. I have my first boyfriend! I graduated early,but when I went to school there was this guy on the varsity football team and he was a senior.I never knew who he was,but He came to one of my friends' parties last week and said he knew me from school ...
A. 28 January 2009: I have been in your shoes once. I let her go and years later after seeing her realized my mistake. It's hard to not let those things bother you but sooner or later you wil have to let these go whether it's in this relationship or another. I hope ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why my ex still wants to be friends.
Q. Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend of 1 year and 2 months, broke up nearly six months ago now, but have remained friends since. His reasons for the breakup were that he wanted to concentrate on himself (his family, studies etc). For many of the...
A. 28 January 2009: I went through this with my ex-girlfriend. I dumped her due to her lack of respect for me. Then I tried to compromise and be friends with her. All that did was create questions to her. Sometimes it can work out but sometimes the situation will not ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my boyfriend but its getting boring
Q. I'm an 17 year old girl.I've been daiting my boyfriend who's also my best friend for a year now (he's 20). We have what you'll call “the perfect relationship”.everybody wants to hve wht we have and we're happy with each other and we really do lov...
A. 28 January 2009: I would advise maybe suggesting something to spark the relationship up. I have also left the one I love for a spark and it turned out horribly. I burned the one I loved, which was the right one all along. I hope this helps.... (read in full...)
Why am I still crying over him?
Q. I am in love with this guy. Simple, right? Wrong. I see him 6 days out of the whole year. I gave him my e-mail address last time I saw him, but he hasn't e-mailed me yet. I never got his e-mail address. I told him that I love im. He didn't talk to ...
A. 28 January 2009: It's understandable to feel emotionally tortured and confused. But based off your age I wouldn't let it get to you. This happened to me when I was younger and I felt like I would never be the same, but time healed that wound. The best thing to do is ... (read in full...)
Do I deserve this mental torture? I forgave my ex everytime she decided our break ups were a mistake, and every time I forgave her she broke up again.
Q. hi i am 38 years old , never married or engaged . I thought maybe i had commitment issues and always thought the grass was greener on the other side . One year ago i met a lady , a single mother and got on really well with her six year old child. We...
A. 28 January 2009: I am currently going through the same situation. My ex-girlfriend and I started off with a year of nothing but perfection. But one day everything just changed dramatically. She went from being all about me to being distant. Anyway, after 2 1/2 years ... (read in full...)
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