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writes: I've been dating this guy for a while, and I really like him, but he really really wants to finger me. I've never let anyone do that to me before, so I'm not ready, but I feel bad telling him because I'm afraid he'll be offended. How do i tell him without offending him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): Don't do anything you don't want to do or be pressured into doing anything. If he is offended then tough - think about yourself.
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reader, carla3683  +, writes (4 December 2006):
 hi there if this was me i would just tell him you dont want him to do it and if he truely loves you or even respects you he wont get offended by it and if he dose get offended let him cos no one shuold pressure you into doing somthing you are not ready for good luckx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): If he thinks anything of you then your NO will be enough and he will wait until the time is ready. If he doesn't then he isn't for you. You should never feel pressurised into doing something that you don't want to do, no matter how old you are. If he doesn't like it then get rid. He's isn't worth bothering with and don't feel you have to let him do it to keep him. Not on!!
Take care
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