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Divorce and why????

This question has 3 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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8 March 2009: A few days ago i attended a church function. Next to me was a young lay of about 21years. We talked had so much fun.After a while she went to get something from her car. Her aunt who was sitting next to me leaned over and said "do you know her ...

My mother is abusive and I don't think I can take it anymore.

Q.   I am 16 years old. When I was born, my mother was 16. She was an abusive parent since I was about two. I can remember being thrown against walls, having glass thrown at me, and being beaten with a stick. I also remember her drinking alcohol and ...

A.   9 March 2009: Get out of that house before its too late. does your fiance respect you? does he understand what is happening with you. ?????if the answer is yes go on move in with him. Please honey i urge you before its too late. try and make your life straight ... (read in full...)

Should I save the marriage or just get the courage to leave it?

Q.   I've been married to my wife for just over 18 months, recently she has become really cold and unloving towards me and our intimacy is now more or less non-existant (it was fine until 6 month ago), before and even just after the wedding we spoke of ...

A.   9 March 2009: Remember marriage is sacred. Im glad you were married im sure you loved each other very much. But the key to any good relationship is communication. Im not sure why she is not living with you but sit down and talk to her. Explain that you need her ... (read in full...)

Am I in love with him or do I just love him?

Q.   I've liked this teacher for over 6 years. I'm 17 right now though. When my crush on him just began I would get butterflies in my tummy before his class but never know why, but looking back I know now that it was because I was starting to like him. ...

A.   9 March 2009: yes thats right. you had a crush on him.Tust me if you move to another school within the first weeks of having friends you will have completely forgotten about him. in my opinion step away from your dream zone. in reality you like him not love him. ... (read in full...)

Do men like virgins?

Q.   Do men like virgins?...

A.   9 March 2009: it depends with the kind of guy. some men want you as a virgin, som dont, some dont even care about it. so my advice is check what kind of a man e is Cathy............ (read in full...)

Is it wrong in wanting to be actress and following your dreams?

Q.   Is it wrong in wanting to be actress and following your dreams? Why do people put the glamour world down? If you work hard in life and you have the hot looks and the acting talent and the right attitude we can achieve what we want right...? Then ...

A.   9 March 2009: dont do something you will regret. if i heard you were chosen among the top ten. i think these are steps yu should take. bussinesses like acting you have to be porpular first then you can make a good choice after 5yars. Im exactly your age and have ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong in wanting to be actress and following your dreams?

Q.   Is it wrong in wanting to be actress and following your dreams? Why do people put the glamour world down? If you work hard in life and you have the hot looks and the acting talent and the right attitude we can achieve what we want right...? Then ...

A.   8 March 2009: Hey girl here is my honest opinion. Think of your dream as a competitive field. Almost evryone is a singer r actor. My point is complete your studies fist. Have a solid career frst, then you can venture into acting as your ream. This is to guard ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong in wanting to be actress and following your dreams?

Q.   Is it wrong in wanting to be actress and following your dreams? Why do people put the glamour world down? If you work hard in life and you have the hot looks and the acting talent and the right attitude we can achieve what we want right...? Then ...

A.   8 March 2009: Hey girl here is my honest opinion. Think of your dream as a competitive field. Almost evryone is a singer r actor. My point is complete your studies fist. Have a solid career frst, then you can venture into acting as your ream. This is to guard ... (read in full...)

He gives me mixed signals

Q.   ok. so i met my bf where i live. but for a year he left to another country and we promised to wait. we would talk online and phone everyday. and his friends family knew about me. so he decided to move back here with me. he came with no cloth, money ...

A.   5 March 2009: my friend this is an issue you have to sit down and talk about with your man. if you want this to work for you talk about it. And one more thing is he might be still oadjusting sexually. its har for him to accept that es gay. when he does it takes ... (read in full...)

He asked if I'd love to come again...is that a good sign?

Q.   Dear cupid Aew days ago i went to a movie with a grou of new peole. Among them was a by whom i really liked. After he movie we went o grab some ice-cream and all the other girls were talking he ket on asking wich flavours i liked and ifi had fun ...

A.   2 March 2009: thanks for the advice its exciting to learn from others. again thank you..... (read in full...)

We used protection but I can't stop worrying about unwanted pregnancy, help, I'm 14!

Q.   I dont know if i am pregnant or not? I am 14 years old and had sex 3 weeks ago, i haven't missed a period yet but i am so worried. I should be coming up to my period in a few days but i am so tired all the time , and my breasts have become bigger ...

A.   3 February 2009: I think you are crazy. For a girl of your own age you should be worried about homework and crushes and not sex. Its not right. I do hope you get pregnant so that you teach other teens out there that sex is not worth it. Don't you respect the man who ... (read in full...)

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